most people here are below average

[Deleted member 19101]

literally just be any race, be skinny have fluffy hair nt and be 5'9

if you are mega ugly / short then you ended up here...

i feel like the general population of sex havers are above average... hypergamy isnt fake its just overblown by people who think they only need to be average to slay(have sex) when the median of sex havers is slightly above(average)

 

[Deleted member 5815]

just be nt

 

[Deleted member 19101]

just be nt

you look like you can get / got a girl whats stopping you?

 

[elld101]

*men

 

[Johnnybegood]

I feel like the general population of sex havers are above average... hypergamy isnt fake its just overblown by people who think they only need to be average to slay when the median of sex havers is slightly above

 

[Deleted member 19101]

what im saying is people think once they ascend they will slay when in reality they just got into the population who has sex

only top tier slays but most incels will be happy to have sex just not chad tier

 

[Deleted member 5815]

you look like you can get / got a girl whats stopping you?

I'm autistic but at some point I had it all, living in dorms with a big friend group a LTR etc then covid hit school closed and I became a isolated neet just bad circumstances

still get lays once in a while if you aren't fat or short and you have hair everything is possible

 

[Deleted member 19101]

I'm autistic but at some point I had it all, living in dorms with a big friend group a LTR etc then covid hit school closed and I became a isolated neet just bad circumstances

still get lays once in a while if you aren't fat or short and you have hair everything is possible

yeah most people are sad they arent chads but thats just reality. i feel like if most people can have sex once a week or more then they will be content with their lives like the minimum ceiling for pleasure in life isnt that high but its overblown by gigachad tiktok / insta slayers

i see htns having happy gfs and they dont really care about slaying

 

[incel194012940]

being here has quite loose correlation with looks

 

[Deleted member 19101]

being here has quite loose correlation with looks

no its correlated the average person in rate section looks subpar compared to average sex havers but are rated "average" by this forum

people are being to virtue signalling even on a supposedly blackpilled forum, the general population of sex havers are softmaxxed htn / chadlites so normie doesnt really cut it.

im saying the problems of inceldom are overblown and most should just become redpilled and be more realistic about their flaws but also optimistic as the ceiling for getting a gf isnt as high as it seems

 

[Deleted member 16369]

*men

How can most men be below average? Do you know how a bellcurve works?

 

[Deleted member 19101]

How can most men be below average? Do you know how a bellcurve works?

the bellcurve is skewed

the middle of it is below average looks to women and only slightly past that is the range of guys who have sex in otherwords a bellcurve is useless for rating actual sexual success with girls

 

[rand anon]

short

 

[Deleted member 19101]

i mean like very short

ive seen couples where the girl height mogs the guy

 

[rand anon]

i mean like very short

ive seen couples where the girl height mogs the guy

I’m 5’3

 

[Deleted member 19101]

I’m 5’3

if you are also fat then that limits hgh try to lose weight and see if you grow

 

[rand anon]

if you are also fat then that limits hgh try to lose weight and see if you grow

I’m already softmaxxed my dude

 

[Deleted member 19101]

I’m already softmaxxed my dude

softmaxxed is 15% bf + clear skin and hair

if you aint this you got to go

im not even softmaxxed

 

[rand anon]

if you are also fat then that limits hgh try to lose weight and see if you grow

And I’m 23 my growth plates are closed kek

 

[Deleted member 19101]

And I’m 23 my growth plates are closed kek

wear lifts / LL i guess im 5'11 so i cant relate but theres more important things than height, like percieved height aka proportion.

i get mogged by 5"8 guys for having shit proportion that makes me look short in photo

 

[rand anon]

softmaxxed is 15% bf + clear skin and hair

if you aint this you got to go

im not even softmaxxed

Bro I’m softmaxxed. I get matches and compliments on OLD when I don’t disclose my height

 

[Deleted member 19101]

Bro I’m softmaxxed. I get matches and compliments on OLD when I don’t disclose my height

height is a hard limit for some, you just gotta be lucky tbh

 

[Deleted member 19101]

Bro I’m softmaxxed. I get matches and compliments on OLD when I don’t disclose my height

this is out of my field but if you get a dom girl she might like short guys the relation could be weird but its something

 

[rand anon]

height is a hard limit for some, you just gotta be lucky tbh

I pretty much gave up after my first date. I could tell she was turned off by my height despite being taller than her. And I was anxious af and made her carry the whole convo. I just use old for validation now

this is out of my field but if you get a dom girl she might like short guys the relation could be weird but its something

I tried adding my height to tinder to see how badly it would affect. Match rate significantly decreased of course. Only got a few matches, one is close to what u describe lol. Didn’t pursue it though. No point, I’m just not NT enough to do well on dates

 

[Deleted member 19101]

I pretty much gave up after my first date. I could tell she was turned off by my height despite being taller than her. And I was anxious af and made her carry the whole convo. I just use old for validation now

I tried adding my height to tinder to see how badly it would affect. Match rate significantly decreased of course. Only got a few matches, one is close to what u describe lol. Didn’t pursue it though. No point, I’m just not NT enough to do well on dates

dates are just an outlet for her to evaluate your looks if you get a date she wants you but if you mess it up on the date it sucks... unironcally social skills or not derailing the train will be fine for a date

 

[Deleted member 18931]

w

Bro I’m softmaxxed. I get matches and compliments on OLD when I don’t disclose my height

what would you rate your face

 

[rand anon]

dates are just an outlet for her to evaluate your looks if you get a date she wants you but if you mess it up on the date it sucks... unironcally social skills or not derailing the train will be fine for a date

yeah but I only get decent number of matches and can setup dates when I don't add my height in the bio. It's clearly a turn off.

but if you mess it up on the date it sucks

I have massive anxiety, I literally made the girl carry the whole convo for nearly 3hrs jfl

 

[rand anon]

w

what would you rate your face

htn

 

[Deleted member 19101]

yeah but I only get decent number of matches and can setup dates when I don't add my height in the bio. It's clearly a turn off.

I have massive anxiety, I literally made the girl carry the whole convo for nearly 3hrs jfl

wear lifts and tall shoes and larp as that height

most guys dont think about the girl under the makeup only the girl with the makeup

say 5"7 instead of 5"4 ofc with lifts and shoes being worn

 

[Bvnny.]

I'm not

 

[Deleted member 19101]

I literally made the girl carry the whole convo for nearly 3hrs jfl

just get more validation if you can get them to do that then you have little worries

 

[Deleted member 19101]

I'm not

not talking about you im talking about the delusional base of users

 

[rand anon]

just get more validation if you can get them to do that then you have little worries

Yeah but that's over text. Irl once they see I'm a manlet and awkward af it's harder. If I was chad/chadlite it prob wouldn't matter but a dravidian htn barely gets by

wear lifts and tall shoes and larp as that height

most guys dont think about the girl under the makeup only the girl with the makeup

say 5"7 instead of 5"4 ofc with lifts and shoes being worn

Maybe I should try this if I ever go on another date. My anxiety and inabilty to continue a convo irl will always be an issue though

Thank u for the advice though