Muh "If shE geTs wITH YoU fOr Your StAtus iT's nOT gEnUINe aTTrActiOn"

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Users will claim that any foid who chooses to get with a guy with less looks rarity than herself because he has status must automatically not be physically attracted to the guy because muh "genuine attraction only comes from looks and girls can only be attracted to their looksmatch or above"

But then if these users see a girl dating a broke nobody who is clearly less attractive that she is they will always try find the slightest advantageous physical trait that the guy has because it must be looks and raw physical attraction that's making the girl pick a guy who looks worse than her when he's a broke nobody
"It's because he has blue eyes bro.. it's because he's 6 foot bro"

A girl having genuine physical attraction to a guy means absolutely nothing
How many guys do you think the average girl has been approached by in a club or matched with on a dating app who she was physically attracted to but things still led nowhere because a girl can find a man physically attractive and feel absolutely no urgency to pursue anything with him.
She has let hundreds of men she was attracted to pass her by, she knows there will be plenty more to come so just being physically attractive doesn't mean she cares about you in the slightest.

What actually gets foids invested in a guy is seeing that other people respond positively to him or have positive opinions of him
This means that the jawless twink who manages to make himself the centre of attention in highschool who is in the mix when it comes to all major social events with people from the school will be constantly on the mind of a foid who is way out of his looks league before she thinks about some random goodlooking guy with no social status

So if girls never pursue anything with 99% of the men they encounter who they find physically attractive, but they chase some jawless skibidi twink who's 2 looks tiers lower than herself because he has a bit of social status around school, you tell me which attraction is more genuine, attraction based on looks, or attraction based on status

 

[Whatever]

I agree that statusmaxxing is worth it and necessary, but I’d say it’s more just as a means of putting yourself out there and meet women in the first place. You’ll never even cross paths with certain women until you’re in their high status circles and settings. But compared to the other ways of getting your foot in the door I don’t know if it triggers enough impulsiveness in her for sex.

When they somehow come across a guy who’s hot enough + they’re in the mood, they’ll just invite him over. When they fuck guys in their social proximity it’s because he’s in front of her so much that they trust him. But there’s not such a clear step by step like that with status. The most I can see happening is she decides to fuck him (if even that) very transactionally so she can social climb into his parties or settings where the guys she really wants are. And my theory is this is why girls are more public about chasing high status guys, they want to be seen in a popular guy’s orbit, whereas with guys whose looks they like it’s more discreet and also much quicker. I’ve seen both sides of this over and over again.

So my plans for statusmaxxing don’t involve anyone above me like that, there’s not gonna be any monkey branching, she’ll only bother if she actually likes me. Also not all status is equal, some ways of getting status are completely jester and off putting to quality women, and also it needs to be entirely in real life. Insta is not an option, in 2026 MTBs are ghosting professional athletes, the only status most guys can flex on there is like a joke compared to every girl’s other options.

 

[Alienmaxxer]

Doubt it tbh

 

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Users will claim that any foid who chooses to get with a guy with less looks rarity than herself because he has status must automatically not be physically attracted to the guy because muh "genuine attraction only comes from looks and girls can only be attracted to their looksmatch or above"

But then if these users see a girl dating a broke nobody who is clearly less attractive that she is they will always try find the slightest advantageous physical trait that the guy has because it must be looks and raw physical attraction that's making the girl pick a guy who looks worse than her when he's a broke nobody
"It's because he has blue eyes bro.. it's because he's 6 foot bro"

A girl having genuine physical attraction to a guy means absolutely nothing
How many guys do you think the average girl has been approached by in a club or matched with on a dating app who she was physically attracted to but things still led nowhere because a girl can find a man physically attractive and feel absolutely no urgency to pursue anything with him.
She has let hundreds of men she was attracted to pass her by, she knows there will be plenty more to come so just being physically attractive doesn't mean she cares about you in the slightest.

What actually gets foids invested in a guy is seeing that other people respond positively to him or have positive opinions of him
This means that the jawless twink who manages to make himself the centre of attention in highschool who is in the mix when it comes to all major social events with people from the school will be constantly on the mind of a foid who is way out of his looks league before she thinks about some random goodlooking guy with no social status

So if girls never pursue anything with 99% of the men they encounter who they find physically attractive, but they chase some jawless skibidi twink who's 2 looks tiers lower than herself because he has a bit of social status around school, you tell me which attraction is more genuine, attraction based on looks, or attraction based on status

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