my gf broke up with me out of nowhere yesterday yet is coming over today

[bddcoper]

what does it mean? she says she doesn't like me romantically but still likes me. im devastated by some of the stuff she said... how she wouldn't change for me but she would for the right guy... that she doesn't want to settle... that she wants someone better in everything. all this came up after she took a plan b. lots of influence from her friends before this because she says these thoughts abt breaking up started around 2 weeks ago (when she was able to see her friends from uni) and also yesterday she showed some texts to her friend and she told her to break up with me. all her friends are fat ugly subhuman pigs fucking hell they ruined everything for me she says its not about looks but that she doesn't think im considerate or kind. she used to always say that i was considerate before we did long distance. its all cope i cant believe this.

i dont know if its hormonal and that i should just forgive her if we ever get back together or that the hormonal surge caused her to just release her hidden thoughts. we were doing amazing before long distance then everything got ruined over the summer once we got into a few minor arguments.

what do i do? im too autistic to approach another girl despite having the stats (184 cm barefoot (6'0.4") --> 186 cm (6'1.25") with heel filler in september, HMTN face with MHTN potential, physique halo with wide frame of 21.5"/53 cm). none of this matters because im too insecure about myself maybe objectively im hmtn given people complimenting my looks but i always think they're lying because all i see in the mirror are my flaws. help pls

 

[theblueprints]

despite having the stats (184 cm barefoot (6'0.4") --> 186 cm (6'1.25") with heel filler in september, HMTN face with MHTN potential, physique halo with wide frame of 21.5"/53 cm)

got carried away with flexing about himself

 

[bddcoper]

got carried away with flexing about himself

Im sorry it’s the only cope I have rn

 

[CheezyPoof]

Yeah girl “friend” group dynamics are absolutely crazy. This is something most guys will never realize because girls treat guys different and so you will not directly experience the behavior among themselves. But yeah they’re crazy, constant gossip, rumors, backstabbing, jealousy, and so on. They may get jealous of someone having a gf and so they will say she should break up because of some bs they come up with but don’t mean at all like “you deserve better”. It’s just crazy women “friend” logic. Outwardly they pretend girls stick up for each other, but inwardly they want the others to fail so they can feel better about their own pathetic lives which they are insecure about. That’s how they deal with their feelings which they supposedly are so much better at than guys.

So yeah, her “friends” want you and your gf to fail so those fat ugly bitches can feel better about themselves.

 

[bddcoper]

Yeah girl “friend” group dynamics are absolutely crazy. This is something most guys will never realize because girls treat guys different and so you will not directly experience the behavior among themselves. But yeah they’re crazy, constant gossip, rumors, backstabbing, jealousy, and so on. They may get jealous of someone having a gf and so they will say she should break up because of some bs they come up with but don’t mean at all like “you deserve better”. It’s just crazy women “friend” logic. Outwardly they pretend girls stick up for each other, but inwardly they want the others to fail so they can feel better about their own pathetic lives which they are insecure about. That’s how they deal with their feelings which they supposedly are so much better at than guys.

So yeah, her “friends” want you and your gf to fail so those fat ugly bitches can feel better about themselves.

Thanks so much man for the detailed response I really appreciate u reading everything. apparently the friend that told her to break up currently has a boyfriend and has had many (I wonder why she has dated many ). I feel a bit better now

 

[bddcoper]

Guys she came over and we just fucked and said we would just be friends with benefits. When I asked her why she wants to keep seeing me she said it’s bc im attractive but my personality sucks so we can’t date

Better lowkey since I don’t have to do shit and I get free sex