My gf doesn't text me first

[Drakeisnigger]

It's been 2 days I just see her good morning msg in morning thats it. I say gm in return and do some small talk. After that she doesn't msg first. Why?

 

[Deleted member 11074]

She’s cheating on u with Chad

 

[Deleted member 2733]

You're not good looking enough to be chased

She's with you just so she doesn't seem weird because she doesn't have a boyfriend/just for attention when she is bored

 

[Drakeisnigger]

She’s cheating on u with Chad

Are u sure? But idk if that's possible. She is 16 yo and trad

 

[lexett]

It's been 2 days I just see her good morning msg in morning thats it. I say gm in return and do some small talk. After that she doesn't msg first. Why?

If you keep messaging her first she'll get used to not needing to contact you. She might be "testing" you aswell right now. I'd say take a few days off and then reach out to her again, when you head is more clear

 

[lexett]

She’s cheating on u with Chad

come on man..

 

[Drakeisnigger]

If you keep messaging her first she'll get used to not needing to contact you. She might be "testing" you aswell right now. I'd say take a few days off and then reach out to her again, when you head is more clear

I'm better than the avg. I have 186cm height look better than average curry here

 

[Drakeisnigger]

If you keep messaging her first she'll get used to not needing to contact you. She might be "testing" you aswell right now. I'd say take a few days off and then reach out to her again, when you head is more clear

So should I not msg her?

 

[Deleted member 8165]

over

 

[Uglyandfat]

It's been 2 days I just see her good morning msg in morning thats it. I say gm in return and do some small talk. After that she doesn't msg first. Why?

pull away youre too available unless youre fucking ugly then she fucking some other dude

 

[lexett]

So should I not msg her?

yeah wait for a bit and figure it out man, good luck and godspeed

 

[Drakeisnigger]

pull away youre too available unless youre fucking ugly then she fucking some other dude

Im not ugly Im 186cm in India and look better than many men

 

[Drakeisnigger]

yeah wait for a bit and figure it out man, good luck and godspeed

Thx bruh

 

[Deleted member 7753]

yeah she simply doesnt like you as much as you think she does. my ex used to text me all the time, even while she worked.

 

[Uglyandfat]

Im not ugly Im 186cm in India and look better than many men

all women pull away and the naturual response for simp men is to chase after and to be "more kind" and say shit like "I love you so much im sorry for whatever i did" and then fight with her but if you pull back and stop chasing she's going to get worried and she's gonna come back and when she does act like nothing ever happened

 

[Drakeisnigger]

all women pull away and the naturual response for simp men is to chase after and to be "more kind" and say shit like "I love you so much im sorry for whatever i did" and then fight with her but if you pull back and stop chasing she's going to get worried and she's gonna come back and when she does act like nothing ever happened

So I don't msg her anymore?

 

[Uglyandfat]

yeah she simply doesnt like you as much as you think she does. my ex used to text me all the time, even while she worked.

depends there are multiple factors for women pulling away not always the case that she does not like you though it is def a chance that the attraction was killed by acting like a needy bitch i've done it with my ex many times when she was distant but as soon as i pulled back she went crazy started chasing started calling me 10 times spamming my phone etc then i fell into old habbits of texting her every 5 seconds and being needy and shit

 

[Uglyandfat]

So I don't msg her anymore?

basically yes. get busy, stop caring if she messages you or not and if she asks whats going on just tell her "I sensed that you needed a bit of space so I went out and started doing my own things but if you need to talk im always here." sum like that