My fiance of 5 years says she wants to end our relationship because of... my penis size.

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update drink af sry

Texted her and asked her promise to not see anyone till we talk tmrw. She say " can't promise that.

Omg

That's embarrassing, I was drunk as hell last night... sorry. We had a back and forth over text with me begging to know where she was and just asking for her to promise to not see anyone until we talked more because I wasn't sure how I felt about an "open" relationship. She said she couldn't promise anything and if the relationship was going to work this is what it was gonna take no matter what, basically. It pretty much doesn't matter how I feel about it, so we don't need to talk.

Holy hell I feel like shit.


final update

Woke up this morning to the sound of the shower. Seemed like she just came home and went immediately in there to start her morning routine before work. I admit I got up and frantically looked around for her things (cell, iPad, purse, even her clothes) to look for evidence but it was locked in the bathroom with her. Not proud of that but I feel emotionally raped right now. I wasn't thinking straight.

Anyway, she left without saying much to me, more or less ignoring my pleas to talk, mostly saying she'd be late for work. But she did say she met up with a coworker named *** "K" at Taco Bell before heading to her parents last night. Says nothing happened though. I believe her because I've met the guy a few times and I know that they're friends and chill at work to vent about other coworker drama and the like. Honestly it wouldn't make any sense if she was cheating on me with HIM.

This really blew up and I can't thank you folks more for the support. I made it through almost every comment before passing out last night and I plan to do the same today. Sorry I can't respond to you all.

I'll take the rest to another post somewhere else if it looks like people care to hear about the fall out.


This. Is. Surreal.

I actually started chuckling when she first brought it up, thinking she was joking. Her stone-faced reaction to my laughter caused a drop in the pit of my stomach that made me sick.

Long story short - she's had trouble in the last 4 or 5 months orgasming during sex. I have to admit I find that concerning since she's never had that problem at any point in our past (I've always made her orgasm, made a point of it in fact). Now, I can't even get her off with my mouth. I've never thought I had a small dick. Quite the opposite, in fact. Like any guy, I've measured it. between 7 and 7.5" when fully erect.

Here's the kicker, though... she says it's not the length that's the problem, it's my girth. Basically, my girl wants to leave me because I have a pencil dick, saying that because of it she can't see me as attractive anymore. What the fucking fuck? All my rage and depression about this because really, what can I do??? She literally blindsided me with this, never having mentioned anything like it in the past. Adding to that, she's never even been all that sexual a girl!!

I don't know if she started watching porn or what, but I mean what frame of reference could she possibly be using this far into the relationship/engagement to suddenly decide my dick isn't thick enough for her?

What, if anything, can I even do about this? I'm totally lost.

TL;DR She wants to leave me because I don't stretch her out enough, apparently. - length about 7-7.5" and girth probably 3.5-4"

CONSOLIDATION EDIT:
On top of everything else, I've been informed via text that she's not coming home tonight for the first time in ever. I have no fucking idea where she's going. I'll assume her parents' house but I don't even know. Says she's going to parents' house. I don't really talk to her parents though, so I have no way to check on that.

update This girl can't make up her mind. She'll be home in 10 minutes to "get some things" but she's leaving again afterwards. Do I confront her or not?


update

Ok, that was fast. She was in and then out in about 5 minutes. We did talk and... what the fuck. I'll update in a few. I need to get a fucking drink.


2.5 beers in, now, so here goes

So, she came in and I was expecting her to pack up a bunch of shit - clothes, shoes, toiletries, other misc crap, and say she wanted to separate or fuck just leave outright. Turns out she got these things, from what I could tell:

  • Toothbrush and deodorant
  • A clean shirt
  • panties and socks
  • Her iPad (???)
Me: "So... what the hell is going on here?"

Her: "I need to spend some time alone tonight to think."

Me: "Look, this is killing me. I love you but this all seems so fucked up and ludicrous. Is this really about my dick or is it something else???"

Her: she just looks around the room, shaking her head and shrugging her shoulders

Me: "You're the girl I want to be with, you know that blah blah blah insert pouring out of my heart here. Just be straight with me and tell me what the fuck I can do, if anything, for this relationship to work. PLEASE"

Her: "I guess the only way I could ever see this working is if we were open to seeing other people."

Me: stunned silence and verge of tears/rage "Well... can we at least talk about that some more??? Where are you going tonight?"

Her: "My parents'"

Me: "Ok, so fine we'll talk about this more tomorrow. Right?"

Her: "Ok."

Then she left.
 
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4inch girth with 7 inch length is giga pencil bro. It would look hella thin. I doubt someone with 7inch length would have 3.5 - 4 inch girth because length and girth are correlated. If it’s true, he will even need special condom to fit because regular condoms will be loose on his dick.
 
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4inch girth with 7 inch length is giga pencil bro. It would look hella thin. I doubt someone with 7inch length would have 3.5 - 4 inch girth because length and girth are correlated. If it’s true, he will even need special condom to fit because regular condoms will be loose on his dick.
Mine is 7.5 × 5, it's on edge of looking thin, if it was like 5.5 would be perfect
 
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The girth thing is an excuse, you think she would leave a boyfriend of 5 years just cause she realized that his dick is like 3cm less then good? He also said how she orgasmed before just fine. The reason she left is because she got bored of him for various reasons like him getting balder, fatter, so she used the dick as an excuse
 
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The girth thing is an excuse, you think she would leave a boyfriend of 5 years just cause she realized that his dick is like 3cm less then good? He also said how she orgasmed before just fine. The reason she left is because she got bored of him for various reasons like him getting balder, fatter, so she used the dick as an excuse
 
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The girth thing is an excuse, you think she would leave a boyfriend of 5 years just cause she realized that his dick is like 3cm less then good? He also said how she orgasmed before just fine. The reason she left is because she got bored of him for various reasons like him getting balder, fatter, so she used the dick as an excuse
 
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7.5 inches is small? that's like twice what @.... has (right @bugeater23 ? you said you could deepthroat it without it hitting the back of your mouth)

Anyway this guy sounds like he deserves it honestly, if you're that caugh up in a relationship, he should just write "i was able to hose down a Cdumpster 500 times, but now she wants Chad, oh well" and that's it, all that other filler crap isn't needed to tell the story
 
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7.5 inches is small? that's like twice what @.... has (right @bugeater23 ? you said you could deepthroat it without it hitting the back of your mouth)

Anyway this guy sounds like he deserves it honestly, if you're that caugh up in a relationship, he should just write "i was able to hose down a Cdumpster 500 times, but now she wants Chad, oh well" and that's it, all that other filler crap isn't needed to tell the story
the FUCK are you talking about
 
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update drink af sry

Texted her and asked her promise to not see anyone till we talk tmrw. She say " can't promise that.

Omg

That's embarrassing, I was drunk as hell last night... sorry. We had a back and forth over text with me begging to know where she was and just asking for her to promise to not see anyone until we talked more because I wasn't sure how I felt about an "open" relationship. She said she couldn't promise anything and if the relationship was going to work this is what it was gonna take no matter what, basically. It pretty much doesn't matter how I feel about it, so we don't need to talk.

Holy hell I feel like shit.


final update

Woke up this morning to the sound of the shower. Seemed like she just came home and went immediately in there to start her morning routine before work. I admit I got up and frantically looked around for her things (cell, iPad, purse, even her clothes) to look for evidence but it was locked in the bathroom with her. Not proud of that but I feel emotionally raped right now. I wasn't thinking straight.

Anyway, she left without saying much to me, more or less ignoring my pleas to talk, mostly saying she'd be late for work. But she did say she met up with a coworker named *** "K" at Taco Bell before heading to her parents last night. Says nothing happened though. I believe her because I've met the guy a few times and I know that they're friends and chill at work to vent about other coworker drama and the like. Honestly it wouldn't make any sense if she was cheating on me with HIM.

This really blew up and I can't thank you folks more for the support. I made it through almost every comment before passing out last night and I plan to do the same today. Sorry I can't respond to you all.

I'll take the rest to another post somewhere else if it looks like people care to hear about the fall out.


This. Is. Surreal.

I actually started chuckling when she first brought it up, thinking she was joking. Her stone-faced reaction to my laughter caused a drop in the pit of my stomach that made me sick.

Long story short - she's had trouble in the last 4 or 5 months orgasming during sex. I have to admit I find that concerning since she's never had that problem at any point in our past (I've always made her orgasm, made a point of it in fact). Now, I can't even get her off with my mouth. I've never thought I had a small dick. Quite the opposite, in fact. Like any guy, I've measured it. between 7 and 7.5" when fully erect.

Here's the kicker, though... she says it's not the length that's the problem, it's my girth. Basically, my girl wants to leave me because I have a pencil dick, saying that because of it she can't see me as attractive anymore. What the fucking fuck? All my rage and depression about this because really, what can I do??? She literally blindsided me with this, never having mentioned anything like it in the past. Adding to that, she's never even been all that sexual a girl!!

I don't know if she started watching porn or what, but I mean what frame of reference could she possibly be using this far into the relationship/engagement to suddenly decide my dick isn't thick enough for her?

What, if anything, can I even do about this? I'm totally lost.

TL;DR She wants to leave me because I don't stretch her out enough, apparently. - length about 7-7.5" and girth probably 3.5-4"

CONSOLIDATION EDIT:
On top of everything else, I've been informed via text that she's not coming home tonight for the first time in ever. I have no fucking idea where she's going. I'll assume her parents' house but I don't even know. Says she's going to parents' house. I don't really talk to her parents though, so I have no way to check on that.

update This girl can't make up her mind. She'll be home in 10 minutes to "get some things" but she's leaving again afterwards. Do I confront her or not?


update

Ok, that was fast. She was in and then out in about 5 minutes. We did talk and... what the fuck. I'll update in a few. I need to get a fucking drink.


2.5 beers in, now, so here goes

So, she came in and I was expecting her to pack up a bunch of shit - clothes, shoes, toiletries, other misc crap, and say she wanted to separate or fuck just leave outright. Turns out she got these things, from what I could tell:

  • Toothbrush and deodorant
  • A clean shirt
  • panties and socks
  • Her iPad (???)
Me: "So... what the hell is going on here?"

Her: "I need to spend some time alone tonight to think."

Me: "Look, this is killing me. I love you but this all seems so fucked up and ludicrous. Is this really about my dick or is it something else???"

Her: she just looks around the room, shaking her head and shrugging her shoulders

Me: "You're the girl I want to be with, you know that blah blah blah insert pouring out of my heart here. Just be straight with me and tell me what the fuck I can do, if anything, for this relationship to work. PLEASE"

Her: "I guess the only way I could ever see this working is if we were open to seeing other people."

Me: stunned silence and verge of tears/rage "Well... can we at least talk about that some more??? Where are you going tonight?"

Her: "My parents'"

Me: "Ok, so fine we'll talk about this more tomorrow. Right?"

Her: "Ok."

Then she left.
what a loser JFL imagine not even knowing about dickmaxxing
 
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that shit doesn’t work.
it does, hyperdosing k2 and d3 alone has been proven to increase 0.5 length and girth on average, not to mention pumping, stretching, jelqing and way more shit
 
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Adding to that, she's never even been all that sexual a girl!!
I've been informed via text that she's not coming home tonight for the first time in ever.
"I need to spend some time alone tonight to think."

Banderas 2
 
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U guys say its a larp cuz "he's '7-7inches" and didnt make her feel good? yeah bs"

im saying its a larp because he's "DRUNK" from 2.5 beers

Jfl

no one gets drunk from 3 beers
 
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Easy fix: bathmate. Fucking retard should have been doing that before any of that insanity kicked in. Also viagramaxx cause erection hardness is arguably the most important aspect of sexual stimulation.
 
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the moment your girl complaint about you, trying to leave, its over, in her mind you are inferior to her potential future mate...
dont even try things like "connecting emotion cringe therapy communication crying", you just proving your inferiority and submissiveness,
its over, get a new girl
 
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This is why you shouldn't date white (western) women
This, incels from shithole countries are infinitely more fortunate than their European counterparts. However Albanians and other slavs seem to have the best of both worlds
 
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Brutal ASF, he's literally 7+ inches as well

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Lol at the cuck begging her. It was over and he should have dumped her instead to make her feel like he is the one who is done with her.
 
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update drink af sry

Texted her and asked her promise to not see anyone till we talk tmrw. She say " can't promise that.

Omg

That's embarrassing, I was drunk as hell last night... sorry. We had a back and forth over text with me begging to know where she was and just asking for her to promise to not see anyone until we talked more because I wasn't sure how I felt about an "open" relationship. She said she couldn't promise anything and if the relationship was going to work this is what it was gonna take no matter what, basically. It pretty much doesn't matter how I feel about it, so we don't need to talk.

Holy hell I feel like shit.


final update

Woke up this morning to the sound of the shower. Seemed like she just came home and went immediately in there to start her morning routine before work. I admit I got up and frantically looked around for her things (cell, iPad, purse, even her clothes) to look for evidence but it was locked in the bathroom with her. Not proud of that but I feel emotionally raped right now. I wasn't thinking straight.

Anyway, she left without saying much to me, more or less ignoring my pleas to talk, mostly saying she'd be late for work. But she did say she met up with a coworker named *** "K" at Taco Bell before heading to her parents last night. Says nothing happened though. I believe her because I've met the guy a few times and I know that they're friends and chill at work to vent about other coworker drama and the like. Honestly it wouldn't make any sense if she was cheating on me with HIM.

This really blew up and I can't thank you folks more for the support. I made it through almost every comment before passing out last night and I plan to do the same today. Sorry I can't respond to you all.

I'll take the rest to another post somewhere else if it looks like people care to hear about the fall out.


This. Is. Surreal.

I actually started chuckling when she first brought it up, thinking she was joking. Her stone-faced reaction to my laughter caused a drop in the pit of my stomach that made me sick.

Long story short - she's had trouble in the last 4 or 5 months orgasming during sex. I have to admit I find that concerning since she's never had that problem at any point in our past (I've always made her orgasm, made a point of it in fact). Now, I can't even get her off with my mouth. I've never thought I had a small dick. Quite the opposite, in fact. Like any guy, I've measured it. between 7 and 7.5" when fully erect.

Here's the kicker, though... she says it's not the length that's the problem, it's my girth. Basically, my girl wants to leave me because I have a pencil dick, saying that because of it she can't see me as attractive anymore. What the fucking fuck? All my rage and depression about this because really, what can I do??? She literally blindsided me with this, never having mentioned anything like it in the past. Adding to that, she's never even been all that sexual a girl!!

I don't know if she started watching porn or what, but I mean what frame of reference could she possibly be using this far into the relationship/engagement to suddenly decide my dick isn't thick enough for her?

What, if anything, can I even do about this? I'm totally lost.

TL;DR She wants to leave me because I don't stretch her out enough, apparently. - length about 7-7.5" and girth probably 3.5-4"

CONSOLIDATION EDIT:
On top of everything else, I've been informed via text that she's not coming home tonight for the first time in ever. I have no fucking idea where she's going. I'll assume her parents' house but I don't even know. Says she's going to parents' house. I don't really talk to her parents though, so I have no way to check on that.

update This girl can't make up her mind. She'll be home in 10 minutes to "get some things" but she's leaving again afterwards. Do I confront her or not?


update

Ok, that was fast. She was in and then out in about 5 minutes. We did talk and... what the fuck. I'll update in a few. I need to get a fucking drink.


2.5 beers in, now, so here goes

So, she came in and I was expecting her to pack up a bunch of shit - clothes, shoes, toiletries, other misc crap, and say she wanted to separate or fuck just leave outright. Turns out she got these things, from what I could tell:

  • Toothbrush and deodorant
  • A clean shirt
  • panties and socks
  • Her iPad (???)
Me: "So... what the hell is going on here?"

Her: "I need to spend some time alone tonight to think."

Me: "Look, this is killing me. I love you but this all seems so fucked up and ludicrous. Is this really about my dick or is it something else???"

Her: she just looks around the room, shaking her head and shrugging her shoulders

Me: "You're the girl I want to be with, you know that blah blah blah insert pouring out of my heart here. Just be straight with me and tell me what the fuck I can do, if anything, for this relationship to work. PLEASE"

Her: "I guess the only way I could ever see this working is if we were open to seeing other people."

Me: stunned silence and verge of tears/rage "Well... can we at least talk about that some more??? Where are you going tonight?"

Her: "My parents'"

Me: "Ok, so fine we'll talk about this more tomorrow. Right?"

Her: "Ok."

Then she left.
This is life...

:feelshehe:
 
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update drink af sry

Texted her and asked her promise to not see anyone till we talk tmrw. She say " can't promise that.

Omg

That's embarrassing, I was drunk as hell last night... sorry. We had a back and forth over text with me begging to know where she was and just asking for her to promise to not see anyone until we talked more because I wasn't sure how I felt about an "open" relationship. She said she couldn't promise anything and if the relationship was going to work this is what it was gonna take no matter what, basically. It pretty much doesn't matter how I feel about it, so we don't need to talk.

Holy hell I feel like shit.


final update

Woke up this morning to the sound of the shower. Seemed like she just came home and went immediately in there to start her morning routine before work. I admit I got up and frantically looked around for her things (cell, iPad, purse, even her clothes) to look for evidence but it was locked in the bathroom with her. Not proud of that but I feel emotionally raped right now. I wasn't thinking straight.

Anyway, she left without saying much to me, more or less ignoring my pleas to talk, mostly saying she'd be late for work. But she did say she met up with a coworker named *** "K" at Taco Bell before heading to her parents last night. Says nothing happened though. I believe her because I've met the guy a few times and I know that they're friends and chill at work to vent about other coworker drama and the like. Honestly it wouldn't make any sense if she was cheating on me with HIM.

This really blew up and I can't thank you folks more for the support. I made it through almost every comment before passing out last night and I plan to do the same today. Sorry I can't respond to you all.

I'll take the rest to another post somewhere else if it looks like people care to hear about the fall out.


This. Is. Surreal.

I actually started chuckling when she first brought it up, thinking she was joking. Her stone-faced reaction to my laughter caused a drop in the pit of my stomach that made me sick.

Long story short - she's had trouble in the last 4 or 5 months orgasming during sex. I have to admit I find that concerning since she's never had that problem at any point in our past (I've always made her orgasm, made a point of it in fact). Now, I can't even get her off with my mouth. I've never thought I had a small dick. Quite the opposite, in fact. Like any guy, I've measured it. between 7 and 7.5" when fully erect.

Here's the kicker, though... she says it's not the length that's the problem, it's my girth. Basically, my girl wants to leave me because I have a pencil dick, saying that because of it she can't see me as attractive anymore. What the fucking fuck? All my rage and depression about this because really, what can I do??? She literally blindsided me with this, never having mentioned anything like it in the past. Adding to that, she's never even been all that sexual a girl!!

I don't know if she started watching porn or what, but I mean what frame of reference could she possibly be using this far into the relationship/engagement to suddenly decide my dick isn't thick enough for her?

What, if anything, can I even do about this? I'm totally lost.

TL;DR She wants to leave me because I don't stretch her out enough, apparently. - length about 7-7.5" and girth probably 3.5-4"

CONSOLIDATION EDIT:
On top of everything else, I've been informed via text that she's not coming home tonight for the first time in ever. I have no fucking idea where she's going. I'll assume her parents' house but I don't even know. Says she's going to parents' house. I don't really talk to her parents though, so I have no way to check on that.

update This girl can't make up her mind. She'll be home in 10 minutes to "get some things" but she's leaving again afterwards. Do I confront her or not?


update

Ok, that was fast. She was in and then out in about 5 minutes. We did talk and... what the fuck. I'll update in a few. I need to get a fucking drink.


2.5 beers in, now, so here goes

So, she came in and I was expecting her to pack up a bunch of shit - clothes, shoes, toiletries, other misc crap, and say she wanted to separate or fuck just leave outright. Turns out she got these things, from what I could tell:

  • Toothbrush and deodorant
  • A clean shirt
  • panties and socks
  • Her iPad (???)
Me: "So... what the hell is going on here?"

Her: "I need to spend some time alone tonight to think."

Me: "Look, this is killing me. I love you but this all seems so fucked up and ludicrous. Is this really about my dick or is it something else???"

Her: she just looks around the room, shaking her head and shrugging her shoulders

Me: "You're the girl I want to be with, you know that blah blah blah insert pouring out of my heart here. Just be straight with me and tell me what the fuck I can do, if anything, for this relationship to work. PLEASE"

Her: "I guess the only way I could ever see this working is if we were open to seeing other people."

Me: stunned silence and verge of tears/rage "Well... can we at least talk about that some more??? Where are you going tonight?"

Her: "My parents'"

Me: "Ok, so fine we'll talk about this more tomorrow. Right?"

Her: "Ok."

Then she left.
Just be top 5% (if really 7.5") and that's what u get in 2022.

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nice attempt at mass suicide, didn't fall for it also my girth is beyond large.
 
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