
iblamemyself!
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i don’t even know what to think anymore. there was this girl i really liked, and for once i thought it might be mutual. she’d laugh at everything i said, look at me a certain way, I was the only guy shed ever talk to and i started to believe maybe i actually had a chance.
then this mtn guy shows up. and the thing is i look better than him. i’m taller, leaner, got better facial structure, better grades, better everything on paper. he’s not even mid mtn like genuinely average face and weird proportions. but somehow he’s got this presence, that easy confidence that makes people fall for him without even realizing it.
he just walks into a room and everyone starts orbiting him, including her. now she barely even notices me. it’s like charisma and social power completely override looks. like it doesn’t matter how hard you work or how much you improve if you don’t have that innate energy, you’re invisible.
it’s actually killing me inside because i don’t understand how someone objectively worse can still win just by existing differently.
what do i even do in a situation like this? do i keep focusing on looksmaxxing? should i try to somehow “build” confidence even though it feels fake? or is it just over if you weren’t born socially dominant?
then this mtn guy shows up. and the thing is i look better than him. i’m taller, leaner, got better facial structure, better grades, better everything on paper. he’s not even mid mtn like genuinely average face and weird proportions. but somehow he’s got this presence, that easy confidence that makes people fall for him without even realizing it.
he just walks into a room and everyone starts orbiting him, including her. now she barely even notices me. it’s like charisma and social power completely override looks. like it doesn’t matter how hard you work or how much you improve if you don’t have that innate energy, you’re invisible.
it’s actually killing me inside because i don’t understand how someone objectively worse can still win just by existing differently.
what do i even do in a situation like this? do i keep focusing on looksmaxxing? should i try to somehow “build” confidence even though it feels fake? or is it just over if you weren’t born socially dominant?