My biggest concern that i am a hypocrite.

[Deleted member 74902]

I don’t know why but recently the same thought has been stuck in my head that i am a hypocrite. What does a hypocrite even mean?

A hypocrite a person who claims to have certain moral beliefs or virtues but behaves in a way that contradicts those beliefs.

What is my belief? I believe you should be yourself, state what you want to state and don’t change yourself for others.

But i go contradict myself on everything. If i was truly myself I wouldve cut off 80% of people i know. Focus on my religion and quiet.

But here I am, in a society where the norm is to literally drink until you pass out. Have a girlfriend and have intercourse, yell at your parents and just be a “savage” all before you are 15.

But me, who hate the idea of drinking until you pass out. Taking drugs and smoking weed. Being open about anything sexual and being rude to your parents.

Gosh i don’t even wanna write this but i have to get this of my chest. You know i find this society like salt water, the more you drink the more thirsty you become. It applies the same where i live, the more i consume whats around me, the more i want from it.

Im with friends who have girlfriends, couple of weeks later I’ll find myself wanting a girlfriend. Whatever my friends do I’ll probably end up wanting or doing as well.


One day i will eventually break from it, but i want it as soon as possible. I want one night where i got ape shit and just lose it all and becoming truly myself.

 

[redeemthecard]

arent we all to an extent

 

[Deleted member 74902]

Mf who am i lying to, I’ll just forget about the is the next day snd continue on with my life

 

[Deleted member 74902]

arent we all to an extent

but why? Like why are we hypocrites. Why do we see so many videos of people talking about be yourself.

Everyone liking and commenting and reposting and they’ll contradict themselves within the next day.

If i was truly myself, where i live everyone would’ve hated me, but why do i need to care who hates me and likes me?

Why? Why do i have to care of people who doesn’t have the same beliefs as me? What do they do that effects my life?

 

[Deleted member 74902]

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[Deleted member 74902]

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[Deleted member 163319]

Why are your threads being ignored?

 

[crazyguy]

I don’t know why but recently the same thought has been stuck in my head that i am a hypocrite. What does a hypocrite even mean?

A hypocrite a person who claims to have certain moral beliefs or virtues but behaves in a way that contradicts those beliefs.

What is my belief? I believe you should be yourself, state what you want to state and don’t change yourself for others.

But i go contradict myself on everything. If i was truly myself I wouldve cut off 80% of people i know. Focus on my religion and quiet.

But here I am, in a society where the norm is to literally drink until you pass out. Have a girlfriend and have intercourse, yell at your parents and just be a “savage” all before you are 15.

But me, who hate the idea of drinking until you pass out. Taking drugs and smoking weed. Being open about anything sexual and being rude to your parents.

Gosh i don’t even wanna write this but i have to get this of my chest. You know i find this society like salt water, the more you drink the more thirsty you become. It applies the same where i live, the more i consume whats around me, the more i want from it.

Im with friends who have girlfriends, couple of weeks later I’ll find myself wanting a girlfriend. Whatever my friends do I’ll probably end up wanting or doing as well.


One day i will eventually break from it, but i want it as soon as possible. I want one night where i got ape shit and just lose it all and becoming truly myself.

its simply because you want to subconsciously fit in. also, wanting a partner is natural.

 

[Insomnia]

Interesting problem I think it’s a pretty human thing to want what others have

 

[Deleted member 74902]

its simply because you want to subconsciously fit in. also, wanting a partner is natural.

yeah but why, like obviously i'll see a pretty girl and for most people mind it'll go like
imagine if she was my girlfriend. I dont want a girlfriend, i dont want anything to do what others have
but why do i seem to care so much, why do i seem to get effected by everyone around me

 

[Deleted member 74902]

im in a state where im so close by just cutting everyone off and just live a quiet life, like some truecel neurodivergent kid

 

[hax]

real, kinda same here

 

[Insomnia]

yeah but why, like obviously i'll see a pretty girl and for most people mind it'll go like
imagine if she was my girlfriend. I dont want a girlfriend, i dont want anything to do what others have
but why do i seem to care so much, why do i seem to get effected by everyone around me

It seems that you’re just forcing yourself to be different. Maybe you want a girlfriend, and there is nothing wrong with that

 

[Deleted member 74902]

Why are your threads being ignored?

well i would say the title, i mean most people dont click on threads when its about the OP if you understand what i mean. Because then it looks like they're only gonna talk about them and just wanna make it about them. Even though most of my threads when i talk about myself.

I always want questions and answers, most of my threads of me just writing my thoughts and opinions on here and hoping for questions or other responds

 

[Deleted member 74902]

It seems that you’re just forcing yourself to be different. Maybe you want a girlfriend, and there is nothing wrong with that

no, but i don't want a girlfriend. I hate the idea of having to facetime, sleep call and buy them a gift each month for man made anniversey and then not to mention the small holidays that i need to buy. Even if we cut the money, i don't like hanging outside.
I dont like eating outside. I just want to game

 

[Insomnia]

no, but i don't want a girlfriend. I hate the idea of having to facetime, sleep call and buy them a gift each month for man made anniversey and then not to mention the small holidays that i need to buy. Even if we cut the money, i don't like hanging outside.
I dont like eating outside. I just want to game

Well then don’t do that. Ik what you mean. You want something but you also don’t want it. Tbf I also wouldn’t want the responsibilities of FaceTiming every hour

 

[Clqs]

There's not a person on this earth who isn't a hypocrite

 

[Deleted member 74902]

There's not a person on this earth who isn't a hypocrite

yeah but i tend ask to ask myself, why?
why is it that we are hypocrites

 

[Deleted member 133415]

Don’t overthink it just do what makes you happy

 

[Deleted member 74902]

Don’t overthink it just do what makes you happy

 

[EthiopianMaxxer]

Your moral beliefs are virtues are just how you want yourself to behave. Most humans are hypocrites because we don't have the willpower to actually follow them to the extent we wish.

 

[takethewhitepill]

It's not wrong to be tempted, but through Christ all things are clear. It is our nature the same as it was always, man is tempted by woman and woman by the snake.

James 1:14–15 (ESV)
“But each person is tempted when he is lured and enticed by his own desire. Then desire when it has conceived gives birth to sin, and sin when it is fully grown brings forth death.”

Proverbs 14:12 (ESV)
"There is a way that seems right to a man, but its end is the way to death."

The way you feel isn't wrong or unusual. Don't worry yourself with matters of the heart because it is not your domain. I have felt like this before as has every believer and I pray. I pray to my Lord in heaven Jesus Christ that He may make clear to me what is righteous and that He may rid me of temptation. I read my bible and remember that I should not do something to displease God, and that something may not be my actions but my wandering mind. We are not our own gods and we cannot be perfect in this lifetime so you are no hypocrite as long as you trust in God to free you from your sin.

Romans 7:24–25 (ESV)
“Wretched man that I am! Who will deliver me from this body of death? Thanks be to God through Jesus Christ our Lord!”

 

[copester2]

arent we all to an extent

 

[redeemthecard]

but why? Like why are we hypocrites. Why do we see so many videos of people talking about be yourself.

Everyone liking and commenting and reposting and they’ll contradict themselves within the next day.

If i was truly myself, where i live everyone would’ve hated me, but why do i need to care who hates me and likes me?

Why? Why do i have to care of people who doesn’t have the same beliefs as me? What do they do that effects my life?

Idk bro

Live ur life its whatever, we all die within 100 years and are forgotten

Lowkey dnr

 

[renos]

You know i find this society like salt water, the more you drink the more thirsty you become.

I’ve been trying to socialize more often since the beginning of this year because I isolated myself as a kid and finally wanted to change, wanted to be like others.
What I’ve realized during this time is that the more I participate in society, the “worse” of a person I become.

Half a year ago, I was so innocent, no drinking, less social media, basically just God and me
my dream girl would never like the current version of me

 

[Dorsal_]

if ur already aware that u have a tendency to be hypocritical, that's a great first step, and it will allow this behaviour to change much quicker than if u failed to realise it ever. I realised like a few months ago that I'm often hypocritical subconsciously due to a poor awareness and lack of thinking before doing. What helped for me was to constantly think about what I value morally and keep those principles in mind at all times

 

[Deleted member 74902]

if ur already aware that u have a tendency to be hypocritical, that's a great first step, and it will allow this behaviour to change much quicker than if u failed to realise it ever. I realised like a few months ago that I'm often hypocritical subconsciously due to a poor awareness and lack of thinking before doing. What helped for me was to constantly think about what I value morally and keep those principles in mind at all times

Agreed

 

[greeniestar22]

Ok well then don't be one