Steroid-Freak295
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I’ve always been a very shy guy. I can open up to people I know and feel comfortable with, but whenever I’m in a social setting with a lot of people, I usually tend to stay quiet. I’ve gotten girls before, not a lot, but I have, and the ones I’ve dated ended up leaving me or cheating on me, even after they liked me first and told me how much they loved me. It really warps your perception on women when you realize they can just change their mind one day randomly. I’m not the most perfect guy either, but I also am loyal, caring, and just a decent bf. Recently, I’ve been on dating apps and DMing girls on social media, but it’s not really going anywhere. I just don’t understand why these foids respond but give one-word responses. Atp, I’ve kind of given up on love and have just been wanting hookups, but haven’t been able to get any. I’ve had one before, but that was just pure luck with the girl living down the street from me.
I know guys uglier who have way more bodies and can pull women. I just don’t understand how, or what to say to keep the conversation flirty while also not creeping them out. I feel like I do a good job, but they give one-word responses. I know girls can find me attractive. I’d say the girls I’ve dated were mtb and high mtb, but I don’t understand how to get more chicks. I’m thinking about cold approaching and building a roster since I’ve tried everything online so far, and I’m not getting the best results. At best, I’ll be having a good conversation with these foids and we’ll set up a date, just for them to ghost me the day of. I really think these foids just like the attention they get knowing a guy wants them. That’s why they pull this shit. It’s so much easier for girls to get laid, though. I’m trying to get out there more as well and get laid, but I just don’t have the confidence to do it in person. I’m on test, which helps, but doesn’t guarantee it. I went to a party a few days ago where the girls were basically free (hoes), but still, I just couldn’t get myself to talk. I know I can pull some girls with my looks, but I have social anxiety and probably a shit personality too, which doesn’t keep these girls with me.
Any tips or advice on how to get laid or build a roster? for someone who’s between ltn and mtn or do i need to keep looksmaxxing
I know guys uglier who have way more bodies and can pull women. I just don’t understand how, or what to say to keep the conversation flirty while also not creeping them out. I feel like I do a good job, but they give one-word responses. I know girls can find me attractive. I’d say the girls I’ve dated were mtb and high mtb, but I don’t understand how to get more chicks. I’m thinking about cold approaching and building a roster since I’ve tried everything online so far, and I’m not getting the best results. At best, I’ll be having a good conversation with these foids and we’ll set up a date, just for them to ghost me the day of. I really think these foids just like the attention they get knowing a guy wants them. That’s why they pull this shit. It’s so much easier for girls to get laid, though. I’m trying to get out there more as well and get laid, but I just don’t have the confidence to do it in person. I’m on test, which helps, but doesn’t guarantee it. I went to a party a few days ago where the girls were basically free (hoes), but still, I just couldn’t get myself to talk. I know I can pull some girls with my looks, but I have social anxiety and probably a shit personality too, which doesn’t keep these girls with me.
Any tips or advice on how to get laid or build a roster? for someone who’s between ltn and mtn or do i need to keep looksmaxxing
