My experiences with dating have been so awful that I have extreme difficulty forming relationships

[Magical Apple]

Having to deal with so much bullshit due to living in the west has made it really hard for me to date normally. I can't stop acting, playing mind games and second guessing everything. This is the result of having to date in such a toxic environment that is rigged against you. Even when I leave getting over this will be really hard and take a long time.

@Jamesothy

 

[Deleted member 12002]

Trying to find a woman worthy of having a relationship with in the West is like trying to pan for gold in a sewer. Even the rare ones who seem decent will reveal a faulty nature if you give them enough time. Western society is too corrupted to produce anything of value in the dating pool.

 

[getra]

You give her good sex and a good act and she will come back every time. Don’t take relationships seriously fam that shits out the window when you enter your 20s.

 

[Unmoggablegingercel]

Trying to find a woman worthy of having a relationship with in the West is like trying to pan for gold in a sewer. Even the rare ones who seem decent will reveal a faulty nature if you give them enough time. Western society is too corrupted to produce anything of value in the dating pool.

true good analogy tbh. Got cucked by astrology girl that was into magic rock and found out eventually from her guy mutual friend she was fucking other niggers while we were talking jfl she was acting all innocent

 

[Deleted member 12002]

true good analogy tbh. Got cucked by astrology girl that was into magic rock and she started fucking other niggers while we were talking jfl

Yeah, new age crap is rife here. Girls and dudes alike talking about the universe as if it's not as dumb as a rock. I can't stand it.

 

[Deleted member 15674]

true good analogy tbh. Got cucked by astrology girl that was into magic rock and found out eventually from her guy mutual friend she was fucking other niggers while we were talking jfl she was acting all innocent

hot af please tell me you stayed with her, a woman has needs and if you were a real man you'd not be so insecure that she is getting hers fulfilled

 

[Magical Apple]

Trying to find a woman worthy of having a relationship with in the West is like trying to pan for gold in a sewer. Even the rare ones who seem decent will reveal a faulty nature if you give them enough time. Western society is too corrupted to produce anything of value in the dating pool.

My analogy is its like playing a game of basketball where the other team can hold the ball without dribbling. The only way to "win" is either be so good at basketball or play really dirty and do stuff like tripping and pushing other players.

 

[Deleted member 5786]

Trying to find a woman worthy of having a relationship with in the West is like trying to pan for gold in a sewer. Even the rare ones who seem decent will reveal a faulty nature if you give them enough time. Western society is too corrupted to produce anything of value in the dating pool.

same story in russia

 

[Magical Apple]

same story in russia

No its not. You have no fucking idea.

 

[Stopping@Nothing19]

Trying to find a woman worthy of having a relationship with in the West is like trying to pan for gold in a sewer. Even the rare ones who seem decent will reveal a faulty nature if you give them enough time.

true words

 

[Deleted member 5786]

No its not. You have no fucking idea.

i live in the most center, its the same as west tbh (or very similar)
@LooksOverAll can confirm

 

[Magical Apple]

i live in the most center, its the same as west tbh (or very similar)
@LooksOverAll can confirm

Have you been to the west?

 

[Deleted member 5786]

Have you been to the west?

no, and dont want to
i am patriot

 

[Magical Apple]

no, and dont want to
i am patriot

if you've never interacted with western women then don't claim its the same.

 

[Deleted member 7725]

Have you been to the west?

no, and dont want to
i am patriot

I'm a patriotic Russian man living in the US but go to Russia a lot. I can confirm it is just as difficult in the West as it is in Russian cities.

 

[Magical Apple]

I'm a patriotic Russian man living in the US but go to Russia a lot. I can confirm it is just as difficult in the West as it is in Russian cities.

I do much better in russia.

 

[Deleted member 12002]

My analogy is its like playing a game of basketball where the other team can hold the ball without dribbling. The only way to "win" is either be so good at basketball or play really dirty and do stuff like tripping and pushing other players.

Yeah, every tree needs a little pruning here and there. But having to constantly play mind games with women in order to keep them in their respective role within a relationship is no way for a man to live. Most men who start out strong in Western relationships end up getting whittled down. It might take years but that always seems to be the outcome.

 

[Deleted member 12002]

same story in russia

Really? That's sad to hear.

 

[Magical Apple]

Yeah, every tree needs a little pruning here and there. But having to constantly play mind games with women in order to keep them in their respective role within a relationship is no way for a man to live. Most men who start out strong in Western relationships end up getting whittled down. It might take years but that always seems to be the outcome.

Its more the environment, than the women. You are fighting losing odds most of the time. Women have insane options here and the narrative is that they have the power. You really need to leave bro, like I said I would be really worried about my wife seeing someone yell at me in public for sending her to the store to buy stuff.

 

[Magical Apple]

Really? That's sad to hear.

It isn't as bad.

 

[DwayneWhite55]

I made a thread on it. Women want you to be everything in the west. Tall ,big dick,good looking ,have money and career. MAYBE then she will be faithful.

 

[Magical Apple]

I made a thread on it. Women want you to be everything in the west. Tall ,big dick,good looking ,have money and career. MAYBE then she will be faithful.

post link

 

[DwayneWhite55]

post link

Nobody commented on it because I tend to ramble and have long threads I guess lol but I just did a thread where it gets more about money,career , house,car the older you get. I was pretty much saying women want everything in a man.

I see a very low amount of faithful long term relationships now adays. They are always good looking and got career and money.

 

[Deleted member 12002]

Its more the environment, than the women. You are fighting losing odds most of the time. Women have insane options here and the narrative is that they have the power. You really need to leave bro, like I said I would be really worried about my wife seeing someone yell at me in public for sending her to the store to buy stuff.

Nah, she knows what kind of man I am. I also believe that whatever can be broken must be broken. I wouldn't want my wife anymore if she could be corrupted by her environment. And she knows that too. In China I showed her tons of videos of weak men and "strong" women from the West. Also, I handled the situation very well. I told the girl to piss off and refused to argue with her about it after saying my piece. Ended up punching her in the face even, and after it was all over the girl was yelling out of the window to bystanders in the parking that I'm a woman beater as her boyfriend's dad was driving them off. I just stood there laughing at them completely unconcerned with what they or anyone else thought. I finished loading my truck and put my cart back before leaving.

My wife wants no part of Western society. She doesn't want to make friends with these people or go to any of their functions. If she did though I wouldn't allow it. I wouldn't hesitate to take corrective action, with either the crook or the flail. And she wouldn't dare try to get anyone else involved.

My wife and I have had lots of fights before. She's a hot blooded woman, but she's also very good natured despite that. Even in China it took me seven years to find a woman like her. I was very wise/careful when choosing. I had to be because I know myself very well. When I was a young man, in America, I spent a lot of time thinking very deeply about a lot of things. Some of the things you're telling me now are some of the things I thought about. I knew I couldn't abide a woman calling on anyone else to get involved in our business, regardless of anything. My principles would have me kill, and forfeit my life, if a court ever got involved in trying to make a decision concerning me and my family. 99 people out of 100 might only imagine they'd do something like that, but like I said I know myself better than most. My life is not governed by mere passion. My wife knows this too.

We're leaving as soon as she gets her citizenship. I have no fear about this society corrupting her. Even my mother quickly realized that my wife cannot be used as a means of gaining any measure of control over my life. Maybe she thought that I'd become like my father after getting married. But now she knows it's impossible with me. My mother's very frustrated with me and the wall I've put up to any and all outside influence, but that's a different story.

We're leaving primarily because it's boring. 这里没有热闹. We miss the excitement of living in the big cities of Asia. We also don't want our son to become a mental pussy from growing up in such a soft society. In the end though it's still my decision and mine alone where we're gonna live. My wife's on board with every decision I make. She always has been, but if she wasn't I'd quickly do what I had to do. She just wants to be a good wife and mother. Come hell or high water I won't ever let that change.

 

[Magical Apple]

Nah, she knows what kind of man I am. I also believe that whatever can be broken must be broken. I wouldn't want my wife anymore if she could be corrupted by her environment. And she knows that too. In China I showed her tons of videos of weak men and "strong" women from the West. Also, I handled the situation very well. I told the girl to piss off and refused to argue with her about it after saying my piece. Ended up punching her in the face even, and after it was all over the girl was yelling out of the window to bystanders in the parking that I'm a woman beater as her boyfriend's dad was driving them off. I just stood there laughing at them completely unconcerned with what they or anyone else thought. I finished loading my truck and put my cart back before leaving.

My wife wants no part of Western society. She doesn't want to make friends with these people or go to any of their functions. If she did though I wouldn't allow it. I wouldn't hesitate to take corrective action, with either the crook or the flail. And she wouldn't dare try to get anyone else involved.

My wife and I have had lots of fights before. She's a hot blooded woman, but she's also very good natured despite that. Even in China it took me seven years to find a woman like her. I was very wise/careful when choosing. I had to be because I know myself very well. When I was a young man, in America, I spent a lot of time thinking very deeply about a lot of things. Some of the things you're telling me now are some of the things I thought about. I knew I couldn't abide a woman calling on anyone else to get involved in our business, regardless of anything. My principles would have me kill, and forfeit my life, if a court ever got involved in trying to make a decision concerning me and my family. 99 people out of 100 might only imagine they'd do something like that, but like I said I know myself better than most. My life is not governed by mere passion. My wife knows this too.

We're leaving as soon as she gets her citizenship. I have no fear about this society corrupting her. Even my mother quickly realized that my wife cannot be used as a means of gaining any measure of control over my life. Maybe she thought that I'd become like my father after getting married. But now she knows it's impossible with me. My mother's very frustrated with me and the wall I've put up to any and all outside influence, but that's a different story.

We're leaving primarily because it's boring. 这里没有热闹. We miss the excitement of living in the big cities of Asia. We also don't want our son to become a mental pussy from growing up in such a soft society. In the end though it's still my decision and mine alone where we're gonna live. My wife's on board with every decision I make. She always has been, but if she wasn't I'd quickly do what I had to do. She just wants to be a good wife and mother. Come hell or high water I won't ever let that change.

Ngl I admire this mentality. It's good that your wife isn't getting influenced by that shit. I've realized that I just do not belong in america.