mightyravendark
catcher of souls, hunter of spirits
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I know plenty of examples of non-ideal to even subhuman men that have no problem getting women even with no other significant redeeming qualities that I know personally and upon further meditating on this phenomenon I have come to the conclusion it's because they aren't self pitying, whiny weaklings that pussyfoot around courting women. Most of them just take what they want and have an attractive aura. When I saw some of these guys interact with females it amazed me how fluid and seamless the interaction was.
This is most likely my main issue with females as I have never personally approached them due to letting my fear control me and being a total impotent pussy. After taking psychedelics my ability to engage with females improved significantly but I still have that fear of rejection weighing me down. One technique I used that had some modicum of success is to frame my mentality when interacting with girls around the notion of befriending them. This had the benefit of removing pressure from the interaction because now there was no fear of rejection since becoming friends is more innocent and unthreatening. One specific thing I did was to intentionally tell myself over and over that everyone within a given space was already my friend.
This is most likely my main issue with females as I have never personally approached them due to letting my fear control me and being a total impotent pussy. After taking psychedelics my ability to engage with females improved significantly but I still have that fear of rejection weighing me down. One technique I used that had some modicum of success is to frame my mentality when interacting with girls around the notion of befriending them. This had the benefit of removing pressure from the interaction because now there was no fear of rejection since becoming friends is more innocent and unthreatening. One specific thing I did was to intentionally tell myself over and over that everyone within a given space was already my friend.