My friend didn’t invite me to his engagement party

[FaceandBBC]

"Friend"

 

[truthhurts]

how dare this bhenchood not inviting you, give the command and 5000 .org users stand up for you

 

[SubhumanEyes]

Haha yeah. But it’s also good to take a walk.

i recently got a haircut n its kinda ass so i gotta let it grow back before i willingly go outside but i only have a week since thats how long my break from school is

 

[Rope.stops.cope]

that’s fucking brutal hope your alr fuck him anyway

 

[Gengar]

He probably doesn't trust you with giving access to female or he invited your brother cuz he will bring his wife with him and increase shoba of the party.

Nah we just aren’t good friends like I assumed we were. My brother went solo. Has nothing to do with foids.

 

[Gengar]

"Friend"

Yeah, exactly - up until now I thought we were, but I guess not. The joke is he knows my brother because of me jfl. I introduced them to each other back in 2014.

 

[Gengar]

how dare this bhenchood not inviting you, give the command and 5000 .org users stand up for you

It’s fine bhai I don’t mind. At least my brother got invited.

 

[Gengar]

i recently got a haircut n its kinda ass so i gotta let it grow back before i willingly go outside but i only have a week since thats how long my break from school is

Yeah if your haircut is bad you should wait until it gets longer and then do it.

 

[Gengar]

"Friend"

Btw, that reminds me, he claims to be 7” at the base.

 

[Gengar]

that’s fucking brutal hope your alr fuck him anyway

Yeah I’m good, thanks bhai. I only felt pretty awkward because my brother was probably thinking I’d feel bad about not being invited but that’s not the case.

 

[FaceandBBC]

Yeah, exactly - up until now I thought we were, but I guess not. The joke is he knows my brother because of me jfl. I introduced them to each other back in 2014.

Stuff like this is the exact reason why I don't socially associate with anyone but my closest family.

Btw, that reminds me, he claims to be 7” at the base.

He's def larping.

 

[Rope.stops.cope]

At least your chill about it and your brother cares how you feel

 

[Gengar]

Stuff like this is the exact reason why I don't socially associate with anyone but my closest family.

He's def larping.

Yeah your approach is probably the best. Luckily I do have a best friend or two and they would definitely never not invite me.

Idk, I do believe him, he does not seem not the type to lie —he said it tapers off towards the top. Then again, he seemed to be my friend until I was proven wrong today.

 

[Gengar]

At least your chill about it and your brother cares how you feel

I don’t think he cares about how I feel. He condescendingly said “Maybe he’ll invite you to the wedding party. “ Even if that is the case, I am not going. Because this already proves he doesn’t see me as a good friend like I originally believed.

 

[Rope.stops.cope]

Yeah don’t ever go too anything he invites you too again some people just don’t appreciate there so called friends

 

[sub5outsider]

been there dont take it personal he probably view you as the boring guy that brings nothing to the table but cant see you from time to time when no one is avaliable

 

[Gengar]

Yeah don’t ever go too anything he invites you too again some people just don’t appreciate there so called friends

Precisely. The joke is that the engagement party took away quite nearby my place, it’s just 20-25 minutes away from my house by foot.

 

[Gengar]

been there dont take it personal he probably view you as the boring guy that brings nothing to the table but cant see you from time to time when no one is avaliable

Jfl its hard not to take it personal. Not that I’m upset but it’s definitely personal no matter how you look at it.

 

[sub5outsider]

Jfl its hard not to take it personal. Not that I’m upset but it’s definitely personal no matter how you look at it.

view it from his perspective or pray for his downfall

 

[Popstar867]

Yeah. He invited my brother and another friend of ours “at the last minute”, another friend was there for his nikah too lol.

God damn he’s Muslim that means he did not invite you to three events (nikah,engagement,wedding ?) ngl your brother shouldn’t have gone aswell (last minute invitation), and brothers should always back each other .

 

[Gengar]

God damn he’s Muslim that means he did not invite you to three events (nikah,engagement,wedding ?) ngl your brother shouldn’t have gone aswell (last minute invitation), and brothers should always back each other .

Yeah, he’s a revert to Islam. I was there for that. So I thought we were gonna be bhais4lyfe. But nope. And nah my brother should still have gone even without my being invited cuz they’re good friends and attended college together. I may have known him longer but they were closer than I was.

 

[Popstar867]

Yeah, he’s a revert to Islam. I was there for that. So I thought we were gonna be bhais4lyfe. But nope. And nah my brother should still have gone even without my being invited cuz they’re good friends and attended college together. I may have known him longer but they were closer than I was.

I disagree personally even if my closest friend disrespect my brother , I wouldn’t be friends . And you said it was a last minute invitation which is fucking brutal considering he’s a really close friend . I think you should change your mind if he’s truly a “friend”

 

[Gengar]

I disagree personally even if my closest friend disrespect my brother , I wouldn’t be friends . And you said it was a last minute invitation which is fucking brutal considering he’s a really close friend . I think you should change your mind if he’s truly a “friend”

Maybe he just too busy with everything that I slipped his mind (cope?), regardless my brother’s a really social guy. He’s the opposite of me basically. And yeah you’re right, now it’s clear that he’s not my friend.

 

[Popstar867]

Maybe he just too busy with everything that I slipped his mind (cope?), regardless my brother’s a really social guy. He’s the opposite of me basically. And yeah you’re right, now it’s clear that he’s not my friend.

Even if he’s social brother comes first tbh , and yeah cope ngl if anyone gets married the first thing that comes to mind is inviting your loved ones . Inviting someone last minute is a clear sign of unwanted ngl . My honest advice for you is to try to understand who actually cares and will stand by your side . Good luck

 

[Gonthar]

What's an "engagement party", how many extra-parties does a wedding really need, I heard about bachelor party, bachelorette party, the bridal shower where they give gifts to the bride, now there's even rehearsal wedding before the actual wedding, do people actually have time and money for all this crap?

 

[Popstar867]

What's an "engagement party", how many extra-parties does a wedding really need, I heard about bachelor party, bachelorette party, the bridal shower where they give gifts to the bride, now there's even rehearsal wedding before the actual wedding, do people actually have time and money for all this crap?

It’s a Muslim thing

 

[Gengar]

Even if he’s social brother comes first tbh , and yeah cope ngl if anyone gets married the first thing that comes to mind is inviting your loved ones . Inviting someone last minute is a clear sign of unwanted ngl . My honest advice for you is to try to understand who actually cares and will stand by your side . Good luck

Thanks for the advice bhai, I think the only person (outside of family, that is) like that would be my best friend. I know he would never do something like this. I’m aware that not everyone is truly your friend, this isn’t the first time I’ve been screwed over. Even so-called childhood friends who I grew up with would eventually turn their backs on me, shit-talk about me behind my back. I really don’t know why because I’ve never been a dick to them. People are just shitty I guess. As for my brother, well it’s a long story but he’s got his own life anyway, he’s already married and lives in his own house. It’s fine.

 

[Gengar]

What's an "engagement party", how many extra-parties does a wedding really need, I heard about bachelor party, bachelorette party, the bridal shower where they give gifts to the bride, now there's even rehearsal wedding before the actual wedding, do people actually have time and money for all this crap?

It’s kind of strange because technically they’re already married since they had a nikah ceremony (marriage signing contract ceremony). In Islam, there’s no such thing as engagements, I guess it’s a modern invention. I guess they don’t see themselves as married until they throw a wedding party? Personally, I’m not a fan of parties and the thing I would hate the most is being the center of the party. Maybe being a truecel is a good thing haha, that way I’ll never be the center of attention.

 

[Gengar]

It’s a Muslim thing

In Islam, there’s no such thing as an engagement. There’s only marriage, which is done in the form of a signing a marriage contract. I guess they were celebrating that on this occasion? They still called it an “engagement party” but that doesn’t genuinely exist from an Islamic POV. After this, they’ll throw the wedding party. It’s going to take place in October, my brother said.

 

[Popstar867]

Thanks for the advice bhai, I think the only person (outside of family, that is) like that would be my best friend. I know he would never do something like this. I’m aware that not everyone is truly your friend, this isn’t the first time I’ve been screwed over. Even so-called childhood friends who I grew up with would eventually turn their backs on me, shit-talk about me behind my back. I really don’t know why because I’ve never been a dick to them. People are just shitty I guess. As for my brother, well it’s a long story but he’s got his own life anyway, he’s already married and lives in his own house. It’s fine.

Wish you luck man and btw me and my friends are very transparent , because I’m extremely ND they’d tell me when I’m acting like a dick , or when I’m doing too much they’d tell me to calm down and many more . I feel like You should do the same and ask your friend for help . I mean that’s what friends are for

 

[Popstar867]

In Islam, there’s no such thing as an engagement. There’s only marriage, which is done in the form of a signing a marriage contract. I guess they were celebrating that on this occasion? They still called it an “engagement party” but that doesn’t genuinely exist from an Islamic POV. After this, they’ll throw the wedding party. It’s going to take place in October, my brother said.

Oh I didn’t know that . My friend used to tell me that the brides side paid for the engagement and the husband side paid for the marriage (nikah aswell ofcourse)

 

[Gengar]

Wish you luck man and btw me and my friends are very transparent , because I’m extremely ND they’d tell me when I’m acting like a dick , or when I’m doing too much they’d tell me to calm down and many more . I feel like You should do the same and ask your friend for help . I mean that’s what friends are for

Thank you bhaijaan. It’s nice of you to have transparent friends. The childhood ones would hide their dislike/hatred from my brother and I. It was only through another friend of ours at the time who revealed everything to us. He thinks we “aren’t cool” because we aren’t thugmaxxers like other ethnics are. Just lol.

 

[Gengar]

Oh I didn’t know that . My friend used to tell me that the brides side paid for the engagement and the husband side paid for the marriage (nikah aswell ofcourse)

It’s been custom for many people nowadays to “be engaged” but like I said, there’s no such thing in Islam, officially speaking. It happens in Islamic countries a lot, too. By the way, while many Islamic people use the term “nikah,” it also means “fucking” in Arabic, so Arabs don’t use this term and they think it’s weird when others do.

 

[Hernan]

I’ve known him since junior year of high school and we still hang out occasionally. My brother just told me that he went yesterday along with some of our other friends. Truecel failo strikes again.

cut him out your life b.

 

[rrm_ss2]

I’ve known him since junior year of high school and we still hang out occasionally. My brother just told me that he went yesterday along with some of our other friends. Truecel failo strikes again.

omg baby they huwt your little fweelings

 

[Gengar]

cut him out your life b.

Yeah I’m not gonna hang out with these guys anymore. We get together once a year nowadays but I’ll not be going to any of these meetings in the future.

 

[Gengar]

omg baby they huwt your little fweelings

Not at all, it’s just an eye-opener.

 

[Hernan]

Yeah I’m not gonna hang out with these guys anymore. We get together once a year nowadays but I’ll not be going to any of these meetings in the future.

very respectable decision.

 

[Popstar867]

It’s been custom for many people nowadays to “be engaged” but like I said, there’s no such thing in Islam, officially speaking. It happens in Islamic countries a lot, too. By the way, while many Islamic people use the term “nikah,” it also means “fucking” in Arabic, so Arabs don’t use this term and they think it’s weird when others do.

No no I’m Arabic we use that term and yeah it still sounds similar neek نيك is sex and it called neekah نكاح but because it sounds similar we change the ك with ق not to embarrass ourselves

 

[Gengar]

very respectable decision.

Thank you bhaijaan.

 

[BonesmashFinalBoss]

On the bright side, now I don’t need to give him a gift. I’m poor as hell anyway.

Drop your wallet nigger

 

[Gengar]

No no I’m Arabic we use that term and yeah it still sounds similar neek نيك is sex and it called neekah نكاح but because it sounds similar we change the ك with ق not to embarrass ourselves

Ohhh shit no way! I didn’t know you were Arabic. What kind of Arab are you? There’s a looot of genetic diversity among Arabs. And thanks for the explanation.

 

[Gengar]

Drop your wallet nigger

I don’t have one.

 

[BonesmashFinalBoss]

I don’t have one.

nigga make one, I'm sure niggas on org would donate

 

[Popstar867]

Ohhh shit no way! I didn’t know you were Arabic. What kind of Arab are you? There’s a looot of genetic diversity among Arabs. And thanks for the explanation.

the rich countries

 

[Popstar867]

the flag has green on it

 

[Gengar]

nigga make one, I'm sure niggas on org would donate

Oooooh lmao. I thought you wanted my money. Hahah nah it’s okay, thank you. I don’t like accepting gifts/money from people. I like giving, but I don’t like taking. Maybe there’s a psychological reason behind this.

 

[Gengar]

the rich countries

the flag has green on it

So, Gulf Arab then?

 

[Popstar867]

So, Gulf Arab then?

yeah but I live in a western country just like you for Studies

 

[Gengar]

yeah but I live in a western country just like you for Studies

I know habibti, I just checked your IP.