EthiopianMaxxer
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Kind of a vent. I just don’t know where else to vent or how else to feel. I need similar stories, or some support as the eldest sibling.
These past few days have been hard on me and my family. I knew this day would come, due to previous behaviors. I tried warning my mom to find better therapeutic help for my brother but I was not taken seriously.
My brother loves roblox, and making little movies with his stuffed animals and he would upload them to youtube. My mom thought it was cute, but she didn’t watch his online usage. I’m 24, and not responsible for his actions. We were aware of him bullying others online, on roblox, and warned him to stop. He obviously did not listen. His teacher had stumbled upon a video that was posted to youtube 3 months ago, of another autistic kid calling my brother out for his racist, grape raping jokes, and incel comments. Then there were other videos discovered with proof of screenshots of him saying these things.
He is the youngest of 4, and is the only boy. He always hates on anything feminine. When the Barbie movie came out, he was so disgusted when I brought it up. He doesn’t speak on it but grumbles when something feminine is mentioned. When we discovered the videos and evidence I told my parents to put their foot down and stop giving in. I deleted the youtube channel, and any other social media he created behind put backs. Trying to give him a clean slate, because he does not know what the fuck he is talking about. He made grape statements to people on discord, and made disgusting sexual roleplay remarks to girls in discord servers.
Today was my turning point and probably the point where I give up on trying. My mom is working on trying to find some sort of therapist for him, but today really bothered me, because he confirmed that he believes in the incel ideology.
I decided to get him and my other sister, 15, out of the house and to our local card shop to teach them MTG. He hasn’t had his devices in days now, so he is still angry at everyone and I’m trying to help get his mind of things and try something new. Also to show him that he could meet new people and make friends, because he has a hard time making friends. Everything was fine, though he gets upset super easily when he looses. He was getting super upset when I began to teach my sister how to play. I took a photo and he just looked miserable.
Anyway, when we were leaving I saw a “Ladies DND” poster and remembered wanting to join and thought it would be great to bring my little sister along since she loves DND. My brother just got so angry. When we got in the car I asked if he knew what an “Incel” was and the first thing he said was “They think they’re so special” and I was just livid. As someone who has been sexually harassed and assaulted, it just disgusts me that this is his mindset. I tried telling him how dangerous of a mindset that is, but he is so stubborn and hardheaded that it doesn’t matter what you tell him. He doesn’t understand. He still doesn’t even get why we took his devices away.
I blame my parents so much and I recently had to move back in with them, and then this fucking bombshell breaks. They just gave him an ipad and said shut up. I don’t hate my brother, I don’t even feel sorry for him. I am so indifferent to him right now I want nothing to do with him. I have done so much for him as his oldest sister/sibling and showed him so much love. I even asked him what he would do if he saw another man touch me inappropriately and he just laughed. I feel so broken and I know my parents are overwhelmed by everything.
I’m sorry if this isn’t the right reddit to share a vent of such, but man. I am just disgusted over this epidemic of young boys online.
These past few days have been hard on me and my family. I knew this day would come, due to previous behaviors. I tried warning my mom to find better therapeutic help for my brother but I was not taken seriously.
My brother loves roblox, and making little movies with his stuffed animals and he would upload them to youtube. My mom thought it was cute, but she didn’t watch his online usage. I’m 24, and not responsible for his actions. We were aware of him bullying others online, on roblox, and warned him to stop. He obviously did not listen. His teacher had stumbled upon a video that was posted to youtube 3 months ago, of another autistic kid calling my brother out for his racist, grape raping jokes, and incel comments. Then there were other videos discovered with proof of screenshots of him saying these things.
He is the youngest of 4, and is the only boy. He always hates on anything feminine. When the Barbie movie came out, he was so disgusted when I brought it up. He doesn’t speak on it but grumbles when something feminine is mentioned. When we discovered the videos and evidence I told my parents to put their foot down and stop giving in. I deleted the youtube channel, and any other social media he created behind put backs. Trying to give him a clean slate, because he does not know what the fuck he is talking about. He made grape statements to people on discord, and made disgusting sexual roleplay remarks to girls in discord servers.
Today was my turning point and probably the point where I give up on trying. My mom is working on trying to find some sort of therapist for him, but today really bothered me, because he confirmed that he believes in the incel ideology.
I decided to get him and my other sister, 15, out of the house and to our local card shop to teach them MTG. He hasn’t had his devices in days now, so he is still angry at everyone and I’m trying to help get his mind of things and try something new. Also to show him that he could meet new people and make friends, because he has a hard time making friends. Everything was fine, though he gets upset super easily when he looses. He was getting super upset when I began to teach my sister how to play. I took a photo and he just looked miserable.
Anyway, when we were leaving I saw a “Ladies DND” poster and remembered wanting to join and thought it would be great to bring my little sister along since she loves DND. My brother just got so angry. When we got in the car I asked if he knew what an “Incel” was and the first thing he said was “They think they’re so special” and I was just livid. As someone who has been sexually harassed and assaulted, it just disgusts me that this is his mindset. I tried telling him how dangerous of a mindset that is, but he is so stubborn and hardheaded that it doesn’t matter what you tell him. He doesn’t understand. He still doesn’t even get why we took his devices away.
I blame my parents so much and I recently had to move back in with them, and then this fucking bombshell breaks. They just gave him an ipad and said shut up. I don’t hate my brother, I don’t even feel sorry for him. I am so indifferent to him right now I want nothing to do with him. I have done so much for him as his oldest sister/sibling and showed him so much love. I even asked him what he would do if he saw another man touch me inappropriately and he just laughed. I feel so broken and I know my parents are overwhelmed by everything.
I’m sorry if this isn’t the right reddit to share a vent of such, but man. I am just disgusted over this epidemic of young boys online.
