Most users use Lookism/BP to cope with their spinelessness

[Deleted member 42490]

People who “play the victim with lookism” to cope with failure are using external blame as a shield against facing discomfort, taking risks, or developing as a person.

The truth is, most people with this mindset have no value, and they know it. That's painful, so their brain looks for an excuse.

Are you fun to be around? Can you help your friend fix his car? Could you help a friend lay down flooring? Could you code a website for a friend's business? Could you add value to a conversation? Do you have things to share? etc.

Most likely no, because you sit at home all day. Failed to launch or is on the path to fail.

0 usefulness -----> Lean harder into coping mechanisms (victimhood, blaming, rationalizing)

I only have sympathy for severe autists, and softmaxxed sub 4s.

 

[Deleted member 175161]

Its kinda nice tho

 

[nestivv]

People who “play the victim with lookism” to cope with failure are using external blame as a shield against facing discomfort, taking risks, or developing as a person.

The truth is, most people with this mindset have no value, and they know it. That's painful, so their brain looks for an excuse.

Are you fun to be around? Can you help your friend fix his car? Could you help a friend lay down flooring? Could you code a website for a friend's business? Could you add value to a conversation? Do you have things to share? etc.

Most likely no, because you sit at home all day. Failed to launch or is on the path to fail.

0 usefulness -----> Lean harder into coping mechanisms (victimhood, blaming, rationalizing)

I only have sympathy for severe autists, and softmaxxed sub 4s.

High IQ observation. Mirin. Leaving like and bumping. Everyone needs to see this thread.

 

[Deleted member 42490]

Its kinda nice tho

Exactly, it is nice, just because something is nice doesn't make it right or beneficial long term