My dad saw my sex tape and now he won’t speak to me.

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I’m (F19) and after I left for spring break my dad saw the sex tape I recorded with my boyfriend. In my room i have an IMac , usually my family comes in and out of my room while I am away in college to use it since it is the only computer that’s in the house. I had completely forgotten that my iCloud on my iMac is the same one on my phone so anyone who uses the iMac can see whatever messages or pictures I have on my phone. I don’t even know when exactly this happened, but apparently my dad had seen on my a notification on my Mac. The notification was a memory from my photos specifically a video that was taken on that exact date. I am assuming he clicked on it because eventually my sister had called me on the phone saying my dad was really angry. That he had seen a video of me and my boyfriend having sex and that he was talking to my grandma on the phone about it. I tried to call my dad multiple times but he wouldn’t answer me. I even texted him. I called my sister and asked her if she could give him the phone but he refused. I tried to speak to my grandma about it and she told me that my dad is disappointed in me and he just needs some time to think. It’s been two weeks and I still haven’t spoken to my dad, my dad is an ex-military and raised me and my sister all by himself, and there isn’t a day in my life I haven’t spoken to my dad at least once. I feel so embarrassed and ashamed. I’ve tried to watch videos of people who have been in the same situation to make myself feel better but all I feel is guilt and embarrassment. I actually want to die

Edit: I can see the confusion but my dad isn’t some type of weirdo, for those who are saying it’s weird he watched the whole thing. The thumbnail was black when he clicked on it and then he saw the rest. I don’t believe he watched the whole thing.

 

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I’m (F19) and after I left for spring break my dad saw the sex tape I recorded with my boyfriend. In my room i have an IMac , usually my family comes in and out of my room while I am away in college to use it since it is the only computer that’s in the house. I had completely forgotten that my iCloud on my iMac is the same one on my phone so anyone who uses the iMac can see whatever messages or pictures I have on my phone. I don’t even know when exactly this happened, but apparently my dad had seen on my a notification on my Mac. The notification was a memory from my photos specifically a video that was taken on that exact date. I am assuming he clicked on it because eventually my sister had called me on the phone saying my dad was really angry. That he had seen a video of me and my boyfriend having sex and that he was talking to my grandma on the phone about it. I tried to call my dad multiple times but he wouldn’t answer me. I even texted him. I called my sister and asked her if she could give him the phone but he refused. I tried to speak to my grandma about it and she told me that my dad is disappointed in me and he just needs some time to think. It’s been two weeks and I still haven’t spoken to my dad, my dad is an ex-military and raised me and my sister all by himself, and there isn’t a day in my life I haven’t spoken to my dad at least once. I feel so embarrassed and ashamed. I’ve tried to watch videos of people who have been in the same situation to make myself feel better but all I feel is guilt and embarrassment. I actually want to die

Edit: I can see the confusion but my dad isn’t some type of weirdo, for those who are saying it’s weird he watched the whole thing. The thumbnail was black when he clicked on it and then he saw the rest. I don’t believe he watched the whole thing.

dawg i swear this is a male only forum?