Moving to a smaller city -- from Spain to Poland/Hungary

[UnderTheKnife]

I am fed up with living in a big city like Barcelona. It's so difficult to feel normal in such an environment. It got to a level where I miss the mere act of making eye contact with someone besides a cashier!
A little experiment made me frustrated today. I saw a gigachad on the street and decided (out of boredom and curiosity) to follow him from behind, so that I could see the reactions of the women that were walking toward us from the other direction. I walked behind the dude for like a mile, and barely any foid noticed him (note that it's a very active street, so sample size is not an issue). I am speaking of a dude who's like 195cm, chiseled jaw, full hair etc. Not a single complaint about his appearance. And in the case of the ones who did notice him, it was a quick 0.5-1 second emotionless gaze. There was not a single instance of that chadstruck eyefuck.
(Note that this is lifefuel for some, because if women don't look at you in the streets, you may not necessarily be ugly, but rather just happen to live in a crowded place).

I don't know about you, but personally I am sick of living in environments that have become so unnatural to the extent that you feel like a mosquito on the street (I think the same would go for NY/London/etc.)

So I was thinking about moving to some small city / big town in Eastern Europe (100-200k). Poland and Hungary came to mind because I had girlfriends from these countries before. (also they're cheaper, have better looking women [at least for my own taste], less feminism, more people speak English compared to Spain [I still don't speak Spanish well], etc.)

Anyone who had gone all the way into such a transition (ESPECIALLY to eastern europe)? Where did you go? Did you achieve your goals out of this relocation? Is 100-200k a good population or should I aim for lower? etc.

I'd love to hear your stories/opinions.

About me: 7 face, but I'd say 6 overall (due to 5'10 height); Mediterranean dark looks.

 

[DoctorLooksmax]

Girls spend so much time on their phones they are desensitised to good looking guys the see irl even chads cos they’re used to being bombarded by them on dating apps and maybe Instagram as well if they’re hot.

Even actual chads are frauding their pics for IG and tinder to giga chad tier, so girls get messaged by a giga chad on tinder (who is actually a frauding chad) and then aren’t impressed by a chad irl

 

[UnderTheKnife]

Perquè et penses que marxant de Barcelona les noies et miraràn més? A mi em miren vagi on vagi

Because I notice it when I travel to non-Western countries. Of course, it will be the same (maybe a bit less) in big cities in Eastern europe like Warsaw, but I believe smaller cities there could make me breathe better.
It's not just about the girls, but the overall vibe. I want to live in a place where you acknowledge the presence of others and vice versa. I don't want to live in a machine-like city.

 

[Lev Peshkov]

its generally a good idea ig but dude idec anymore

i am completely lost as to how to get girls and see if that shit is purerly looks or i gotta have some social proof or what not

idk dude

ill try and make a guide realted to this (do foids really approach first) and find out the optimal way

 

[Kroker]

Tik tok has fucked everything up, women are daily fed with dozens of good looking men on TikTok and Instagram.

They barely pay attention to people around them anymore unless it's a 1 on 1 situation

 

[Kroker]

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[MikeMew'sBitch]

In countries like Serbia, Croatia and Slovenia 100k city is considered big. Most of the normal cities/towns here have 15k-50k population, bigger ones 50k-100k, 100k and more are considered semi-metropolitan area and only capital cities usually have 500k-1million people. Im currently in 150k-200k population city and it seems huge (i lived most of life in 15k town) but i see bitches still checking on good looking men (not even chads but HTNs) and often making prolonged eye-contact. Chadlites here are so rare you see them couple of times a year. Once a chadlite shows up on the streets/shops its like a second coming of Jesus everyone is looking at him like its young Brad the fucking Pitt

 

[BoneDensity]

Go to Warsaw to see if you like it.

 

[UnderTheKnife]

Go to Warsaw to see if you like it.

I've been to Poland many times, to all the main cities. I'd say things were much better in 2015 compared to 2020+
In Warsaw, western lifestyle seems on a rapid rise. Last time I visited, there were lots of feminist looking women (green hair etc.) And lots of them on their phones, etc. In 2015, my first time there, women were much more feminine.
That's why I'm interested in smaller towns now, I guess they'd still be a bit more conservative and social.

 

[BoneDensity]

I've been to Poland many times, to all the main cities. I'd say things were much better in 2015 compared to 2020+
In Warsaw, western lifestyle seems on a rapid rise. Last time I visited, there were lots of feminist looking women (green hair etc.) And lots of them on their phones, etc. In 2015, my first time there, women were much more feminine.
That's why I'm interested in smaller towns now, I guess they'd still be a bit more conservative and social.

Maybe , I haven't been there in years so things probably changed for the worst in the big cities

 

[p0lishsubhuman]

You'll slay in p0land with your med dark looks, plus you're spanish, p0lish foids go crazy for even below average spaincels

 

[BoneDensity]

You'll slay in p0land with your med dark looks, plus you're spanish, p0lish foids go crazy for even below average spaincels

100% on point dark looks is easy mode in Poland

 

[UnderTheKnife]

You'll slay in p0land with your med dark looks, plus you're spanish, p0lish foids go crazy for even below average spaincels

I am actually Mediterranean arab, but lookswise most people think I'm italian.
I get lots of gazes in poland (e.g. in nightclubs), but I feel once they know my ethnicity, they assume i am muslim (although I'm not) and it's a turn off for some girls there due to the false stereotypes that are propagated about arabs in their culture (e.g. that we fuck goats lollll). I hope that in 2022 they have become more educated.

 

[UnderTheKnife]

You'll slay in p0land with your med dark looks, plus you're spanish, p0lish foids go crazy for even below average spaincels

Which polish city are you from bro?

 

[p0lishsubhuman]

Which polish city are you from bro?

I live pretty close to warsaw but im only speaking from what ive heard lol

Just pretend you're italian, learn a few italian words and phrases (pizza, pasta, bongiorno) and "you're beautiful" in italian and you'll be slaying in no time

 

[Deleted member 8869]

I am fed up with living in a big city like Barcelona. It's so difficult to feel normal in such an environment. It got to a level where I miss the mere act of making eye contact with someone besides a cashier!
A little experiment made me frustrated today. I saw a gigachad on the street and decided (out of boredom and curiosity) to follow him from behind, so that I could see the reactions of the women that were walking toward us from the other direction. I walked behind the dude for like a mile, and barely any foid noticed him (note that it's a very active street, so sample size is not an issue). I am speaking of a dude who's like 195cm, chiseled jaw, full hair etc. Not a single complaint about his appearance. And in the case of the ones who did notice him, it was a quick 0.5-1 second emotionless gaze. There was not a single instance of that chadstruck eyefuck.
(Note that this is lifefuel for some, because if women don't look at you in the streets, you may not necessarily be ugly, but rather just happen to live in a crowded place).

I don't know about you, but personally I am sick of living in environments that have become so unnatural to the extent that you feel like a mosquito on the street (I think the same would go for NY/London/etc.)

So I was thinking about moving to some small city / big town in Eastern Europe (100-200k). Poland and Hungary came to mind because I had girlfriends from these countries before. (also they're cheaper, have better looking women [at least for my own taste], less feminism, more people speak English compared to Spain [I still don't speak Spanish well], etc.)

Anyone who had gone all the way into such a transition (ESPECIALLY to eastern europe)? Where did you go? Did you achieve your goals out of this relocation? Is 100-200k a good population or should I aim for lower? etc.

I'd love to hear your stories/opinions.

About me: 7 face, but I'd say 6 overall (due to 5'10 height); Mediterranean dark looks.

dnr

 

[Deleted member 17918]

In countries like Serbia, Croatia and Slovenia 100k city is considered big. Most of the normal cities/towns here have 15k-50k population, bigger ones 50k-100k, 100k and more are considered semi-metropolitan area and only capital cities usually have 500k-1million people. Im currently in 150k-200k population city and it seems huge (i lived most of life in 15k town) but i see bitches still checking on good looking men (not even chads but HTNs) and often making prolonged eye-contact. Chadlites here are so rare you see them couple of times a year. Once a chadlite shows up on the streets/shops its like a second coming of Jesus everyone is looking at him like its young Brad the fucking Pitt

I thought balkans looked pretty good on average. Tall and masc

 

[thatrussianguy]

I am fed up with living in a big city like Barcelona. It's so difficult to feel normal in such an environment. It got to a level where I miss the mere act of making eye contact with someone besides a cashier!
A little experiment made me frustrated today. I saw a gigachad on the street and decided (out of boredom and curiosity) to follow him from behind, so that I could see the reactions of the women that were walking toward us from the other direction. I walked behind the dude for like a mile, and barely any foid noticed him (note that it's a very active street, so sample size is not an issue). I am speaking of a dude who's like 195cm, chiseled jaw, full hair etc. Not a single complaint about his appearance. And in the case of the ones who did notice him, it was a quick 0.5-1 second emotionless gaze. There was not a single instance of that chadstruck eyefuck.
(Note that this is lifefuel for some, because if women don't look at you in the streets, you may not necessarily be ugly, but rather just happen to live in a crowded place).

I don't know about you, but personally I am sick of living in environments that have become so unnatural to the extent that you feel like a mosquito on the street (I think the same would go for NY/London/etc.)

So I was thinking about moving to some small city / big town in Eastern Europe (100-200k). Poland and Hungary came to mind because I had girlfriends from these countries before. (also they're cheaper, have better looking women [at least for my own taste], less feminism, more people speak English compared to Spain [I still don't speak Spanish well], etc.)

Anyone who had gone all the way into such a transition (ESPECIALLY to eastern europe)? Where did you go? Did you achieve your goals out of this relocation? Is 100-200k a good population or should I aim for lower? etc.

I'd love to hear your stories/opinions.

About me: 7 face, but I'd say 6 overall (due to 5'10 height); Mediterranean dark looks.

Jfl if you think less feminism is a good thing
In Russia bitch expects you to pay for everything
At the same time she has 0 obligations towards you
She cannot be held accountable if she cheats or decides to dump you and take your kids& half your shit
You are also going miss Spanish weather a lot.
You just can’t fathon how depressing it is for 7 months straight here in EE
NO SUNLIGHT AND BELOW 10C TEMPERATURES

 

[thatrussianguy]

You'll slay in p0land with your med dark looks, plus you're spanish, p0lish foids go crazy for even below average spaincels

Polish women only truly go crazy for bbc (Simon Mol story)

 

[UnderTheKnife]

Jfl if you think less feminism is a good thing
In Russia bitch expects you to pay for everything
At the same time she has 0 obligations towards you
She cannot be held accountable if she cheats or decides to dump you and take your kids& half your shit
You are also going miss Spanish weather a lot.
You just can’t fathon how depressing it is for 7 months straight here in EE
NO SUNLIGHT AND BELOW 10C TEMPERATURES

Yeah you're right actually.
There's always a tradeoff. Russian women want you to spend on them, but I guess that's the culture they grew in, not necessarily because they are gold digging cunts. In the middle east, where women are still beaten up and treated like second-degree citizens, the man is still expected to pay for everything.
While in the West, you will hardly get a date in the first place. When I travelled to Russia this year (2 weeks before the war), I landed a date every single night. Though the English was a hugeee issue. We would go on the date, but then end up using Google Translate for everything, which killed all humor and flirting, and so the dates didn't go anywhere, except for one girl.

On the other side, yeah there is the tradeoff of living conditions like weather, etc.
So it depends on the person.
In fact, at the moment, I have decided to stay here and give it another shot. Although I hate online dating to the core, I was forced to try it since this has become the norm here (people give you a weird look when you mention cold approach, or even warm approach). And I am getting good results.