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Is probably not finding the ONE, because being young it’s all good and chill being single cos u can sleep around and whatever but it reaches a point in ur life where everyone around u will be married and continuing their own life, all ur siblings will have their own families etc

And it’s scary how likely it is, like there’s a huge chance I will never find the one (I think the statistic is like 62% of gay men stay single😵‍💫) so it’s pretty scary ngl idk what I’d do w myself I’d honestly probably rope cos im such a social person I love being around others
 
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Is probably not finding the ONE, because being young it’s all good and chill being single cos u can sleep around and whatever but it reaches a point in ur life where everyone around u will be married and continuing their own life, all ur siblings will have their own families etc

And it’s scary how likely it is, like there’s a huge chance I will never find the one (I think the statistic is like 62% of gay men stay single😵‍💫) so it’s pretty scary ngl idk what I’d do w myself I’d honestly probably rope cos im such a social person I love being around others
Nobody finds the one, that is bluepill shit.

You just procreate and love the good youre with
 
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there is no one just trial and error until you find the most compatible

real life isnt a disney movie thats a romantic fantasy
 
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Still though sometimes u never find someone that ur compatible with and thats sad
That’s just cope the perfect one doesn’t exist you need to be able to accept the other persons flaws, same way they have to accept your flaws to maintain a healthy relationship. Ups and downs will always be a thing it’s how you handle it as partners that will decide if it will last long term
 
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That’s just cope the perfect one doesn’t exist you need to be able to accept the other persons flaws, same way they have to accept your flaws to maintain a healthy relationship. Ups and downs will always be a thing it’s how you handle it as partners that will decide if it will last long term
This is true but also I would say is easier for straight people

I already have predominantly less options anyways, then I’d want at least mtn, appropriate age, correct sexual preferences 💀etc it doesn’t leave me w a lot ☺😵‍💫
 
Is probably not finding the ONE, because being young it’s all good and chill being single cos u can sleep around and whatever but it reaches a point in ur life where everyone around u will be married and continuing their own life, all ur siblings will have their own families etc

And it’s scary how likely it is, like there’s a huge chance I will never find the one (I think the statistic is like 62% of gay men stay single😵‍💫) so it’s pretty scary ngl idk what I’d do w myself I’d honestly probably rope cos im such a social person I love being around others
It's kinda impossible to find "The one"
And yeah it get's worse when you're gay
 
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It's kinda impossible to find "The one"
And yeah it get's worse when you're gay
Yes but I think straight ppl are able to get VERY close, some people are extremely compatible
 
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This is true but also I would say is easier for straight people

I already have predominantly less options anyways, then I’d want at least mtn, appropriate age etc it doesn’t leave me w a lot ☺😵‍💫
I’ve heard the gay dating space is a lot easier, but a lot more non-monogamy etc. You know better than me but honestly just find someone you find cute and just give them a chance you know, what more can you do? Just don’t be too hung up waiting for the perfect one because that’s just a made up dream and you will be fucking yourself over long term, that’s why people end up settling down in their 30s-40s with someone even worse than what they could have had if they weren’t dreaming when they were younger
 
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You will never make out with a sexy tight young teen virgin girl
 
I’ve heard the gay dating space is a lot easier, but a lot more non-monogamy etc. You know better than me but honestly just find someone you find cute and just give them a chance you know, what more can you do? Just don’t be too hung up waiting for the perfect one because that’s just a made up dream and you will be fucking yourself over long term, that’s why people end up settling down in their 30s-40s with someone even worse than what they could have had if they weren’t dreaming when they were younger
It’s so fucked! And maybe my standards are too high but other gay people have even higher standards, I’ve been fucked over by men who are extremely less attractive than me ngl

Idk maybe it’s cos im young and everyone always just wants the fun but idk
 
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Then why arent You blackpilled? Good looking people are 100% aware of how the blackpill works
In what sense? I am very aware of how important looks are which is why I look the way I do now lmao
 
It’s so fucked! And maybe my standards are too high but other gay people have even higher standards, I’ve been fucked over by men who are extremely less attractive than me ngl

Idk maybe it’s cos im young and everyone always just wants the fun but idk
That’s what I’m saying lad gays seem to have an easier time finding sex on average than straight but the problem is just the non-monogamy and hypersexual tendencies. Those niggas just wanna shag everything they see it seems like 🤣🤣
 
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My biggest fear is getting knocked out at the urinal and falling in my piss
 
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That’s what I’m saying lad gays seem to have an easier time finding sex on average than straight but the problem is just the non-monogamy and hypersexual tendencies. Those niggas just wanna shag everything they see it seems like 🤣🤣
Yes exactly! Which don’t get me wrong it’s nice how easy it is HOWEVER it gets to a point where sometimes I just wanna tell someone all my problems without being judged and all that lovey dovey cringe shit
 
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My biggest fear is getting knocked out at the urinal and falling in my piss
Tbh my real biggest fear is probs getting my face scrambled in an accident cos pull the plug fr
 
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Yes exactly! Which don’t get me wrong it’s nice how easy it is HOWEVER it gets to a point where sometimes I just wanna tell someone all my problems without being judged and all that lovey dovey cringe shit
Get ye lad what can you do bro we’re all cooked at the end of the day :feelskek: I’m seething in jealousy at the niggas that get to do that shit:IHATEYOU::IHATEYOU::IHATEYOU:
 
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I think that percentage is inflated by the amount of gays unintered in ltrs
 
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I think that percentage is inflated by the amount of gays unintered in ltrs
Yeah most likely & also how it wasn’t legal till recently so I imagine older people just decided to never give up their life and start dating etc
 
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Yeah most likely & also how it wasn’t legal till recently so I imagine older people just decided to never give up their life and start dating etc
Poor guys
 
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Yeah most likely & also how it wasn’t legal till recently so I imagine older people just decided to never give up their life and start dating etc
Love is life tbh
 
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