my avoidant dumped me for a htn

[daunas]

i knew nothing about attachment theory, not long ago i learnt my ex is an avoidant(she fears commitment to the relationship and intimacy overwhelms her, because she was fucking unloved by her parents and that triggered avoidant tendencies).

i was doing no contact with her, hoping she would comeback, i kept looking at her reposts, till she started to repost about some other nigga from my school.. shit had me in despair in life.

and today i asked her friend if she has a crush on another nigga? he says i dont know, then after like 10 mins he asks me if i would be mad if she found someone else.. i was like not really cuz we were on bad terms, and if she really did found someone else, might aswell just block me and forget about me.

then she started typing “i dont want to block you i wanna stay friends with you” = translating: i want to keep you as an option

she started to fucking play the victim here talm bout “ull get mad i dont want you to compare yourself to him, i dont know why i am like this, you deserve better, omfg im kms”

but why im writing this is she exchanged me(5’8 ltn manlet) to a tall htn with 5 year bjj and volleyball experience, also he mogs the shit out of me.

i thought bp was a joke until she proved me wrong(this sounds corny but shit this was a live action soul killing moment)

 

[Node]

dnrd

 

[daunas]

dnrd

cool

 

[DrunkenSailor]

Brutal bro

Happens to all of us

 

[daunas]

Brutal bro

Happens to all of us

also she fucking said she hates relationships, but finds a new slave to be in a relationship these foids are out of hands.

 

[DrunkenSailor]

also she fucking said she hates relationships, but finds a new slave to be in a relationship these foids are out of hands.

Just ascend and find someone better

Use heartbreak as motivation to push your ass. Good luck