Tell her to get meds atp if it's ruining your mental healt
best sex of my life though
Worst mental state I've been in ever, although the past few weeks & months were fucking good
oh man it's so fucking good when it's going great but a true horror story when it isn't, these last few days have most deffo taken 10 years off my life spanBr00tal
There’s no fixing people with bpd
Not worth the headache, matter of time before she stabs u
Fuck man I'm too obsessed with her, unfortunately shit isn't going as good right now and I really don't wanna lose her.
your girlfriend is blackpilled?
a lot of shit, but I love mine to death and she's high functioning bpd
Oh man I know, but what can you do if you love the person with your whole heart so much, you're always together and she's done so much good for me until recently.
Just try to keep a clear head, don't do anything retarded once it inevitably ends
To be fair, 6 months is fairly decent for a bpd girl. You said she was "high functioning", so she's probably not totally whacko. But trouble keeping relationships is a core symptom of this personality disorder.That's the thing I don't want it to end
But if it's completely out of my control then I guess I can't do shit about it? Just unfortunate that so much is going to waste if this ends
No she doesn't. BPD is just an excuse for women to act like cunts. Nothing a good beating won't cure.
She deffo had a few, I remember she said two ended with her losing feelings and the other one cheating on her.
How old is she?
I agree plus her personality matching mine and we had a fuck ton of same interests etc such a fun person to be around and talk to etc and she said the same about me enough times for me to believe that she did in fact mean that part.
It's not I loved her before I even realized & found out that she had BPD
bpd enhances it
I don't know man. I'd really like to tell you that you're special and will be the one she stays with forever, but I have some serious doubts. I think with these bpd girls you get your turn, then after a while its somebody elses turn. So enjoy it while it lasts. But I'm a bit of a pessimist.
That's the thing I thought she was normal at first, I really couldn't notice it until like a month plus of dating
it makes it impossible
Everything is/was good, legit everything it's just her moods/perception/rapid changes that's fucking it up for me and her
I can understand. I'm definitely not telling you to preemptively break up with her or anything like that. Keep going for it for as long as possible. Just keep in mind that she's literally got a mental disease, that there is a decent chance things don't work out forever, so when it does end you aren't utterly destroyed.
I can literally like understand but like you know when you've got such deep feelings for someone that it's very hard to let go especially if that person was/is apart of your life every single day in every single aspect.
Letting go is a skill you will eventually learn all too well (unless you also got some sort of mental disorder that stops you).
Fuck that must be fucking hell bro, I wish the best for you. I can't I do have a bit of trouble with letting people go I've known for a longer time.
How'd you lose your first one? And yeah I'm very assertive I always express my emotions & shit and I'm not always a pushover although I can be sometimes which I guess I'll have to work on.
I was young and dumb and didn’t assert myself in the right way which caused her to split and leave at some point. With my current one it started off with some turbulence but she was emotionally mature enough to communicate her expectations clearly and have me tell her that I’m not going to meet some of those expectations. If she’s losing her mind over something and you feel emotionally drained for how long she’s been going on just straight up tell her like “I know you feel emotions for a longer time than someone without BPD but I’m done with this and am not interested in arguing further”
alr bro preciate you sharing your own personal experience, also her being mature enough which you said, fuark bro I don't think mine is at that level yet if I'm gonna be honest
Same bruv, thank god I manage it like a king
holy relatable
My bad bro, has something specific been happening or is she just acting up in generalalr bro preciate you sharing your own personal experience, also her being mature enough which you said, fuark bro I don't think mine is at that level yet if I'm gonna be honest
For me it's the complete opposite it started off really well, then got a bit worse, then back to going insanely well again, then neutral and now it's been fucked for a few days.
how long have you been managing it?
Almost a year but Ive known her for much more than a year
nah ur all good man it's some specific shit, don't really wanna say it all on here but it's some bullshit.
