alien
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She was legit telling me, "why do you like me? Why not date a girl who lives closer/has her own place/drives/is prettier/etc." I told her that after two months on POF I only slept with two women. And she's like "but you're handsome and have a big penis. I'm afraid you're going to leave me."
Everyone who gets in my ear tells me that my gf is a loser and that I should dump her ASAP. That I can do better. But the reality of the situation is that when it comes to online dating, men in their 30s HIT THE WALL HARD. If you are 34 and you don't want kids and don't want to marry or cohabitate, good luck finding a girl. And even when I did, the filipina single mom tried to get me to reconsider having kids. And my Chink doesn't want kids but she wants me to reconsider marriage. Even Yogapants wanted me to get a job and move in with her.
The bottom line is most women on dating sites are just looking for attention, validation, foodie/Uber dates. Or they are holding out for Chad. Or like the filipina single mom they are just a thot who fucks a bunch of dudes (she went to bed with me and didn't protest when I stuck my flaccid penis in her pussy raw and she is online on POF on a daily basis. What does that tell you?). So when you find a girl on a dating site who is serious about finding a boyfriend, they are super shocked when you tell them how hard it is for men on dating sites.
After the first time we had sex, the Chink asked me if this was only going to be a one time thing. As if she was expecting me to pump n dump her. So I think she is just bewildered that I'm stuck around this long. Because she never thought to consider how tough the dating scene is in 2019.
Everyone who gets in my ear tells me that my gf is a loser and that I should dump her ASAP. That I can do better. But the reality of the situation is that when it comes to online dating, men in their 30s HIT THE WALL HARD. If you are 34 and you don't want kids and don't want to marry or cohabitate, good luck finding a girl. And even when I did, the filipina single mom tried to get me to reconsider having kids. And my Chink doesn't want kids but she wants me to reconsider marriage. Even Yogapants wanted me to get a job and move in with her.
The bottom line is most women on dating sites are just looking for attention, validation, foodie/Uber dates. Or they are holding out for Chad. Or like the filipina single mom they are just a thot who fucks a bunch of dudes (she went to bed with me and didn't protest when I stuck my flaccid penis in her pussy raw and she is online on POF on a daily basis. What does that tell you?). So when you find a girl on a dating site who is serious about finding a boyfriend, they are super shocked when you tell them how hard it is for men on dating sites.
After the first time we had sex, the Chink asked me if this was only going to be a one time thing. As if she was expecting me to pump n dump her. So I think she is just bewildered that I'm stuck around this long. Because she never thought to consider how tough the dating scene is in 2019.