My advice to unattractive people

[Deleted member 17595]

i might not be the best person to give advice but being ugly my whole life i know some stuff



First off looksmaxxing is good but some of us dont have the base to ascend to gl levels. Some of us are capped at being ltn or mtn no matter how hard we try, even with surgeries and thats ok and need to be accepted. A lot of ugly people are outgoing and have big social circles, if you take care of yourself even if you are ugly you might be able to be a part of society and not be an outcast. Both fat guys in my friendgroup have gfs. Bloated ogre in my class goes out to clubs and is closer to my oneitis than i am. The only difference is he isnt absolutely in his head about his looks while i am far gone and we are both LTN maybe under tier.

For everyone that isnt mentally ill and completely depressed cherish that. And make sure to take care of yourself and stay like that. My depression started at 16 and i never told anyone because i thought its just temporary. 2 years later i still struggle and it gets worse. But i was sure that no one would ever care about me and i ruined my life, so dont do that mistake. I will never be loved again i ruined everything but most people especially young still have a chance. I noticed that if i appear happy and outgoing people feel much more comfortable talking to me. My oneitis i know does not like me but she even talked to me first when i appeared happy. Dont look angry and shit you are not the main character you will push everyone away from you. I stayed to myself and now i have almost no one.

If you feel depressed unironically reach out to someone. I dont know if being chad would suddenly change you to non depressed or whatever shit but this post is for non attractive people or maybe even avg ones. I had to accept my life for what it is but i dont know if i can anymore. Might or might not rope only God knows.

Looksmax and if you dont look very good dont be discouraged. You tried, you look clean enoguh and shit just be a normal person.

 

[jojoyou]

 

[Jpg]

just be a normal person.

Thanks bro

 

[Deleted member 14693]

Depression is literally untreatable with "reaching someone" tbh

 

[Deleted member 17595]

Thanks bro
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its easier than chasing a looks level that you will never reach. Call it redpill or whatever i call it reality.

 

[Deleted member 17595]

Depression is literally untreatable with "reaching someone" tbh

Try reaching out to someone, get meds if you really need it. I can tell you that you are not gonna live a good life if you let it eat you up inside. It doesnt need long before you completely lose it

 

[howtoloooksmax?]

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[Deleted member 14693]

Try reaching out to someone, get meds if you really need it. I can tell you that you are not gonna live a good life if you let it eat you up inside. It doesnt need long before you completely lose it

If I had it I would just rope lucky im healthy

 

[Deleted member 17595]

good post.

was legit just in shit mood over how I look bcz of some irl shit. life is so fucking unfair to most of us here and i feel you man, i just have no idea how ugly hyper-NT people do it. like have they no shame? idk its a little weird seeing that stuff, wish I could be like them tho. I'm guessing it's being around hyper-NT friends since a young age, and those are the friends who will still talk to you after aging into a ugly, forcing you to be out and not rotting like most here. I guess it's all just luck as usual, if you spoke to the right people when you were young, someone told you to close your mouth when breathing, and having good genetics it's impossible to lose.

if I don't ascend with surgeries idk what I'll do maybe rope, since I'll have put all that money just to look like the average guy on the street, meanwhile chad is born to just win without doing anything.

problem rn is that I don't have any money for surgeries, and I doubt soft-maxxing will do much in my case, only hardmaxxing would ascend me, so until I go for uni I feel stuck here. trying out some money things, but I need to focus on exams atm. summer is when I'll try making bank to get ready for surgeries when I leave the house.

Thank you bro. I really wanna be a better person. If im gonna be unattractvie to people i might as well be positive and try and help people that need help. If this post makes at least 1 person relate or feel a little easier i did a good job. Life is unfair thats true. I had those hyper nt friends but in my childhood i moved 4 times ended up without friends and a loner. Grew up into an ugly guy and my life was pretty much over. I dont know how to talk and im ugly. Got depressed and thought i can deal w it myself. People still have time dont go the same way with life i did. I remember some memories of my depression fucking me that it makes me tear up just thinking about what i went trough just in my own head.

 

[Deleted member 17595]

If I had it I would just rope lucky im healthy

Thats good bro

 

[howtoloooksmax?]

Thank you bro. I really wanna be a better person. If im gonna be unattractvie to people i might as well be positive and try and help people that need help. If this post makes at least 1 person relate or feel a little easier i did a good job. Life is unfair thats true. I had those hyper nt friends but in my childhood i moved 4 times ended up without friends and a loner. Grew up into an ugly guy and my life was pretty much over. I dont know how to talk and im ugly. Got depressed and thought i can deal w it myself. People still have time dont go the same way with life i did. I remember some memories of my depression fucking me that it makes me tear up just thinking about what i went trough just in my own head.

Yeah I feel you man. To be honest if I can just make my parents proud and happy, I'd be fulfilled (i think). I never really moved around too much, but many of my friends just ended up moving away, I have quite a few NT GL friends rn, just not incredibly close, and whenever I get invited I don't really wanna go because of my looks, so I usually spend the night just playing LoL or Destiny. They always wonder why go like, ah you're such a loser for not going out, but I doubt they would be much different if they weren't GL.

I realize the smart play would be to go out while I have brain plasticity, but I just can't stand myself, I relate to you man. Idk I don't think I have depression or anything, and it's just me being honest with myself. I'm just scared of being in my 30s and realizing I fucked everything up tbh. Like I spent all my highschool years playing video-games, then Uni saving up for surgeries, just for what? a life wasted. idk what happened with you and depression, but if you wanna talk about that you can send me a DM, or wanting to keep it to yourself I also understand.

 

[Deleted member 17595]

Yeah I feel you man. To be honest if I can just make my parents proud and happy, I'd be fulfilled (i think). I never really moved around too much, but many of my friends just ended up moving away, I have quite a few NT GL friends rn, just not incredibly close, and whenever I get invited I don't really wanna go because of my looks, so I usually spend the night just playing LoL or Destiny. They always wonder why go like, ah you're such a loser for not going out, but I doubt they would be much different if they weren't GL.

I realize the smart play would be to go out while I have brain plasticity, but I just can't stand myself, I relate to you man. Idk I don't think I have depression or anything, and it's just me being honest with myself. I'm just scared of being in my 30s and realizing I fucked everything up tbh. Like I spent all my highschool years playing video-games, then Uni saving up for surgeries, just for what? a life wasted. idk what happened with you and depression, but if you wanna talk about that you can send me a DM, or wanting to keep it to yourself I also understand.

I also have some “friends” that im not very close to that go out a lot, but just like you im just not feeling it when it comes to going out. I feel extremely ugly myself but im slowly learning to accept that. When i found this site i tried looksmaxxing a lot. And i had a lot of progress, but i never managed to look good. Simply because my base is bad. I was not meant to look attractive and im trying my best to deal with that. my depression is a very long story but, i’ve looked very ugly and usually i used to be the shortest and weakest because i started school a year earlier than others do. I was bullied and had no friends my whole life pretty much. Girls never liked me either. Lately its been getting worse so im just trying to deal with it. I have a crush on a girl in my class but i dont know how to tell her that. I like her a lot and been pretty much obsessed the last few weeks even though i have no chance. If you wanna talk u can pm for sure, id love to hear more and try help if i can any way.

 

[gribsufer1]

being in a social network i harder than becomimg a millionaire for me

 

[lordfrodo]

Ok

 

[Deleted member 21044]

Another dogshit thread.

 

[Jpg]

Ok

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Bro on the right "just being a normal person"

 

[Deleted member 17595]

Another dogshit thread.

its over anyway. Why cope

 

[Deleted member 17595]

Bro on the right "just being a normal person"

eh bro if daydreaming about the guy ok the right makes you happy do that. we are all diff

 

[vanillaicecream]

Ok if you're going to write that long a post you should present your credentials first and how well your advice has worked for people in the past

 

[Deleted member 17595]

Ok if you're going to write that long a post you should present your credentials first and how well your advice has worked for people in the past

It doesnt take much to observe that there are many ugly people who live just normal lives. If you dont believe that you can kill yourself too thats an option if you think its hopeless. Some of us dont have the potential to be normal or anything over LTN that was the point.

 

[vanillaicecream]

It doesnt take much to observe that there are many ugly people who live just normal lives. If you dont believe that you can kill yourself too thats an option if you think its hopeless. Some of us dont have the potential to be normal or anything over LTN that was the point.

I know that there are ugly people who live normal lives, why should we believe that your specific advice would work is what I'm asking

 

[Deleted member 17595]

I know that there are ugly people who live normal lives, why should we believe that your specific advice would work is what I'm asking

dont believe me

 

[vanillaicecream]

dont believe me

What even is your advice though? Just be confident? Groundbreaking

 

[Deleted member 17595]

What even is your advice though? Just be confident? Groundbreaking

if thats what u got from the post reading comprehension is not the best but good for you buddy boyo