mulattomaxxer
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Then it’s not real self esteem. Real self esteem isn’t attributed to environmental outcomes, then it’s forever fluctuating like that of a narcissist.
Constant and consist interactions challenge your ego. If you feel broken as a result, this is good, as it shows what insecurities your ego was masking and now you have the opportunity to overcome them and build REAL confidence and self esteem, things that will take you to the TOP in dating, occupation, everything.
Self esteem is effected by outcome, this is a normal human trait. If your failing at every aspect in life and you have high self esteem you are delusional. Having low self esteem isnt completely bad, you are just recognising you suck. The problem is that if you have low self esteem this means you recognise the problem but your problably not going to do anything to improve your life because you think u suck (currently you do).
If a kid lives in a shithole with abusive parents and gets bullied at school then the natural outcome of this is that he would have low self esteem. This is because of enviromental factors (This isnt me projecting my childhood was pretty normal). Your self esteem changes due to enviromental factors.