My friend refuses to speak to me because i told her to break up with her bf

[Wicket]

Before I start i have to say this before anyone gets the wrong idea she is only my friend and I have no feelings towards her whatsoever.

Now the story:
So she was at her bfs friends party when she had a panic attack, started crying and had to leave. She then got left at the bus stop in a place where she doesnt know by her bf so he could go have fun with his friends. She then calls me up bawling her eyes out and I have to help her get back home using Google maps because im not in the same city. So I tell her how to get home and tell her this isnt the first time hes done bad shit and she keeps telling me shes gonna break up with him. She then continues complaining about him to me and I said she should break up with him and find someone else. Fast forward to the next day she says "he said hes going to be better this time and wont let it happen again" (hes said this over 20 times now even after leaving her in really bad situations) so I tell her to get a grip and she straight up says lets talk tomorrow because she never likes me giving her criticism even tho not even joking I have been right 100% of the time ive given it. So now fast forward to now again she wont talk to me and shes still posting stories and shit with her boyfriend whilst not speaking to me at all despite me doing nothing wrong and taking time out of my day to help her get home over the phone whilst he was the one that left her in the dangerous situation. Make it make sense bro.

@swedchud @BleoodyOver @scuderia @dnr.niglet

 

[dnr.niglet]

Before I start i have to say this before anyone gets the wrong idea she is only my friend and I have no feelings towards her whatsoever.

Now the story:
So she was at her bfs friends party when she had a panic attack, started crying and had to leave. She then got left at the bus stop in a place where she doesnt know by her bf so he could go have fun with his friends. She then calls me up bawling her eyes out and I have to help her get back home using Google maps because im not in the same city. So I tell her how to get home and tell her this isnt the first time hes done bad shit and she keeps telling me shes gonna break up with him. She then continues complaining about him to me and I said she should break up with him and find someone else. Fast forward to the next day she says "he said hes going to be better this time and wont let it happen again" (hes said this over 20 times now even after leaving her in really bad situations) so I tell her to get a grip and she straight up says lets talk tomorrow because she never likes me giving her criticism even tho not even joking I have been right 100% of the time ive given it. So now fast forward to now again she wont talk to me and shes still posting stories and shit with her boyfriend whilst not speaking to me at all despite me doing nothing wrong and taking time out of my day to help her get home over the phone whilst he was the one that left her in the dangerous situation. Make it make sense bro.

@swedchud @BleoodyOver @scuderia @dnr.niglet

Read the whole thang, you don’t need friends nigga, I’ve given up on mine Icl, they don’t have the same mindset. No point in wasting your time with friends because they’re goys who share the same addiction whether it’s eating junk, drugs, drama, talking shit. It’s a cruel world, and the only person you can trust is yourself, don’t rely on others

 

[Wicket]

Read the whole thang, you don’t need friends nigga, I’ve given up on mine Icl, they don’t have the same mindset. No point in wasting your time with friends because they’re goys who share the same addiction whether it’s eating junk, drugs, drama, talking shit. It’s a cruel world, and the only person you can trust is yourself, don’t rely on others

I give up atp tbh
Why am I getting punished for helping and being a good friend
Not gonna help anyone anymore either

 

[isis_Bleach]

ur right tho? she she suck ur D

 

[Notorious_1676]

I hate to sound condescending but you have 8 thousand posts on here, you should know why

 

[dnr.niglet]

I give up atp tbh
Why am I getting punished for helping and being a good friend
Not gonna help anyone anymore either

Yeah people do what they want. Reason I’ve given up on friends is yeah cuz they’re a bunch of goys.
One of them is severely malnourished and I kept trying to tell him to eat healthy and shit, trying to help him out but he kept coming up with excuses.
The rest are just junkies.

 

[scuderia]

Before I start i have to say this before anyone gets the wrong idea she is only my friend and I have no feelings towards her whatsoever.

Now the story:
So she was at her bfs friends party when she had a panic attack, started crying and had to leave. She then got left at the bus stop in a place where she doesnt know by her bf so he could go have fun with his friends. She then calls me up bawling her eyes out and I have to help her get back home using Google maps because im not in the same city. So I tell her how to get home and tell her this isnt the first time hes done bad shit and she keeps telling me shes gonna break up with him. She then continues complaining about him to me and I said she should break up with him and find someone else. Fast forward to the next day she says "he said hes going to be better this time and wont let it happen again" (hes said this over 20 times now even after leaving her in really bad situations) so I tell her to get a grip and she straight up says lets talk tomorrow because she never likes me giving her criticism even tho not even joking I have been right 100% of the time ive given it. So now fast forward to now again she wont talk to me and shes still posting stories and shit with her boyfriend whilst not speaking to me at all despite me doing nothing wrong and taking time out of my day to help her get home over the phone whilst he was the one that left her in the dangerous situation. Make it make sense bro.

@swedchud @BleoodyOver @scuderia @dnr.niglet

Dnr I’m at Culver’s playing scrabble with the fam

Will read later tho

 

[Wicket]

I hate to sound condescending but you have 8 thousand posts on here, you should know why

Genuinely what do you mean by this

 

[Wicket]

Dnr I’m at Culver’s playing scrabble with the fam

Will read later tho

Get them cheese curds brah heard theyre good as shit

 

[Wicket]

Yeah people do what they want. Reason I’ve given up on friends is yeah cuz they’re a bunch of goys.
One of them is severely malnourished and I kept trying to tell him to eat healthy and shit, trying to help him out but he kept coming up with excuses.
The rest are just junkies.

Most people i know are just drug addicts tbh
Its not even fun being around them either
Friends are lwk overrated

 

[Wicket]

ur right tho? she she suck ur D

Brah i dont get how she can think im in the wrong after helping her out so much

 

[dnr.niglet]

Most people i know are just drug addicts tbh
Its not even fun being around them either
Friends are lwk overrated

Yo bro come out
And do what?
I swr niggas have no money, nothing to do and think being outside will solve it. I don’t like the company of others and I don’t need it to feel good, being around people actually makes me uncomfortable

 

[Notorious_1676]

Genuinely what do you mean by this

Women don't want logical solutions during a "crisis", they just want to have their emotions comforted especially during a crisis. They're like children in that sense.

It sounds like you've told her to leave him a dozen times yet she's never listened to you so she clearly wasn't going to change her mind. You said it yourself, she doesn't like being criticized.

Assuming your goal is to fuck her, then comfort her, defend her boyfriend whenever she argues with him and then stop answering her calls or responding if you're conflicted as to when they're going to breakup. If you end up wrong, she'll sub-consciously loose trust in your judgement. Their breakup is inevitable so you should have a good shot. She also sounds like she has a one track mind so I doubt you can fuck her whilst she's in a relationship especially if she's constantly forgiving him and getting mad at him.

 

[Wicket]

Women don't want logical solutions during a "crisis", they just want to have their emotions comforted especially during a crisis. They're like children in that sense.

It sounds like you've told her to leave him a dozen times yet she's never listened to you so she clearly wasn't going to change her mind. You said it yourself, she doesn't like being criticized.

Assuming your goal is to fuck her, then comfort her, defend her boyfriend whenever she argues with him and then stop answering her calls or responding if you're conflicted as to when they're going to breakup. If you end up wrong, she'll sub-consciously loose trust in your judgement. Their breakup is inevitable so you should have a good shot. She also sounds like she has a one track mind so I doubt you can fuck her whilst she's in a relationship especially if she's constantly forgiving him and getting mad at him.

Yeah honestly she just wants to be comforted but what am I to do
I want to help her but I cant if she pushes me away every single time I give her constructive criticism and point out where she goes wrong
Cant criticise her because otherwise it just backfires on me there's no point in helping anymore

And for the 3rd paragraph thats not my plan at all
I just genuinely want to be good friends with her but she makes it hard sometimes ive never even thought about doing anything with her and nor do I want to