KngNrdy99
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my confidence guide
Confidence is one of the most important factors in overall life.
Looks only add as bonus points but confidence + looks is key
I also used this to pull baddies throughout high school as a lltn.
5 star tips
overall confidence around people
Confidence is one of the most important factors in overall life.
Looks only add as bonus points but confidence + looks is key
I also used this to pull baddies throughout high school as a lltn.
5 star tips
- Curiosity kills fear, overthinking, doubt, and hesitation. Reframing your thoughts into, lets see what happens kinda deal.
- Dont psych yourself out. Like trying new foods, if you think abt the details your more likely to not try it. Overthinking kills all confidence. Just do it.
- Reframing power. Example: “i hope they like me” -> “lets see if I like them.” A little main character sydrome but definitely works.
- Smiling. releases dopamine to help with confidence.
- Practice Stoicism.
overall confidence around people
- remember people are too busy to be focusing on you, the gym teaches this.
- Pretend people are just NPC like a video games. Makes everyone seem like a sidequest
- Fear: remember that in 2 hours or less that moment will be gone, doesnt kill fear but it srinks it.
- Dont psych yourself out, overthinking kills all confidence. Just do it.
- “So what” mentality. Your still gonna go on about your day.
- Have a set plan and keep it simple: names, compliment, exchange info.
- 99% of pickup lines are corny. Stick to somthing simple; talk about somthing shes wearing, overall outfit even. say how it compliments her eyes. Dont be werid and learn to read body language.
- Remember you can leave if its not vibing, your not gonna be trapped after you approach them.
- This one works for me but doesn’t work for everyone; picture them as a 300lbs landwhale, or wtv makes them the most unattractive possible. It removes sexual desire which helps a ton.

