My dad is giving me hope in finding a nice girl!

Is his idea a good idea?


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I talked to him, and he's offered to help me out with finding a girl. My dad believes that I'm not very well suited to the modern Western dating market given my behaviour and beliefs.

He said that in addition to Lebanese people, Gulf Arabs, North Africans and to a lesser degree people of the Caribbean and even the far East have married into his family, many of whom live in Europe, North America, Australia and the Gulf States (many have moved out of Lebanon). He said a few are in the UK. He told me all I have to do is to become more assertive, get to junior doctor status, grow up a bit (he thinks that I'm not quite ready for this yet) then he'll send my photo and details over to his relatives and inlaws to help me find a pretty, well-educated and low body count/virgin girl. He told me she doesn't have to be from the UK.

What do you think guys? What are your thoughts?

EDIT: Wait, this would be an arranged marriage?
 
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Tales from Pakistan
 
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Yes marry a Lebanese girl tbh.
 
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Ideal af bro
 
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Yes marry a Lebanese girl tbh.
He said he also has people from North Africa, the gulf, the Caribbean and even the far East that married into our family
 
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@Xangsane what is your impression of central/eastern European girls in the UK (if you’ve met any)?
 
Gold diggers, blunt but hard working. They like to cosy up to curries and rices.
@Xangsane what is your impression of central/eastern European girls in the UK (if you’ve met any)?
I'm not into EE women
 
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How do they differ from native English women? What are they similar in?
More down to earth, more HQNP but colder personalities. They seem to love South and East Asian men.
 
@11gaijin why is this a bad idea?
 
I talked to him, and he's offered to help me out with finding a girl. My dad believes that I'm not very well suited to the modern Western dating market given my behaviour and beliefs.

He said that in addition to Lebanese people, Gulf Arabs, North Africans and to a lesser degree people of the Caribbean and even the far East have married into his family, many of whom live in Europe, North America, Australia and the Gulf States (many have moved out of Lebanon). He said a few are in the UK. He told me all I have to do is to become more assertive, get to junior doctor status, grow up a bit (he thinks that I'm not quite ready for this yet) then he'll send my photo and details over to his relatives and inlaws to help me find a pretty, well-educated and low body count/virgin girl. He told me she doesn't have to be from the UK.

What do you think guys? What are your thoughts?
I mean sounds like a good plan tbh, because you’ll almost never find what you want in the west using dating apps and it’s hard to belive your gonna irl find a girl like that so this could be best option
 
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I talked to him, and he's offered to help me out with finding a girl. My dad believes that I'm not very well suited to the modern Western dating market given my behaviour and beliefs.

He said that in addition to Lebanese people, Gulf Arabs, North Africans and to a lesser degree people of the Caribbean and even the far East have married into his family, many of whom live in Europe, North America, Australia and the Gulf States (many have moved out of Lebanon). He said a few are in the UK. He told me all I have to do is to become more assertive, get to junior doctor status, grow up a bit (he thinks that I'm not quite ready for this yet) then he'll send my photo and details over to his relatives and inlaws to help me find a pretty, well-educated and low body count/virgin girl. He told me she doesn't have to be from the UK.

What do you think guys? What are your thoughts?
Based dad tbh
it’s a good idea
 
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bruh if you're chadlite why tf would it be hard for you to get a girl? you live basically almost on easy mode
 
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bruh if you're chadlite why tf would it be hard for you to get a girl? you live basically almost on easy mode
It's the type of girls that I'm surrounded by here in the uk. :feelswhy: I'm looking for hqnp women with a specific personality type that either is a virgin or has a low body count, and is willing to raise my kids muslim
 
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:ROFLMAO::ROFLMAO::ROFLMAO: Arab niggas can Just import a wife
 
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It's the type of girls that I'm surrounded by here in the uk. :feelswhy: I'm looking for hqnp women with a specific personality type that either is a virgin or has a low body count, and is willing to raise my kids muslim
would you say your sister would fall out of this criteria?
 
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@11gaijin why is this a bad idea?
I mean its basically an arranged marriage. Nobody has proof that the girl is going to have a low count. And how will they test virginity? I personally do not like arranged marriages since they seem like a business to me. It is the antithesis of whatever this site is about.

Any guy can marry via an arranged marriage. Lots of curries do. I wrote a post about my manager few days ago. I personally won't get any validation from an arranged marriage. You never know if the girl is actually into you. Girls marry anyone in an arranged marriage setup.

But that is my take. It maybe the ideal arrangement for you based on what your preferences are.
 
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@ItsOVERBuddyBoyos how is this a bad idea?
 
I mean its basically an arranged marriage. Nobody has proof that the girl is going to have a low count. And how will they test virginity? I personally do not like arranged marriages since they seem like a business to me. It is the antithesis of whatever this site is about.

Any guy can marry via an arranged marriage. Lots of curries do. I wrote a post about my manager few days ago. I personally won't get any validation from an arranged marriage. You never know if the girl is actually into you. Girls marry anyone in an arranged marriage setup.

But that is my take. It maybe the ideal arrangement for you based on what your preferences are.
From what I understand he will just make them meet up and then Xangsane(and the girl) will decide if they want to continue together. He can tell if the girl is actually into him or if she is promiscuous by simply getting to know her. Vetting basically

It’s honestly no different than if his dad was Tinder/Hinge/whatever and Xangsane was swiping on girls. The difference is that on those dating apps Xangsane might never find the kind of woman he wants. He could swipe until his thumb hurt in England and never come across the kind of woman he wants. While the women his father will introduce him to are more likely to actually be the HQNP kind he wants. To make sure of that he just has to vet
 
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Stop the self hate.
Bro you're ridiculous. It's not self hate, I'm just saying that I am categorized as "white" in any way you look at it.
 
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it's gonna be real though for you tbh, I'm the same though like every other man too.

but to find a girl with low body count and good personality in 2022 is pretty much impossible imo
 
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He's basically setting you up for betabuxx a marriage
 
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Bro you're ridiculous. It's not self hate, I'm just saying that I am categorized as "white" in any way you look at it.
You are self-hating. Stop it and accept the fact you're brown like me.
 
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He said he also has people from North Africa, the gulf, the Caribbean and even the far East that married into our family
What is your ethnicity
 
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I talked to him, and he's offered to help me out with finding a girl. My dad believes that I'm not very well suited to the modern Western dating market given my behaviour and beliefs.

He said that in addition to Lebanese people, Gulf Arabs, North Africans and to a lesser degree people of the Caribbean and even the far East have married into his family, many of whom live in Europe, North America, Australia and the Gulf States (many have moved out of Lebanon). He said a few are in the UK. He told me all I have to do is to become more assertive, get to junior doctor status, grow up a bit (he thinks that I'm not quite ready for this yet) then he'll send my photo and details over to his relatives and inlaws to help me find a pretty, well-educated and low body count/virgin girl. He told me she doesn't have to be from the UK.

What do you think guys? What are your thoughts?

EDIT: Wait, this would be an arranged marriage?
Seem good slay untill your early thirties depraved western girls, then marry a good one when you’re ready to start a family. This way you get the best of both world.

Unnironically my father told the same thing like a week ago aha
 
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I mean sounds like a good plan tbh, because you’ll almost never find what you want in the west using dating apps and it’s hard to belive your gonna irl find a girl like that so this could be best option
It's honestly exhausting swiping through dating apps finding women that I know I won't be compatible with. That's why despite getting plenty of matches and likes, I nuked all my accounts. It's frustrating
 
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Seem good slay untill your early thirties depraved western girls, then marry a good one when you’re ready to start a family. This way you get the best of both world.

Unnironically my father told the same thing like a week ago aha
No no. I want to be married at around 27 or so.
 
Based dad tbh
it’s a good idea
In what way you think? I think it's a damn good idea because many girls on apps here don't seem to be a good fit
 
Hqnp Muslim women will most likely have good values and make you food
She wouldn't have to always make me food. I'll cook for her too, and even help her out.
 

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