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Hello, how are you everyone? Before saying the changes I plan to make to be promoted, I want to give you a quick context so that you understand the reason for what I do and how I feel because I know that more than one will feel identified.
The truth is that I have always been an average person both physically and socially/intellectually, which means that I have always had to worry more about getting things because I have never been special in anything.
Let’s start socially and intellectually. Socially, I’ve always been a pretty normal guy—to some extent, even 'popular.' I’ve had experiences with women, but in every case, they were the ones to take the initiative. I’m very insecure, and it’s much more comfortable for me to flirt with someone when I already know they like me than to strike up a conversation or take the lead, since I'm afraid of rejection.
A couple of times, even the prettiest girls have thrown hints my way—not super blended, but they basically opened the door for me and it was just a matter of me escalating things. But who am I kidding? I’m a total chicken. One time in particular, a very, very beautiful girl literally served it to me on a silver platter (she’d text me, she’d approach me in person, she even got jealous). I never made a move because I’m a coward. One day during recess in high school, she asked me if we should cut class to go be alone. Terrified, I said yes. We left school and went to the mall; she hugged me repeatedly (waiting for me to kiss her), but since I'm such a chicken, I did nothing. She even said to me, 'Don’t you want to give me a kiss?' I froze because I thought if I was a bad kisser, everything would go to hell. Just like you’re hearing it: the prettiest girl in school asking me for a kiss and I turned her down—not because I didn’t want to, but because I was too scared. I have many stories like that.
It is frustrating for me since as I have said before I have never been special in anything, and I have always had to practice/research on my own to stand out, and with women it is no exception, I have read seduction books / paid courses / watched too many videos etc. I genuinely know what I have to do but most of the time I do not do it because I am a shit, I know things like push / pull, idis, the frame in seduction, I know what a woman likes and how to treat her from a biological point of view so that she feels attracted to me, and mainly I am a shit thanks to my appearance.
Now, my appearance, don't think I'm a 150cm tall incel, not at all, as I've already said before all the girls I've been with have looked for me because I'm a cagon. They've asked me for Instagram several times, people tell me frequent compliments, I even shaved and they told me that I looked good. I have a good gym product, a height of 180 cm at 16 years old, my appearance is really good not only because I think but because of what other people have told me.
But the looksmaxxing has fucked me, the constant comparison with beauty standards, they have made my mental health go to shit, even when I have had encounters with girls, now I don't care or care about women all I want is moggear, I see and talk to people I analyze their face, I see their defects and if they beat me or not, it's a thing of never ending. Now I get fully into looksmaxxing, I will do exercises/products / supplements / frauds/orthopedic appliances and in the future I have very clear surgeries, while the others of my age (16 years), think about spending their money on a car or drugs, I think about what I can do to get enough money to be able to operate for aesthetic reasons before or at 20, even having from my opinion an almost perfect lower third and a decent jaw, but as always in this community nothing is enough.
The truth is that I have always been an average person both physically and socially/intellectually, which means that I have always had to worry more about getting things because I have never been special in anything.
Let’s start socially and intellectually. Socially, I’ve always been a pretty normal guy—to some extent, even 'popular.' I’ve had experiences with women, but in every case, they were the ones to take the initiative. I’m very insecure, and it’s much more comfortable for me to flirt with someone when I already know they like me than to strike up a conversation or take the lead, since I'm afraid of rejection.
A couple of times, even the prettiest girls have thrown hints my way—not super blended, but they basically opened the door for me and it was just a matter of me escalating things. But who am I kidding? I’m a total chicken. One time in particular, a very, very beautiful girl literally served it to me on a silver platter (she’d text me, she’d approach me in person, she even got jealous). I never made a move because I’m a coward. One day during recess in high school, she asked me if we should cut class to go be alone. Terrified, I said yes. We left school and went to the mall; she hugged me repeatedly (waiting for me to kiss her), but since I'm such a chicken, I did nothing. She even said to me, 'Don’t you want to give me a kiss?' I froze because I thought if I was a bad kisser, everything would go to hell. Just like you’re hearing it: the prettiest girl in school asking me for a kiss and I turned her down—not because I didn’t want to, but because I was too scared. I have many stories like that.
It is frustrating for me since as I have said before I have never been special in anything, and I have always had to practice/research on my own to stand out, and with women it is no exception, I have read seduction books / paid courses / watched too many videos etc. I genuinely know what I have to do but most of the time I do not do it because I am a shit, I know things like push / pull, idis, the frame in seduction, I know what a woman likes and how to treat her from a biological point of view so that she feels attracted to me, and mainly I am a shit thanks to my appearance.
Now, my appearance, don't think I'm a 150cm tall incel, not at all, as I've already said before all the girls I've been with have looked for me because I'm a cagon. They've asked me for Instagram several times, people tell me frequent compliments, I even shaved and they told me that I looked good. I have a good gym product, a height of 180 cm at 16 years old, my appearance is really good not only because I think but because of what other people have told me.
But the looksmaxxing has fucked me, the constant comparison with beauty standards, they have made my mental health go to shit, even when I have had encounters with girls, now I don't care or care about women all I want is moggear, I see and talk to people I analyze their face, I see their defects and if they beat me or not, it's a thing of never ending. Now I get fully into looksmaxxing, I will do exercises/products / supplements / frauds/orthopedic appliances and in the future I have very clear surgeries, while the others of my age (16 years), think about spending their money on a car or drugs, I think about what I can do to get enough money to be able to operate for aesthetic reasons before or at 20, even having from my opinion an almost perfect lower third and a decent jaw, but as always in this community nothing is enough.
. You need to bring your confidence up and be more autistic so what if your shit at kissing you could of slayyed and had a gf whos quote on quote the most pretty girl in your school. You sold like crazy icl. I would suggest to take pregab prop baclofen and other shit but genuinly that wont even help if you sold a situation like that seriously dude. You already know what your doing by being on this forum go to botb get a kissing guide andthe sex guide and study that shit raise your confidence up hit the gym 7x a week untill you can auctually have goodconfidence or some shit idk nigga take test and mog and for the LM thats normal icl i see everyones flaws but you said you had a stacy so what does this even have to do with anything? having the knowledge of BP gives you the eyes of a shinigami but for looks 
