Greedo
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Hey guys,
I seriously don’t know what the fuck to do anymore. I have a girlfriend, we’re both 17, and normally shit is good. We see each other all the time, I pick her up from school, we go out, everything feels normal. But every once in a while she has to pull some retarded shit and ruin everything.
Back when we were together for like 4 months, she went to the school ball. I told her from the start I don’t want her drinking alcohol (I just hate when people drink, especially her). She went, came back, acted like everything was fine. Then a week later she casually tells me she was drinking. I was pissed but stayed because we were already deep in it. I always said I would end it the first time she drinks.
Fast forward, we had some rough times but survived. End 2025 she started texting some random new dude. She was texting him for months. I told her multiple times to block him because it made me uncomfortable and she hit me with “why do you always have to be happy, let me text whoever I want” etc. Brutal mental torture but I stayed like a retard.
Then 4 months ago she did it again with another guy. This time I didn’t even beg her to block him. I started treating her the same way and eventually she blocked him herself when she saw how cold I got.
Now she’s on some class trip. She’s always known how I feel about smoking and drinking (family issues + I just hate that shit). She promised me multiple times she wouldn’t do it. Day before yesterday she tells me she took a few puffs from a cigarette. I was already disappointed. Yesterday she got mad at me for being hurt lmao. I told her not to do stupid shit (drinking/smoking) and she says “okay I won’t drink but I might smoke”. Turns out those few puffs became two full cigarettes.
I confronted her again, reminded her of the promise. She hits me with the same bullshit: “why do I always have to make you happy and I can’t do what I want?” Then she promised again she won’t do it.
I’m so fucking tired, bros. I love her like crazy, I always respect the things she doesn’t want me to do, but she keeps testing my limits non-stop. Every time she fucks up she throws “maybe we’re not meant for each other, maybe we should break up”. She doubts us only when she’s in the wrong.
I know some of you will say it’s weird I don’t want her smoking and drinking, but she knew this from the very beginning. So why the fuck did she even get into a relationship with me if she wants to live like that?
I hate myself so much right now. I cry like a bitch every night, overthinking everything like a fucking retard while she’s having the time of her life on the school trip. She barely texts me. Just occasional “I’m fine”.
I don’t know if I should stay or finally walk away. I’m mentally cooked.
What would you do?
I seriously don’t know what the fuck to do anymore. I have a girlfriend, we’re both 17, and normally shit is good. We see each other all the time, I pick her up from school, we go out, everything feels normal. But every once in a while she has to pull some retarded shit and ruin everything.
Back when we were together for like 4 months, she went to the school ball. I told her from the start I don’t want her drinking alcohol (I just hate when people drink, especially her). She went, came back, acted like everything was fine. Then a week later she casually tells me she was drinking. I was pissed but stayed because we were already deep in it. I always said I would end it the first time she drinks.
Fast forward, we had some rough times but survived. End 2025 she started texting some random new dude. She was texting him for months. I told her multiple times to block him because it made me uncomfortable and she hit me with “why do you always have to be happy, let me text whoever I want” etc. Brutal mental torture but I stayed like a retard.
Then 4 months ago she did it again with another guy. This time I didn’t even beg her to block him. I started treating her the same way and eventually she blocked him herself when she saw how cold I got.
Now she’s on some class trip. She’s always known how I feel about smoking and drinking (family issues + I just hate that shit). She promised me multiple times she wouldn’t do it. Day before yesterday she tells me she took a few puffs from a cigarette. I was already disappointed. Yesterday she got mad at me for being hurt lmao. I told her not to do stupid shit (drinking/smoking) and she says “okay I won’t drink but I might smoke”. Turns out those few puffs became two full cigarettes.
I confronted her again, reminded her of the promise. She hits me with the same bullshit: “why do I always have to make you happy and I can’t do what I want?” Then she promised again she won’t do it.
I’m so fucking tired, bros. I love her like crazy, I always respect the things she doesn’t want me to do, but she keeps testing my limits non-stop. Every time she fucks up she throws “maybe we’re not meant for each other, maybe we should break up”. She doubts us only when she’s in the wrong.
I know some of you will say it’s weird I don’t want her smoking and drinking, but she knew this from the very beginning. So why the fuck did she even get into a relationship with me if she wants to live like that?
I hate myself so much right now. I cry like a bitch every night, overthinking everything like a fucking retard while she’s having the time of her life on the school trip. She barely texts me. Just occasional “I’m fine”.
I don’t know if I should stay or finally walk away. I’m mentally cooked.
What would you do?
