TalesFromTheSlums
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I don't know what countries or planets some of you idiots are from, but....
Bottom line: Leaving the fucking city is one of the best non-looksmax "maxes" you can do.
Anyone with half a brain knows big cities are often rife with big egos, depravity, hypercapitalism, hypergamy-overdrive, endless competition, high ingroup bias, low-financial/income mobility, etc.
You are being highly fooled with the concept of the paradox of choice; the illusion of agency; the thought that more people = more options, when more to be does not mean more to have.
If you assume your chances of success are 1%, & you're in a city with 1,000,000 people...
That's AT MOST 10,000. Now if you also had 1% chance of success with 60,000 people...
That's 600. But at first you may think that means, "Oh, so big cities are good, eh, stupid?"
Until you realize ... More options does not mean more success. Less doesn't mean fewer.
You can be around millions of people who ignore you, or thousands who give a fuck ... Which is better?
Obviously for sex/dating/romance you're better off with FEWER OPTIONS but MORE ASSURED WINS.
This means that -- in big cities -- you have WAY MORE PEOPLE, but not necessarily much more options.
You are BEING FOOLED. IT'S AN ILLUSION. JUST BECAUSE MORE WOMEN EXIST DOESN'T MEAN SHIT.
You can be in places like L.A., N.Y., Miami, etc. It doesn't matter. Those are all incel capitals.
Tons of men jump through hoops there. 99% are invisible in the street to women or OLD.
The ingroup bias means more people pack together, reducing new invitees to "socialmax."
The massive swarm of people means you'll get buried in the crowd more than stand out.
These big ahh cities got 10x more Chads, so you'll be drowned out in the noise non-stop.
You have A PROPORTIONATELY larger number of competitors, cucks, betas, redpillers.
You will face COUNTLESS more obstacles to juggle in massive cities vs. small towns.
And again -- just because there're more females doesn't mean there're more odds.
Just as many women can hate you equally in mathematical sums as well, for example...
You thought you "had me" before when the proportion of potential daters is relative.
You thought, "Oh, he's an idiot!" Until you realize ... Less proportion to a total of likes...
But in big cities there's also MORE PROPORTION IN THE TOTAL OF BAD OCCURENCES.
This means you can easily be more fucked trying countless times and losing than few times & winning.
So why or how did any men get this dumb idea that "muh big cities are pussy-land & it's easy" when...
IT'S OFTEN THE OPPOSITE. Big, vibrant, high-population cities are shitholes of trouble/struggle.
Dating is HARDER in any "big city" or metro-like areas, or etc. You will not "stand out."
You will in fact be MORE INVISIBLE. More crowds to fall in to. More egoistic women...
Who will IGNORE YOU. Who will EXPECT & DEMAND MORE FROM YOU in big cities.
More ENTITLED. More depravity. More hypergamy. More social struggles. More fails.
You are NOT doing "better" in big cities if you're not extremely desirable somehow.
That is, low popularity? Over. Will be incel in big city. Sub 6? Will also certainly fail 99.9%.
No big social groups? Will fail. Not having a niche/marketable "fill in" or support group?
Also incel. See, all the things that can reward you IN NUMBERS proportionately in cities...
They fail to do so. You are not entering a bigger territory & magically becoming a "big player."
In the bigger city, more has to be brought to the table. More looks, more fame, more status...
More "oomph" appeal. Being just a PSL 6 autist in L.A. is nightmare mode still in 99.9% of cases.
Whereas that same PSL 6 autist can become a microcelebrity in some small town more likely.
In a big city, an autistic 6 is easily forgettable and unremarkable, because 6s ARE EVERYWHERE.
Go to small towns & a PSL 6 can be the GigaChad of the land in some cases, not even kidding.
But in NY, LA, Miami, etc. A 6? That's NOTHING. Plenty of incel 6s in big, capitalist shitholes...
But go to smaller towns, out of the hustle & bustle, depravity, & shittiness of big cities &...
You may come to realize bigger does NOT always mean better for you, NO!
You do best where you can best stand out & be valued for what you are.
To be in a big city ... That's to be in a carbon-copy of tons of versions of "you."
You will likely NEVER stand out in any big city -- but moving elsewhere, MAYBE.
Bottom line: Leaving the fucking city is one of the best non-looksmax "maxes" you can do.
Anyone with half a brain knows big cities are often rife with big egos, depravity, hypercapitalism, hypergamy-overdrive, endless competition, high ingroup bias, low-financial/income mobility, etc.
You are being highly fooled with the concept of the paradox of choice; the illusion of agency; the thought that more people = more options, when more to be does not mean more to have.
If you assume your chances of success are 1%, & you're in a city with 1,000,000 people...
That's AT MOST 10,000. Now if you also had 1% chance of success with 60,000 people...
That's 600. But at first you may think that means, "Oh, so big cities are good, eh, stupid?"
Until you realize ... More options does not mean more success. Less doesn't mean fewer.
You can be around millions of people who ignore you, or thousands who give a fuck ... Which is better?
Obviously for sex/dating/romance you're better off with FEWER OPTIONS but MORE ASSURED WINS.
This means that -- in big cities -- you have WAY MORE PEOPLE, but not necessarily much more options.
You are BEING FOOLED. IT'S AN ILLUSION. JUST BECAUSE MORE WOMEN EXIST DOESN'T MEAN SHIT.
You can be in places like L.A., N.Y., Miami, etc. It doesn't matter. Those are all incel capitals.
Tons of men jump through hoops there. 99% are invisible in the street to women or OLD.
The ingroup bias means more people pack together, reducing new invitees to "socialmax."
The massive swarm of people means you'll get buried in the crowd more than stand out.
These big ahh cities got 10x more Chads, so you'll be drowned out in the noise non-stop.
You have A PROPORTIONATELY larger number of competitors, cucks, betas, redpillers.
You will face COUNTLESS more obstacles to juggle in massive cities vs. small towns.
And again -- just because there're more females doesn't mean there're more odds.
Just as many women can hate you equally in mathematical sums as well, for example...
You thought you "had me" before when the proportion of potential daters is relative.
You thought, "Oh, he's an idiot!" Until you realize ... Less proportion to a total of likes...
But in big cities there's also MORE PROPORTION IN THE TOTAL OF BAD OCCURENCES.
This means you can easily be more fucked trying countless times and losing than few times & winning.
So why or how did any men get this dumb idea that "muh big cities are pussy-land & it's easy" when...
IT'S OFTEN THE OPPOSITE. Big, vibrant, high-population cities are shitholes of trouble/struggle.
Dating is HARDER in any "big city" or metro-like areas, or etc. You will not "stand out."
You will in fact be MORE INVISIBLE. More crowds to fall in to. More egoistic women...
Who will IGNORE YOU. Who will EXPECT & DEMAND MORE FROM YOU in big cities.
More ENTITLED. More depravity. More hypergamy. More social struggles. More fails.
You are NOT doing "better" in big cities if you're not extremely desirable somehow.
That is, low popularity? Over. Will be incel in big city. Sub 6? Will also certainly fail 99.9%.
No big social groups? Will fail. Not having a niche/marketable "fill in" or support group?
Also incel. See, all the things that can reward you IN NUMBERS proportionately in cities...
They fail to do so. You are not entering a bigger territory & magically becoming a "big player."
In the bigger city, more has to be brought to the table. More looks, more fame, more status...
More "oomph" appeal. Being just a PSL 6 autist in L.A. is nightmare mode still in 99.9% of cases.
Whereas that same PSL 6 autist can become a microcelebrity in some small town more likely.
In a big city, an autistic 6 is easily forgettable and unremarkable, because 6s ARE EVERYWHERE.
Go to small towns & a PSL 6 can be the GigaChad of the land in some cases, not even kidding.
But in NY, LA, Miami, etc. A 6? That's NOTHING. Plenty of incel 6s in big, capitalist shitholes...
But go to smaller towns, out of the hustle & bustle, depravity, & shittiness of big cities &...
You may come to realize bigger does NOT always mean better for you, NO!
You do best where you can best stand out & be valued for what you are.
To be in a big city ... That's to be in a carbon-copy of tons of versions of "you."
You will likely NEVER stand out in any big city -- but moving elsewhere, MAYBE.
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