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my girlfriend is on a girls holiday in budapest, which was already making me worried just by its nature and the fact her friends are evil.
a few nights ago i get a call from her friend and they are walking back from a club while my gf is super drunk. they said that a guy forced himself onto her and essentially kissed her. i remained calm and told her i wasn’t angry whilst i stayed on call till she was asleep. before she fell asleep however, she was bawling her eyes out and said that she cheated on me. her friends said to just ignore her.
the next day, when she was no longer drunk, she said that her words were all just drunk nonsense. it was now that i told her to be honest about what happened. i basically asked questions about the length of the kiss, whether she pulled away immediately, whether she was blackout drunk etc. she admitted she went in for the kiss but said she was completely out of it.
i thought of her saying that she cheated on me and i started getting frustrated and i told her i was disappointed for getting into that situation and not having the instinct to pull away.
she told me she wanted to break up with me because she was ‘sexually assaulted’ (which i do feel very bad about it) and i wasn’t showing enough empathy. she basically said i was acting immature since i was asking so many questions instead of caring about her and how traumatic the situation was.
i was only just trying to figure out what had actually happened. i understand if she was still traumatised from it but it being breakup worthy is crazy to me.
the same evening i asked if she was going clubbing, since it was her last night. she said she would just stay in her hotel as she had a flight the next day.
the next morning, i see her friends posting about how she was crazy in the club last night. turns out she did go clubbing and she kissed a guy hours after breaking up with me.
all of a sudden, an 8 month relationship, where i genuinely loved this girl was just thrown out the window for nothing?
i opened up to her about my insecurities and i often rejected being in pictures with her incase her friends called me ugly. she repeatedly tried to comfort me and tell me she thought i was attractive but i never fully believed her.
in the end it basically feels like she didn’t truly love me and she just threw it all away for a guy that was probably more attractive than me.
never trust a girl
a few nights ago i get a call from her friend and they are walking back from a club while my gf is super drunk. they said that a guy forced himself onto her and essentially kissed her. i remained calm and told her i wasn’t angry whilst i stayed on call till she was asleep. before she fell asleep however, she was bawling her eyes out and said that she cheated on me. her friends said to just ignore her.
the next day, when she was no longer drunk, she said that her words were all just drunk nonsense. it was now that i told her to be honest about what happened. i basically asked questions about the length of the kiss, whether she pulled away immediately, whether she was blackout drunk etc. she admitted she went in for the kiss but said she was completely out of it.
i thought of her saying that she cheated on me and i started getting frustrated and i told her i was disappointed for getting into that situation and not having the instinct to pull away.
she told me she wanted to break up with me because she was ‘sexually assaulted’ (which i do feel very bad about it) and i wasn’t showing enough empathy. she basically said i was acting immature since i was asking so many questions instead of caring about her and how traumatic the situation was.
i was only just trying to figure out what had actually happened. i understand if she was still traumatised from it but it being breakup worthy is crazy to me.
the same evening i asked if she was going clubbing, since it was her last night. she said she would just stay in her hotel as she had a flight the next day.
the next morning, i see her friends posting about how she was crazy in the club last night. turns out she did go clubbing and she kissed a guy hours after breaking up with me.
all of a sudden, an 8 month relationship, where i genuinely loved this girl was just thrown out the window for nothing?
i opened up to her about my insecurities and i often rejected being in pictures with her incase her friends called me ugly. she repeatedly tried to comfort me and tell me she thought i was attractive but i never fully believed her.
in the end it basically feels like she didn’t truly love me and she just threw it all away for a guy that was probably more attractive than me.
never trust a girl


