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she offered to buy me chinese food, we ate it together and chatted for 30 mins, she was sorta shit talking my current oneitis, saying she's great but can be too much. (she might think I like her, but wants me to like her) then was like that's why I "I like you so much" She's 25, im 20 she's hot. Please God can I not be being delusional

we had a moment where we were looking into eachothers eyes while talking and near the end she gave me a grin.
 
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she offered to buy me chinese food, we ate it together and chatted for 30 mins, she was sorta shit talking my current oneitis, saying she's great but can be too much. (she might think I like her, but wants me to like her) then was like that's why I "I like you so much" She's 25, im 20 she's hot. Please God can I not be being delusional

we had a moment where we were looking into eachothers eyes while talking and near the end she gave me a grin.
You should be looking into her eyes while she's talking while nodding your head
When you are talking you should look in her eyes at the most emotional parts of your story/ thing you are saying, and look upwards into the corner (not downwards), tilting your head slightly in the opposite direction... whenever what you're saying is not emotional

Trust me
I know a lot about women

Also look at her for everything, good, bad, ugly, exciting etc
Whenever you mention that give her eye contact

Women are not used to guys giving any eye contact
If you choose to do so at emotional/ peak points in the convo, it would be associated with you

Nobody has mentioned this on the Internet

And it worked for me. I'm only ever going to mention it on this thread

It's important you don't do it for unnecessary stuff though. It makes you look deep as a human, and invokes the sense of you knowing where boundaries exist (due to you subconsciously knowing what parts are deemed significant enough for deep eye contact, and what parts are not).

It's worked with every girl I've tried it on
Will take over 20mins of talking for her to see you in that light
I'm far from HTN btw, I'm barely LTN
Have had HTBs and an objective Stacylite (subjective Terrastacy) move towards me, whilst I didn't outwardly do anything.

Also even though I have been able to attract these women, I haven't done anything with them as I don't believe in slaying and neither should you.

Slaying is a cope, that will wreck your soul
Everybody regrets it when they get older
The only people who do participate in it, are the weak minded individuals who let their validation-seeking minds be controlled by the media and those around them.
Stick to what you believe to be right bro
Don't bend it for anybody else's ideals
 
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you might have a chance ngl, how is she usually with you?
 
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bag that bro
 
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You should be looking into her eyes while she's talking while nodding your head
When you are talking you should look in her eyes at the most emotional parts of your story/ thing you are saying, and look upwards into the corner (not downwards), tilting your head slightly in the opposite direction... whenever what you're saying is not emotional

Trust me
I know a lot about women

Also look at her for everything, good, bad, ugly, exciting etc
Whenever you mention that give her eye contact

Women are not used to guys giving any eye contact
If you choose to do so at emotional/ peak points in the convo, it would be associated with you

Nobody has mentioned this on the Internet

And it worked for me. I'm only ever going to mention it on this thread

It's important you don't do it for unnecessary stuff though. It makes you look deep as a human, and invokes the sense of you knowing where boundaries exist (due to you subconsciously knowing what parts are deemed significant enough for deep eye contact, and what parts are not).

It's worked with every girl I've tried it on
Will take over 20mins of talking for her to see you in that light
I'm far from HTN btw, I'm barely LTN
Have had HTBs and an objective Stacylite (subjective Terrastacy) move towards me, whilst I didn't outwardly do anything.

Also even though I have been able to attract these women, I haven't done anything with them as I don't believe in slaying and neither should you.

Slaying is a cope, that will wreck your soul
Everybody regrets it when they get older
The only people who do participate in it, are the weak minded individuals who let their validation-seeking minds be controlled by the media and those around them.
Stick to what you believe to be right bro
Don't bend it for anybody else's ideals
You attracted them but did nothing lol whats that cope
 
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she offered to buy me chinese food, we ate it together and chatted for 30 mins, she was sorta shit talking my current oneitis, saying she's great but can be too much. (she might think I like her, but wants me to like her) then was like that's why I "I like you so much" She's 25, im 20 she's hot. Please God can I not be being delusional

we had a moment where we were looking into eachothers eyes while talking and near the end she gave me a grin.
Fuck her so you dont have to go to work anymore
 
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Cope, you never leave your house, you never talked to a woman, nobody in real life knows you exist, there are no women falling in love with you. You wish you had these things, but you don’t, so you try to live in a fantasy world
 
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You attracted them but did nothing lol whats that cope
I don't think you understand.
These women over the course of a few meetings were calling me "fine", had their hands down my shirt that they forced themselves, were holding my hands themselves, had their arms around my legs, were asking me to pull their hair etc

I didn't reciprocate any of this back
I didn't even give an objective direct IOI to them
I didn't really give them much attention tbh, but when I did it was associated with strong feelings like I mentioned

Don't go full autistic mode btw
I think you should initially be friendly/ joking with the girl
Light humour but don't jester/ play the friend role

Then you should in one to one convo be deeper/ light hearted but genuine
I am not bullshitting when I say, I legit called nearly all of them fat in a joking way
Where me and the girl both knew I'm joking.
One girl was telling me about her gym routine and I said "You should do some cardio while you're at it", in a funny, over exaggerated way

She started laughing a lot
I didn't do it to offend her or make her feel bad. I wasn't even trying to pull this girl either
Just wanted to be genuine. I think women can unironically see that shit

Like I said, I didn't do anything with any of these women. People can say what they want, like you
But true strength doesn't come from being capable of doing something, it comes from being capable yet excercising the self-restraint when appropriate
 
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You should be looking into her eyes while she's talking while nodding your head
When you are talking you should look in her eyes at the most emotional parts of your story/ thing you are saying, and look upwards into the corner (not downwards), tilting your head slightly in the opposite direction... whenever what you're saying is not emotional

Trust me
I know a lot about women

Also look at her for everything, good, bad, ugly, exciting etc
Whenever you mention that give her eye contact

Women are not used to guys giving any eye contact
If you choose to do so at emotional/ peak points in the convo, it would be associated with you

Nobody has mentioned this on the Internet

And it worked for me. I'm only ever going to mention it on this thread

It's important you don't do it for unnecessary stuff though. It makes you look deep as a human, and invokes the sense of you knowing where boundaries exist (due to you subconsciously knowing what parts are deemed significant enough for deep eye contact, and what parts are not).

It's worked with every girl I've tried it on
Will take over 20mins of talking for her to see you in that light
I'm far from HTN btw, I'm barely LTN
Have had HTBs and an objective Stacylite (subjective Terrastacy) move towards me, whilst I didn't outwardly do anything.

Also even though I have been able to attract these women, I haven't done anything with them as I don't believe in slaying and neither should you.

Slaying is a cope, that will wreck your soul
Everybody regrets it when they get older
The only people who do participate in it, are the weak minded individuals who let their validation-seeking minds be controlled by the media and those around them.
Stick to what you believe to be right bro
Don't bend it for anybody else's ideals
There's no way you are LTN and have such high level of experience/knowledge about women. Another good post by you my friend.
 
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You should be looking into her eyes while she's talking while nodding your head
When you are talking you should look in her eyes at the most emotional parts of your story/ thing you are saying, and look upwards into the corner (not downwards), tilting your head slightly in the opposite direction... whenever what you're saying is not emotional

Trust me
I know a lot about women

Also look at her for everything, good, bad, ugly, exciting etc
Whenever you mention that give her eye contact

Women are not used to guys giving any eye contact
If you choose to do so at emotional/ peak points in the convo, it would be associated with you

Nobody has mentioned this on the Internet

And it worked for me. I'm only ever going to mention it on this thread

It's important you don't do it for unnecessary stuff though. It makes you look deep as a human, and invokes the sense of you knowing where boundaries exist (due to you subconsciously knowing what parts are deemed significant enough for deep eye contact, and what parts are not).

It's worked with every girl I've tried it on
Will take over 20mins of talking for her to see you in that light
I'm far from HTN btw, I'm barely LTN
Have had HTBs and an objective Stacylite (subjective Terrastacy) move towards me, whilst I didn't outwardly do anything.

Also even though I have been able to attract these women, I haven't done anything with them as I don't believe in slaying and neither should you.

Slaying is a cope, that will wreck your soul
Everybody regrets it when they get older
The only people who do participate in it, are the weak minded individuals who let their validation-seeking minds be controlled by the media and those around them.
Stick to what you believe to be right bro
Don't bend it for anybody else's ideals
You are not LTN, your soul is terrachad tier tbh, i didn't even read the bottom bit prior to my previous comment, 10/10. Are you religious?
 
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You are not LTN, your soul is terrachad tier tbh, i didn't even read the bottom bit prior to my previous comment, 10/10. Are you religious?
Thank you man
I really appreciate these words, you have no idea 🥰
But truth is, I'm far from terrachad tier soul.
I say this because I genuinely know one person in my life who has a terrachad tier soul

He was born that way. He never cried once, not even when his own parents passed away from ilness at a young age.
People thought he was cold inside, but the truth is from that young age he didn't have any attachment to anything or anybody.
He loved everybody and their souls but was never attached.
A very fine line, that only very very few old people will ever reach, after they've lived a long life..
And he was born like that.

He dedicated his life working in the military for getting enough money for his younger siblings to have good lives, even though he would've liked an education too.

He truly has one of the purest souls on this Earth
And I'm talking objectively, not subjectively

He lives in his own reality/dimension

Objectively, one out of 100s of millions of souls

I was completely oblivious to him too. I never actually acknowledged it. And honestly I would've gone down a completely wrong, immoral path if he wasn't in my life.
Out of millions of lives, I'm lucky enough to have somebody like him in my life
The chances of even having someone like that is gigachad rarity in itself.

The closest I've ever seen somebody to his level was in the video I posted on this thread:

But yeh. If I leave this Earth with even anything remotely close to the level of soul he had, I'd be beyond fulfilled.


Yeah bro I am religious. What about you?
 
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Thank you man
I really appreciate these words, you have no idea 🥰
But truth is, I'm far from terrachad tier soul.
I say this because I genuinely know one person in my life who has a terrachad tier soul

He was born that way. He never cried once, not even when his own parents passed away from ilness at a young age.
People thought he was cold inside, but the truth is from that young age he didn't have any attachment to anything or anybody.
He loved everybody and their souls but was never attached.
A very fine line, that only very very few old people will ever reach, after they've lived a long life..
And he was born like that.

He dedicated his life working in the military for getting enough money for his younger siblings to have good lives, even though he would've liked an education too.

He's truly has one of the purest souls on this Earth
And I'm talking objectively, not subjectively

He lives in his own reality/dimension

Objectively, one out of 100s of millions of souls

I was completely oblivious to him too. I never actually acknowledged it. And honestly I would've gone down a completely wrong, immoral path if he wasn't in my life.
Out of millions of lives, I'm lucky enough to have somebody like him in my life
The chances of even having someone like that is gigachad rarity in itself.

The closest I've ever seen somebody to his level was in the video I posted on this thread:

But yeh. If I leave this Earth with even anything remotely close to the level of soul he had, I'd be beyond fulfilled.


Yeah bro I am religious. What about you?
Well this person sounds like a 1 in a billion type person, unfortunately i cannot say i have met someone like this IRL myself. Most people i've met are spiritually bankrupt. Sounds like he has some kind of detachment but to have it from such a young age is very unusual, i would expect such a thing after a traumatic event but it seems he has it without anything happening to him as you state he was like that even prior to his parents passing so who knows.
Are you christian? yes i am religious, although i could be more, i'm muslim btw. I wonder my friend.. i truly wonder about my soul and my spirit, what i've done in this life and how it will/has affected my soul. Unfortunately most people i meet IRL are not it, i can detect straight away they are spiritually weak and not someone i should associate with. A true soul, a kind and pure soul is very very difficult to come by. I have yet to meet someone IRL like this, you are fortunate to have such a person as your friend. I have met someone online who has a very good/kind soul and that is @Salino438 But yet to meet someone IRL. I read that thread of yours not too long ago when you made it, good read. I have a bunch of your posts/threads bookmarked which i haven't had time to really go back and read/digest but will get around to it, some questions for you aswell.
 
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Cope, you never leave your house, you never talked to a woman, nobody in real life knows you exist, there are no women falling in love with you. You wish you had these things, but you don’t, so you try to live in a fantasy world
Stop hating
 
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you might have a chance ngl, how is she usually with you?
Not much has happened since tbh, idk talked with her today and it went ok. Lol. Doubt anything will happen
 
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Not much has happened since tbh, idk talked with her today and it went ok. Lol. Doubt anything will happen
Yeah sad, ask her for a meal
 
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Well this person sounds like a 1 in a billion type person, unfortunately i cannot say i have met someone like this IRL myself. Most people i've met are spiritually bankrupt. Sounds like he has some kind of detachment but to have it from such a young age is very unusual, i would expect such a thing after a traumatic event but it seems he has it without anything happening to him as you state he was like that even prior to his parents passing so who knows.
Are you christian? yes i am religious, although i could be more, i'm muslim btw. I wonder my friend.. i truly wonder about my soul and my spirit, what i've done in this life and how it will/has affected my soul. Unfortunately most people i meet IRL are not it, i can detect straight away they are spiritually weak and not someone i should associate with. A true soul, a kind and pure soul is very very difficult to come by. I have yet to meet someone IRL like this, you are fortunate to have such a person as your friend. I have met someone online who has a very good/kind soul and that is @Salino438 But yet to meet someone IRL. I read that thread of yours not too long ago when you made it, good read. I have a bunch of your posts/threads bookmarked which i haven't had time to really go back and read/digest but will get around to it, some questions for you aswell.
Yeah man, he had it prior to his parents passing. He was born like that. Only after inquiring about his childhood did I find out all of this
He's unfathomably calm

I know of this old lady, who practices black magic, and she herself said to this man's wife, that she was extremely lucky to find a man of this magnitude

Nah bro, I'm not Christian. My mum is Iranian and my dad is Punjabi. I'm Sikh, but I respect all religions.
"Sikhs believe they have no right to impose their beliefs on others or even to cajole members of other religions to convert.
Such practices are strictly forbidden in Sikhism. Sikhs are required to defend the freedom of worship of other religions just as they would their own.
Sikhs do not believe that followers of other religions are doomed in the eyes of God regardless of their personal character and behavior, nor does being born into a Sikh family guarantee salvation."

I don't keep my hair.. haven't done so from birth. At first I felt guilty about it.. But then I learnt, in our religion, the point of keeping hair is a form of brotherhood, similar to the Umrah in Islam I believe?
But yeah, somebody who doesn't keep their hair and is a pious man, would be treated the same as somebody who keeps their hair and is pious too.
Somebody who doesn't keep their hair and is pious, will be seen as far virtuous and moral in the eyes of God, than somebody who kept their hair but was impious/ immoral.

It's also to show others that they can depend on a Sikh, and to remind the Sikh to do good/ help another if they are in trouble.
A protective measure for themselves of sorts.

But going back to respecting all religions, it comes from our holy texts that have good people irrespective of their religion in it. They have writers from Hinduism, Islam, Judaism, Jainism, Christianity, Buddhism. These are all teachings and mystic messages, namely in the form of hymns.
I believe it's the only religious scripture, that has contributions from other religions.

Which is why I have the upmost respect for anybody chasing their idea of morality, whatever religion they might be.

I wonder my friend.. i truly wonder about my soul and my spirit, what i've done in this life and how it will/has affected my soul.
The fact that you are even pondering this topic, means you are going to do well in this life man
Just do the best you truly believe in, that's what matters the most.
Despite whether you could've done better or not, just make sure you stick to what you believe to be correct
Don't ever become lenient with doing something you don't believe in, because then you will allow all sorts of shit into your life.
That complacency "here and there", will affect you far more than you can imagine


Unfortunately most people i meet IRL are not it, i can detect straight away they are spiritually weak and not someone i should associate with. A true soul, a kind and pure soul is very very difficult to come by. I have yet to meet someone IRL like this, you are fortunate to have such a person as your friend. I have met someone online who has a very good/kind soul and that is @ S @Salino438 But yet to meet someone IRL. I read that thread of yours not too long ago when you made it, good read. I have a bunch of your posts/threads bookmarked which i haven't had time to really go back and read/digest but will get around to it, some questions for you aswell.
You have a Chad+ soul for sure man

I can tell.. because even though you are associated with negativity that most normies don't even experience a tenth of (and still bend the knee to), yet you are persevering; shows me that you've got an exceptionally rare soul.
And you reached this out of your own accord, without a strong figure in your life

You continue going down this path man, and you stand to gain everything
Good stuff bro :Comfy:

Oh, and if you got any questions about anything, any post, then feel free to ask me!
 
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I don't think you understand.
These women over the course of a few meetings were calling me "fine", had their hands down my shirt that they forced themselves, were holding my hands themselves, had their arms around my legs, were asking me to pull their hair etc

I didn't reciprocate any of this back
I didn't even give an objective direct IOI to them
I didn't really give them much attention tbh, but when I did it was associated with strong feelings like I mentioned

Don't go full autistic mode btw
I think you should initially be friendly/ joking with the girl
Light humour but don't jester/ play the friend role

Then you should in one to one convo be deeper/ light hearted but genuine
I am not bullshitting when I say, I legit called nearly all of them fat in a joking way
Where me and the girl both knew I'm joking.
One girl was telling me about her gym routine and I said "You should do some cardio while you're at it", in a funny, over exaggerated way

She started laughing a lot
I didn't do it to offend her or make her feel bad. I wasn't even trying to pull this girl either
Just wanted to be genuine. I think women can unironically see that shit

Like I said, I didn't do anything with any of these women. People can say what they want, like you
But true strength doesn't come from being capable of doing something, it comes from being capable yet excercising the self-restraint when appropriate
Why? Whats the point i dont get it not like youre hurting anyone
 
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Cope, you never leave your house, you never talked to a woman, nobody in real life knows you exist, there are no women falling in love with you. You wish you had these things, but you don’t, so you try to live in a fantasy world
I didnt mean this
 
You should be looking into her eyes while she's talking while nodding your head
When you are talking you should look in her eyes at the most emotional parts of your story/ thing you are saying, and look upwards into the corner (not downwards), tilting your head slightly in the opposite direction... whenever what you're saying is not emotional

Trust me
I know a lot about women

Also look at her for everything, good, bad, ugly, exciting etc
Whenever you mention that give her eye contact

Women are not used to guys giving any eye contact
If you choose to do so at emotional/ peak points in the convo, it would be associated with you

Nobody has mentioned this on the Internet

And it worked for me. I'm only ever going to mention it on this thread

It's important you don't do it for unnecessary stuff though. It makes you look deep as a human, and invokes the sense of you knowing where boundaries exist (due to you subconsciously knowing what parts are deemed significant enough for deep eye contact, and what parts are not).

It's worked with every girl I've tried it on
Will take over 20mins of talking for her to see you in that light
I'm far from HTN btw, I'm barely LTN
Have had HTBs and an objective Stacylite (subjective Terrastacy) move towards me, whilst I didn't outwardly do anything.

Also even though I have been able to attract these women, I haven't done anything with them as I don't believe in slaying and neither should you.

Slaying is a cope, that will wreck your soul
Everybody regrets it when they get older
The only people who do participate in it, are the weak minded individuals who let their validation-seeking minds be controlled by the media and those around them.
Stick to what you believe to be right bro
Don't bend it for anybody else's ideals
open a thread and tell us about it
 
she offered to buy me chinese food, we ate it together and chatted for 30 mins, she was sorta shit talking my current oneitis, saying she's great but can be too much. (she might think I like her, but wants me to like her) then was like that's why I "I like you so much" She's 25, im 20 she's hot. Please God can I not be being delusional

we had a moment where we were looking into eachothers eyes while talking and near the end she gave me a grin.
This sounds like grooming, you know...when an older person tries to take advantage of a young, inexperienced one...
i
 
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I'm barely LTN
Have had HTBs and an objective Stacylite (subjective Terrastacy) move towards me, whilst I didn't outwardly do anything.
Thought I was having a good read until I read this.
Pls go back to reddit.
 
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Thought I was having a good read until I read this.
Pls go back to reddit.
Not lying brother. I made a thread on this a few times on this site:

It's all true btw.
I have a Chad+ eye area, but I'm LTN overall due to being downgrown and crooked nose (truecel craniofacial development, from braces with elastics for 7 yrs, where avg is 2 for ppl who even get braces... and I also had 4 premolar extractions before puberty jfl)

This specific Stacylite said I was exactly her type too. So even though I'm an objective LTN, for her subjectively I was probably a HTN/Chadlite minimum
This wasn't the case for the HTBs though. They didn't show any signs of me being their type beforehand

I genuinely would have picked this girl over Adriana Lima, before I even talked with her. She was way prettier for me.
She was exactly my type. I could've slightly made a morph barely more attractive than she was to me
 
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