my gf of 8 months broke up with me yesterday and got with another guy the same night [FULL STORY]

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my girlfriend is on a girls holiday in budapest, which was already making me worried just by its nature and the fact her friends are evil.

a few nights ago i get a call from her friend and they are walking back from a club while my gf is super drunk. they said that a guy forced himself onto her and essentially kissed her. i remained calm and told her i wasn’t angry whilst i stayed on call till she was asleep. before she fell asleep however, she was bawling her eyes out and said that she cheated on me. her friends said to just ignore her.

the next day, when she was no longer drunk, she said that her words were all just drunk nonsense. it was now that i told her to be honest about what happened. i basically asked questions about the length of the kiss, whether she pulled away immediately, whether she was blackout drunk etc. she admitted she went in for the kiss but said she was completely out of it.

i thought of her saying that she cheated on me and i started getting frustrated and i told her i was disappointed for getting into that situation and not having the instinct to pull away.

she told me she wanted to break up with me because she was ‘sexually assaulted’ (which i do feel very bad about it) and i wasn’t showing enough empathy. she basically said i was acting immature since i was asking so many questions instead of caring about her and how traumatic the situation was.

i was only just trying to figure out what had actually happened. i understand if she was still traumatised from it but it being breakup worthy is crazy to me.

the same evening i asked if she was going clubbing, since it was her last night. she said she would just stay in her hotel as she had a flight the next day.

the next morning, i see her friends posting about how she was crazy in the club last night. turns out she did go clubbing and she kissed a guy hours after breaking up with me.

all of a sudden, an 8 month relationship, where i genuinely loved this girl was just thrown out the window for nothing?

i opened up to her about my insecurities and i often rejected being in pictures with her incase her friends called me ugly. she repeatedly tried to comfort me and tell me she thought i was attractive but i never fully believed her.

in the end it basically feels like she didn’t truly love me and she just threw it all away for a guy that was probably more attractive than me.

never trust a girl 😭
 
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dnr but feels bad man foids are for slaying not staying
 
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my girlfriend is on a girls holiday in budapest, which was already making me worried just by its nature and the fact her friends are evil.

a few nights ago i get a call from her friend and they are walking back from a club while my gf is super drunk. they said that a guy forced himself onto her and essentially kissed her. i remained calm and told her i wasn’t angry whilst i stayed on call till she was asleep. before she fell asleep however, she was bawling her eyes out and said that she cheated on me. her friends said to just ignore her.

the next day, when she was no longer drunk, she said that her words were all just drunk nonsense. it was now that i told her to be honest about what happened. i basically asked questions about the length of the kiss, whether she pulled away immediately, whether she was blackout drunk etc. she admitted she went in for the kiss but said she was completely out of it.

i thought of her saying that she cheated on me and i started getting frustrated and i told her i was disappointed for getting into that situation and not having the instinct to pull away.

she told me she wanted to break up with me because she was ‘sexually assaulted’ (which i do feel very bad about it) and i wasn’t showing enough empathy. she basically said i was acting immature since i was asking so many questions instead of caring about her and how traumatic the situation was.

i was only just trying to figure out what had actually happened. i understand if she was still traumatised from it but it being breakup worthy is crazy to me.

the same evening i asked if she was going clubbing, since it was her last night. she said she would just stay in her hotel as she had a flight the next day.

the next morning, i see her friends posting about how she was crazy in the club last night. turns out she did go clubbing and she kissed a guy hours after breaking up with me.

all of a sudden, an 8 month relationship, where i genuinely loved this girl was just thrown out the window for nothing?

i opened up to her about my insecurities and i often rejected being in pictures with her incase her friends called me ugly. she repeatedly tried to comfort me and tell me she thought i was attractive but i never fully believed her.

in the end it basically feels like she didn’t truly love me and she just threw it all away for a guy that was probably more attractive than me.

never trust a girl 😭
I 'm sorry for what happened to you dude. The fact that she lied about staying in the hotel and went straight back out to a club to kiss someone else hours later proves she was looking for detachment, not healing from a trauma. I understand that you feel hurt right now and that 's completely understandable. I would advise you to block her and to avoid any contact with her. I wish you the best of luck.
 
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that's so fucked bro hope your good block her immediately though
 
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dnr
 
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Sorry you had to go through that man, as soon as I read "girls holiday" I knew this shit was done and dusted :feelswhy:
 
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I 'm sorry for what happened to you dude. The fact that she lied about staying in the hotel and went straight back out to a club to kiss someone else hours later proves she was looking for detachment, not healing from a trauma. I understand that you feel hurt right now and that 's completely understandable. I would advise you to block her and to avoid any contact with her. I wish you the best of luck.
yeah it was a huge betrayal of trust

i blocked her on socials, trying to distance
 
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my girlfriend is on a girls holiday in budapest, which was already making me worried just by its nature and the fact her friends are evil.

a few nights ago i get a call from her friend and they are walking back from a club while my gf is super drunk. they said that a guy forced himself onto her and essentially kissed her. i remained calm and told her i wasn’t angry whilst i stayed on call till she was asleep. before she fell asleep however, she was bawling her eyes out and said that she cheated on me. her friends said to just ignore her.

the next day, when she was no longer drunk, she said that her words were all just drunk nonsense. it was now that i told her to be honest about what happened. i basically asked questions about the length of the kiss, whether she pulled away immediately, whether she was blackout drunk etc. she admitted she went in for the kiss but said she was completely out of it.

i thought of her saying that she cheated on me and i started getting frustrated and i told her i was disappointed for getting into that situation and not having the instinct to pull away.

she told me she wanted to break up with me because she was ‘sexually assaulted’ (which i do feel very bad about it) and i wasn’t showing enough empathy. she basically said i was acting immature since i was asking so many questions instead of caring about her and how traumatic the situation was.

i was only just trying to figure out what had actually happened. i understand if she was still traumatised from it but it being breakup worthy is crazy to me.

the same evening i asked if she was going clubbing, since it was her last night. she said she would just stay in her hotel as she had a flight the next day.

the next morning, i see her friends posting about how she was crazy in the club last night. turns out she did go clubbing and she kissed a guy hours after breaking up with me.

all of a sudden, an 8 month relationship, where i genuinely loved this girl was just thrown out the window for nothing?

i opened up to her about my insecurities and i often rejected being in pictures with her incase her friends called me ugly. she repeatedly tried to comfort me and tell me she thought i was attractive but i never fully believed her.

in the end it basically feels like she didn’t truly love me and she just threw it all away for a guy that was probably more attractive than me.

never trust a girl 😭

She will 1000% blame you when she's back for "not giving her sympathy whilst she was down"
 
Sorry you had to go through that man, as soon as I read "girls holiday" I knew this shit was done and dusted :feelswhy:
exactly 😭

i’ve got my boys holiday in 5 days to portugal though
 
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Yah, you're catching me shooting stray bullets if this shit happens to me.
 
She will 1000% blame you when she's back for "not giving her sympathy whilst she was down"
yeah

girls can always find a way to make you look bad
 
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Yah, you're catching me shooting stray bullets if this shit happens to me.
and ofc at the start of the relationship i thought she was perfect

girls can be so messed up it’s insane

and you can never really tell at first
 
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Make sure you slay tf out bro 💪
bro i’m not some chadlite so she’s gotten with a guy whilst my revenge will be in like a year 😂
 
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my girlfriend is on a girls holiday in budapest, which was already making me worried just by its nature and the fact her friends are evil.

a few nights ago i get a call from her friend and they are walking back from a club while my gf is super drunk. they said that a guy forced himself onto her and essentially kissed her. i remained calm and told her i wasn’t angry whilst i stayed on call till she was asleep. before she fell asleep however, she was bawling her eyes out and said that she cheated on me. her friends said to just ignore her.

the next day, when she was no longer drunk, she said that her words were all just drunk nonsense. it was now that i told her to be honest about what happened. i basically asked questions about the length of the kiss, whether she pulled away immediately, whether she was blackout drunk etc. she admitted she went in for the kiss but said she was completely out of it.

i thought of her saying that she cheated on me and i started getting frustrated and i told her i was disappointed for getting into that situation and not having the instinct to pull away.

she told me she wanted to break up with me because she was ‘sexually assaulted’ (which i do feel very bad about it) and i wasn’t showing enough empathy. she basically said i was acting immature since i was asking so many questions instead of caring about her and how traumatic the situation was.

i was only just trying to figure out what had actually happened. i understand if she was still traumatised from it but it being breakup worthy is crazy to me.

the same evening i asked if she was going clubbing, since it was her last night. she said she would just stay in her hotel as she had a flight the next day.

the next morning, i see her friends posting about how she was crazy in the club last night. turns out she did go clubbing and she kissed a guy hours after breaking up with me.

all of a sudden, an 8 month relationship, where i genuinely loved this girl was just thrown out the window for nothing?

i opened up to her about my insecurities and i often rejected being in pictures with her incase her friends called me ugly. she repeatedly tried to comfort me and tell me she thought i was attractive but i never fully believed her.

in the end it basically feels like she didn’t truly love me and she just threw it all away for a guy that was probably more attractive than me.

never trust a girl 😭
DNR
 
my girlfriend is on a girls holiday in budapest, which was already making me worried just by its nature and the fact her friends are evil.

a few nights ago i get a call from her friend and they are walking back from a club while my gf is super drunk. they said that a guy forced himself onto her and essentially kissed her. i remained calm and told her i wasn’t angry whilst i stayed on call till she was asleep. before she fell asleep however, she was bawling her eyes out and said that she cheated on me. her friends said to just ignore her.

the next day, when she was no longer drunk, she said that her words were all just drunk nonsense. it was now that i told her to be honest about what happened. i basically asked questions about the length of the kiss, whether she pulled away immediately, whether she was blackout drunk etc. she admitted she went in for the kiss but said she was completely out of it.

i thought of her saying that she cheated on me and i started getting frustrated and i told her i was disappointed for getting into that situation and not having the instinct to pull away.

she told me she wanted to break up with me because she was ‘sexually assaulted’ (which i do feel very bad about it) and i wasn’t showing enough empathy. she basically said i was acting immature since i was asking so many questions instead of caring about her and how traumatic the situation was.

i was only just trying to figure out what had actually happened. i understand if she was still traumatised from it but it being breakup worthy is crazy to me.

the same evening i asked if she was going clubbing, since it was her last night. she said she would just stay in her hotel as she had a flight the next day.

the next morning, i see her friends posting about how she was crazy in the club last night. turns out she did go clubbing and she kissed a guy hours after breaking up with me.

all of a sudden, an 8 month relationship, where i genuinely loved this girl was just thrown out the window for nothing?

i opened up to her about my insecurities and i often rejected being in pictures with her incase her friends called me ugly. she repeatedly tried to comfort me and tell me she thought i was attractive but i never fully believed her.

in the end it basically feels like she didn’t truly love me and she just threw it all away for a guy that was probably more attractive than me.

never trust a girl 😭
dnr’d after reading she went to a club, should’ve known she was a whore
 
dnr’d after reading she went to a club, should’ve known she was a whore
tbf her friends were all going clubbing so i’d let her go since it’s kinda a big part of the holiday culture

plus i’m going on a holiday soon and ill be going clubbing. i won’t get with girls though. unlike her, i can’t move on from an 8 month relationship in an hour, let alone a few weeks
 
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my girlfriend is on a girls holiday in budapest, which was already making me worried just by its nature and the fact her friends are evil.

a few nights ago i get a call from her friend and they are walking back from a club while my gf is super drunk. they said that a guy forced himself onto her and essentially kissed her. i remained calm and told her i wasn’t angry whilst i stayed on call till she was asleep. before she fell asleep however, she was bawling her eyes out and said that she cheated on me. her friends said to just ignore her.

the next day, when she was no longer drunk, she said that her words were all just drunk nonsense. it was now that i told her to be honest about what happened. i basically asked questions about the length of the kiss, whether she pulled away immediately, whether she was blackout drunk etc. she admitted she went in for the kiss but said she was completely out of it.

i thought of her saying that she cheated on me and i started getting frustrated and i told her i was disappointed for getting into that situation and not having the instinct to pull away.

she told me she wanted to break up with me because she was ‘sexually assaulted’ (which i do feel very bad about it) and i wasn’t showing enough empathy. she basically said i was acting immature since i was asking so many questions instead of caring about her and how traumatic the situation was.

i was only just trying to figure out what had actually happened. i understand if she was still traumatised from it but it being breakup worthy is crazy to me.

the same evening i asked if she was going clubbing, since it was her last night. she said she would just stay in her hotel as she had a flight the next day.

the next morning, i see her friends posting about how she was crazy in the club last night. turns out she did go clubbing and she kissed a guy hours after breaking up with me.

all of a sudden, an 8 month relationship, where i genuinely loved this girl was just thrown out the window for nothing?

i opened up to her about my insecurities and i often rejected being in pictures with her incase her friends called me ugly. she repeatedly tried to comfort me and tell me she thought i was attractive but i never fully believed her.

in the end it basically feels like she didn’t truly love me and she just threw it all away for a guy that was probably more attractive than me.

never trust a girl 😭
The worst part is that you allowed her to go alone to the Budapest. You are asking to get cheated on if you are letting your girl go on girl’s nights
 
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The worst part is that you allowed her to go alone to the Budapest. You are asking to get cheated on if you are letting your girl go on girl’s nights
she is allowing me to go on a holiday to portugal with my friends

plus, we had that layer of trust in our relationship and i never thought she would do anything bad. that’s the whole reason i let her go, even though i was somewhat worried about it.
 
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tbf her friends were all going clubbing so i’d let her go since it’s kinda a big part of the holiday culture

plus i’m going on a holiday soon and ill be going clubbing. i won’t get with girls though. unlike her, i can’t move on from an 8 month relationship in an hour, let alone a few weeks
Unlucky, but it’s just my opinion that if your in a relationship you shouldn’t be in that environment. Hope you can move on
 
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Unlucky, but it’s just my opinion that if your in a relationship you shouldn’t be in that environment. Hope you can move on
that’s true

she was way above my looksmatch so i was insecure throughout the whole relationship so i can kinda see why it ended this way even though i don’t expect it

this girl fully showed that she loved me, said that i was very attractive, and said she would never need anyone else

hypergamy really is real😭 even with girls that completely disagree with it, having spoken to her about it
 
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my girlfriend is on a girls holiday in budapest, which was already making me worried just by its nature and the fact her friends are evil.

a few nights ago i get a call from her friend and they are walking back from a club while my gf is super drunk. they said that a guy forced himself onto her and essentially kissed her. i remained calm and told her i wasn’t angry whilst i stayed on call till she was asleep. before she fell asleep however, she was bawling her eyes out and said that she cheated on me. her friends said to just ignore her.

the next day, when she was no longer drunk, she said that her words were all just drunk nonsense. it was now that i told her to be honest about what happened. i basically asked questions about the length of the kiss, whether she pulled away immediately, whether she was blackout drunk etc. she admitted she went in for the kiss but said she was completely out of it.

i thought of her saying that she cheated on me and i started getting frustrated and i told her i was disappointed for getting into that situation and not having the instinct to pull away.

she told me she wanted to break up with me because she was ‘sexually assaulted’ (which i do feel very bad about it) and i wasn’t showing enough empathy. she basically said i was acting immature since i was asking so many questions instead of caring about her and how traumatic the situation was.

i was only just trying to figure out what had actually happened. i understand if she was still traumatised from it but it being breakup worthy is crazy to me.

the same evening i asked if she was going clubbing, since it was her last night. she said she would just stay in her hotel as she had a flight the next day.

the next morning, i see her friends posting about how she was crazy in the club last night. turns out she did go clubbing and she kissed a guy hours after breaking up with me.

all of a sudden, an 8 month relationship, where i genuinely loved this girl was just thrown out the window for nothing?

i opened up to her about my insecurities and i often rejected being in pictures with her incase her friends called me ugly. she repeatedly tried to comfort me and tell me she thought i was attractive but i never fully believed her.

in the end it basically feels like she didn’t truly love me and she just threw it all away for a guy that was probably more attractive than me.

never trust a girl 😭
Rape her until she's dead and then put her body into small pieces
 
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she is allowing me to go on a holiday to portugal with my friends

plus, we had that layer of trust in our relationship and i never thought she would do anything bad. that’s the whole reason i let her go, even though i was somewhat worried about it.
You see, there are a huge differences between men and women. You cannot let her go off the leash, always be above her
 
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my girlfriend is on a girls holiday in budapest, which was already making me worried just by its nature and the fact her friends are evil.

a few nights ago i get a call from her friend and they are walking back from a club while my gf is super drunk. they said that a guy forced himself onto her and essentially kissed her. i remained calm and told her i wasn’t angry whilst i stayed on call till she was asleep. before she fell asleep however, she was bawling her eyes out and said that she cheated on me. her friends said to just ignore her.

the next day, when she was no longer drunk, she said that her words were all just drunk nonsense. it was now that i told her to be honest about what happened. i basically asked questions about the length of the kiss, whether she pulled away immediately, whether she was blackout drunk etc. she admitted she went in for the kiss but said she was completely out of it.

i thought of her saying that she cheated on me and i started getting frustrated and i told her i was disappointed for getting into that situation and not having the instinct to pull away.

she told me she wanted to break up with me because she was ‘sexually assaulted’ (which i do feel very bad about it) and i wasn’t showing enough empathy. she basically said i was acting immature since i was asking so many questions instead of caring about her and how traumatic the situation was.

i was only just trying to figure out what had actually happened. i understand if she was still traumatised from it but it being breakup worthy is crazy to me.

the same evening i asked if she was going clubbing, since it was her last night. she said she would just stay in her hotel as she had a flight the next day.

the next morning, i see her friends posting about how she was crazy in the club last night. turns out she did go clubbing and she kissed a guy hours after breaking up with me.

all of a sudden, an 8 month relationship, where i genuinely loved this girl was just thrown out the window for nothing?

i opened up to her about my insecurities and i often rejected being in pictures with her incase her friends called me ugly. she repeatedly tried to comfort me and tell me she thought i was attractive but i never fully believed her.

in the end it basically feels like she didn’t truly love me and she just threw it all away for a guy that was probably more attractive than me.

never trust a girl 😭
Just be gay
 
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don't need to read the rest to know you're an absolute retard
i don’t wanna be a toxic bf tho

a healthy relationship should have a level of trust rather than excessive control
 
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i don’t wanna be a toxic bf tho

a healthy relationship should have a level of trust rather than excessive control
"girls trip in another country"

it's either you or that trip

not giving her an ultimatum just makes u a cuck
 
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my girlfriend is on a girls holiday in budapest, which was already making me worried just by its nature and the fact her friends are evil.

a few nights ago i get a call from her friend and they are walking back from a club while my gf is super drunk. they said that a guy forced himself onto her and essentially kissed her. i remained calm and told her i wasn’t angry whilst i stayed on call till she was asleep. before she fell asleep however, she was bawling her eyes out and said that she cheated on me. her friends said to just ignore her.

the next day, when she was no longer drunk, she said that her words were all just drunk nonsense. it was now that i told her to be honest about what happened. i basically asked questions about the length of the kiss, whether she pulled away immediately, whether she was blackout drunk etc. she admitted she went in for the kiss but said she was completely out of it.

i thought of her saying that she cheated on me and i started getting frustrated and i told her i was disappointed for getting into that situation and not having the instinct to pull away.

she told me she wanted to break up with me because she was ‘sexually assaulted’ (which i do feel very bad about it) and i wasn’t showing enough empathy. she basically said i was acting immature since i was asking so many questions instead of caring about her and how traumatic the situation was.

i was only just trying to figure out what had actually happened. i understand if she was still traumatised from it but it being breakup worthy is crazy to me.

the same evening i asked if she was going clubbing, since it was her last night. she said she would just stay in her hotel as she had a flight the next day.

the next morning, i see her friends posting about how she was crazy in the club last night. turns out she did go clubbing and she kissed a guy hours after breaking up with me.

all of a sudden, an 8 month relationship, where i genuinely loved this girl was just thrown out the window for nothing?

i opened up to her about my insecurities and i often rejected being in pictures with her incase her friends called me ugly. she repeatedly tried to comfort me and tell me she thought i was attractive but i never fully believed her.

in the end it basically feels like she didn’t truly love me and she just threw it all away for a guy that was probably more attractive than me.

never trust a girl 😭
"girls holiday" :feelskek:
 
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