My dad saying staying at home is for girls/women

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It's 100% true IMO, I always rot at home tho. I went football like a couple times in the summer but the group didn't keep playing after :O
 
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ur dad views u as a woman and hates u
 
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Tell your father he is a fcking moron
 
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Punch this guy for making you suffer like that.JFL at this guy making fun of his offspring, who is a product of his wife and his. I hate my fucking parents for putting me into this fucking evil cruel world like that.
 
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hes a cuck
 
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Punch this guy for making you suffer like that.JFL at this guy making fun of his offspring, who is a product of his wife and his. I hate my fucking parents for putting me into this fucking evil cruel world like that.
The problem is I never properly built up a social life or personal identity. He wants me to go outside so I can help him with chores and stuff which is alright, but being active and touching grass means more than that.
 
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I was high cortisol when he got pissed off at me and almost shed tears like a little babby but tbh, I'm not some alpha male anyway
 
The problem is I never properly built up a social life or personal identity. He wants me to go outside so I can help him with chores and stuff which is alright, but being active and touching grass means more than that.
Yeah, you should help him but not that much tbh.Fuck this guy, and he is the reason you have no social life and a loser IRL.
 
Based father. Women belong in the home - specifically the kitchen, but they're allowed into other room at specified hours for cleaning, childcare etc.
 
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Based father. Women belong in the home - specifically the kitchen, but they're allowed into other room at specified hours for cleaning, childcare etc.
Based af tbh. I gave some abused dog response like 'I've been staying at home my whole life what am I supposed to do'
 
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Tbh I choose to sit at home and rot so it's my fault.
 
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what other option do u have
I could participate in some uni club, try to build a social circle but Idk how, do activities which involve staying at home, go out with some school people but they never meet up and just play games. Maybe look for a job. Play a sport (there's a uni recreational gc for it but I'm reluctant to go I have never played sports regularly in my life)
 
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I feel like girls go out more than men nowadays
 
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Punch this guy for making you suffer like that.JFL at this guy making fun of his offspring, who is a product of his wife and his. I hate my fucking parents for putting me into this fucking evil cruel world like that.
 
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But legit I've stayed at home my whole life. I've never done anything outside of attending school. @SecularIslamist
I'm going to fail college haven't attended classes or kept up with shit. I have all the free time in the world so idek why I'm not engaging at all

This is my fault but is it really? Even NTs just have their own life which is hobbies + socialisation then they help their family or not. I don't have my own life at all whatsoever. Him shouting at me and threatening to punch me has accomplished nothing. I will rot the next day. Or get punched and cry like a bitch because I can't defend myself due to lack of any training or fight experience. Last time I got punched was like 6 years ago by some thugmaxxed so I wouldn't take it well
 
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I think yet again another confirmation of the fact that I need a life. I spend too much time at home. I don't talk to anyone irl. I stopped going gym. Don't have any interests. Never meet up with people etc etc.

My life is WAY TOO EMPTY.

And I always latch onto negative interactions. Most times my father is ok.

Also he has tried to help a lot and be nice tbh so his patience is clearly worn. The real problem is that regardless of what he's doing, I'm not doing anything to fix my issues I'm just rotting
 
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But legit I've stayed at home my whole life. I've never done anything outside of attending school. @SecularIslamist
I'm going to fail college haven't attended classes or kept up with shit. I have all the free time in the world so idek why I'm not engaging at all

This is my fault but is it really? Even NTs just have their own life which is hobbies + socialisation then they help their family or not. I don't have my own life at all whatsoever. Him shouting at me and threatening to punch me has accomplished nothing. I will rot the next day. Or get punched and cry like a bitch because I can't defend myself due to lack of any training or fight experience. Last time I got punched was like 6 years ago by some thugmaxxed so I wouldn't take it well
This shit mirrors my life. Life is most likely over after school, if you don't establish social circles in teens. Some manage in adulthood but rare and they're usually the NT type - you know the young ones who relocate and start afresh and make friends. Yeah, that shit doesn't apply to me nor you.

I'm probably older than you. It's only going to get worse. However if you're not a manchild, you may accept it for what it is, so the pain won't be so bad.
 
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This shit mirrors my life. Life is most likely over after school, if you don't establish social circles in teens. Some manage in adulthood but rare and they're usually the NT type - you know the young ones who relocate and start afresh and make friends. Yeah, that shit doesn't apply to me nor you.

I'm probably older than you. It's only going to g/idet worse. However if you're not a manchild, you may accept it for what it is, so the pain won't be so bad.
Manchild feels weird but I technically am one. I really should've moved out for university, such a mistake. I did not value these types of things enough I think my plan was to get a good job then wfh and neet. But now I'm doing jackshit. I don't know what to do I'm completely lost.
 
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Manchild feels weird but I technically am one. I really should've moved out for university, such a mistake. I did not value these types of things enough I think my plan was to get a good job then wfh and neet
*WFH and rot.
 
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Sounds like me but I don't care since I am a hermit and I will move to the mountains at 25
 
Your dad is based
Men are supposed to hunt swim chase pussy
Not rot in the cave jacking off onto a rock stump just lol
 
The problem is I never properly built up a social life or personal identity. He wants me to go outside so I can help him with chores and stuff which is alright, but being active and touching grass means more than that.
My parents are the same they always asking me to help them with garden work outside when I’m playing video games or rotting and get mad when I get pissed for asking me . The last thing I want to is help the people who put me on this fking earth.
 
I was a home rotter but with some luck I managed at 18 to:

Get a job working 3-4 days a week.
Go to uni 3 days a week.
Go out about once every 2nd or 3rd wknd with cool friends.
Go to gym 4-5 days a week.
Play indoor cricket for 2 seasons, play touch football for 2 diff teams
Move out with 2 friends and one of their gf
Go to beach most days and go for walks and shit.

So I stopped being a rotter, tried to be as social as I could, was outside most days. Put in my utmost from 18 to 22. And you know what I got out of it? Shit fuck all. Barely got any action, barely met any girls, got rejected a bunch, got treated by everyone like the lowest rung of the group which i was and couldn't overcome cause i have beta narrow shoulders and have no social proof and no appearance to attract girls with thus making me relatively useless unless it's to play golf or something where there's no girls and i can fill the numbers or something.
 
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