My boomer parents don't give af about my depression or don't understand it

[Deleted member 23017]

Is this common? I don't want to live, every time I'm awake I wish I would just fucking get a heart attack and die. Barely any hopes of getting the life I want.

My parents don't understand why I'm rude with them, why I don't care about anything, why I always cut dialogues incl. phone calls very short, etc. I barely talk.

Or they just don't care. Not sure which scenario applies.


Is this common or am I just unlucky? Basically I don't get any sympathy/empathy. They keep expecting me to function like a normal person. I'm anything but.

 

[Deleted member 23017]

@MoggerGaston @Cheesyrumble @ChinkboytakeurBAE @BrahminBoss @Preston

 

[Deleted member 17578]

i broke almost all contact with my family because the only expectations they ever had for me was wageslavery. Everything else they never cared about.

 

[Deleted member 23558]

Boomers arent sentient. If I were you Id looksmax and get slays while making clear boundaries between you and parents. My parents are the same.

 

[Deleted member 23558]

i broke almost all contact with my family because the only expectations they ever had for me was wageslavery. Everything else they never cared about.

most based user of forum

 

[Deleted member 25713]

The fact is most parents are insecure themselves so they don’t want to engage with their own son’s misery as it reminds them of themselves and their own failures as parents. They will rebuke you and blindly hope you turn out ok.

 

[Deleted member 23017]

i broke almost all contact with my family because the only expectations they ever had for me was wageslavery. Everything else they never cared about.

Damn it's like you're me. That's crazy. Mine don't give a shit. My faggot father always says 'we'll fix that, we'll fix that' etc. This faggot said the exact same thing when I was 12, the dentist said I was gonna need to floss and wear braces for a couple of years. Guess what happened? I have 26 teeth left at 25 and not in the best condition. My teeth are crooked as fuck, crowded, and I'm still trying my best to floss but haven't yet found the technique that works for me.

Also when I said I needed jaw surgery and couldn't pay for it (still can't), the faggot also said we'd solve that. Jfc just admit you're a broke, subhuman piece of shit who shouldn't ever procreated. And now I';m just fucked beyond imagination.

 

[Deleted member 23017]

The fact is most parents are insecure themselves so they don’t want to engage in their own son’s misery as it reminds them of themselves and their own failures as parents. They will rebuke you and just blindly hope you turn out ok.

So do they subconsciously know it's their fault? Like you need to elab. Insecure about what?

 

[Deleted member 23017]

Boomers arent sentient. If I were you Id looksmax and get slays while making clear boundaries between you and parents. My parents are the same.

It's not that simple sadly. My health is fucking shit. Jaw surgery with Zarrinbal would cost me 13k EUR. I only have about 6k. Also, my teeth are crooked af. I'll need braces or an all-on-4 implant first then get bimax. But if I do manage to keep my teeth healthy, even braces are gonna take about 2 years based on some of the orthos I've asked about this. And I'm 25.

 

[Deleted member 25713]

So do they subconsciously know it's their fault? Like you need to elab. Insecure about what?

Most men are betabuxing and they know it. When women settle for someone who isn’t good looking they know subconsciously they aren’t worthy of Chad so become bitter. They know they should have raised you better but they don’t want to ask about your depression because it makes them uncomfortable as it reminds them of themselves.

 

[Dr. Bludy]

Is this common? I don't want to live, every time I'm awake I wish I would just fucking get a heart attack and die. Barely any hopes of getting the life I want.

My parents don't understand why I'm rude with them, why I don't care about anything, why I always cut dialogues incl. phone calls very short, etc. I barely talk.

Or they just don't care. Not sure which scenario applies.


Is this common or am I just unlucky? Basically I don't get any sympathy/empathy. They keep expecting me to function like a normal person. I'm anything but.

Go er on those faggots

 

[Deleted member 23017]

Most men are betabuxxing and they know it. When women settle for someone who isn’t good looking they know subconsciously they aren’t worthy of Chad so become bitter. They know they should have raised you better but they don’t want to ask about your depression because it makes them uncomfortable as it reminds them of themselves.

Reminds them of themselves in what sense? I mean I'm broke. I know for a fact even if I thought I had good genetics, I wouldn't procreate unless I'm a millionaire. Wagecucks shouldn't be allowed to reproduce.

 

[Deleted member 16501]

they're too busy having viagra-fuelled sex on a pile of cash to care

 

[Deleted member 23017]

Go er on those faggots

Yeah frankly I been wondering about this for quite some time. Like... when I feel like yeah there's REALLY no chance I'll get to live the life i have always desired, do I just off myself or do I become a voluntary, free-of-charge, emergency room physician for other people so at least I can do some good? If I do decide to become an emergency room physician, would I best off involving my parents? Or should I not become one, and just fucking die?

 

[Deleted member 25713]

Reminds them of themselves in what sense? I mean I'm broke. I know for a fact even if I thought I had good genetics, I wouldn't procreate unless I'm a millionaire. Wagecucks shouldn't be allowed to reproduce.

I know my dad doesn’t have many friends so when I was depressed and laying in bed all day he tried to ignore it and just got angry at me. Probably wished I wasn’t like him.

 

[Deleted member 16501]

Is this common? I don't want to live, every time I'm awake I wish I would just fucking get a heart attack and die. Barely any hopes of getting the life I want.

My parents don't understand why I'm rude with them, why I don't care about anything, why I always cut dialogues incl. phone calls very short, etc. I barely talk.

Or they just don't care. Not sure which scenario applies.


Is this common or am I just unlucky? Basically I don't get any sympathy/empathy. They keep expecting me to function like a normal person. I'm anything but.

fr though, they just COULDN'T understand. They grew up in a different era

even my gen x uncle is totally living in a different world

hell, even me 34 years of age, could probably not understand the despair of the non-rich, non-chadlite gen z man

 

[germanlooks]

The fact is most parents are insecure themselves so they don’t want to engage in their own son’s misery as it reminds them of themselves and their own failures as parents. They will rebuke you and just blindly hope you turn out ok.

This is very legit and the reason why I will never get children unless I live a highly successful life myself. Seeing your son grow up being incel and a loser while you were one as well in your „prime“ is like living through this shit a second time

 

[dimorphism]

i broke almost all contact with my family because the only expectations they ever had for me was wageslavery. Everything else they never cared about.

We really live the same life

 

[Deleted member 21044]

Depression doesn't exist retard. Kys.

 

[Deleted member 23017]

Depression doesn't exist retard. Kys.

Cope like the pope. 90% of men are depressed and doesn't surprise me.

 

[mogger123]

Cope like the pope. 90% of men are depressed and doesn't surprise me.

if 90% of people have it how is it even a conditon then? that would just be normal behaviour

 

[Deleted member 21044]

Cope like the pope. 90% of men are depressed and doesn't surprise me.

0% of men are depressed but 90% of "men" are "depressed". That's how it is.

 

[Deleted member 23017]

if 90% of people have it how is it even a conditon then? that would just be normal behaviour

normalized disease, more like

 

[NuclearBrainReturns]

Is this common or am I just unlucky? Basically I don't get any sympathy/empathy. They keep expecting me to function like a normal person. I'm anything but.

Very common. You must understand that each generation solidifies itself in the culture it grew up in. Most peoples minds are made up about the world after about 25.

Check out this old fart blaming male non-participation in the workforce on 'video games'


November 2022 recording. You should read the comments and see how absolutely out of touch that old fuck actually is. His entire comment section is calling him out.

 

[Gonthar]

 

[Esteban1997]

My parents for the most part did care when i had depression but to be honest I overcame it by myself and thanks god I don't have it anymore

 

[Jason Voorhees]

Parents who don't set their kids for success are deadbeats and shouldn't have kids in the first place. Don’t have kids if you can’t afford to give them a good life. Your parents are setting you up for a life of struggling they should be ashamed of themselves.

 

[Deleted member 23017]

Parents who don't set their kids for success are deadbeats and shouldn't have kids in the first place. Don’t have kids if you can’t afford to give them a good life. Your parents are setting you up for a life of struggling they should be ashamed of themselves.

Yes you're right on

 

[Deleted member 17872]

Parents who don't set their kids for success are deadbeats and shouldn't have kids in the first place. Don’t have kids if you can’t afford to give them a good life. Your parents are setting you up for a life of struggling they should be ashamed of themselves.

That's a bad way of parenting. You know if Parents provided everything to set up their kids for success, then when they are gone you are gonna struggle to survive on your own. Which i have seen happen to a lot of people.

Ofcourse deadbeat parents are worse but you way of thinking is also pretty bad. And results in the same problem just in different direction.