My gf treats me like a child or like shes the teacher because of my height + ADHD

[Nation]

5'8" to weak 5'9", my gf is always explaining me how to do things or she is irritated by everything I do.
Shes always comparing me with her father that hes capable and knows how to fix everything while I lack manual ability as well.
Also I have poor orientation skills, Im always using Waze to her house exc ( 3 months relationship).

I parked my car and after 20 seconds I remember I had my phone inside...so I tried to get in the car but I couldnt remember where I parked ( even if it was like 30 seconds before that). She started getting very annoyed and making drama " how can you not remember? This is a joke exc", then she took my hand and she took me to the car...she was very annoyed and itritated.

Problem is...does she act like that because she thinks im retarded? Or is it just low attraction? What do you think?

Also she doesnt believe to everything I say when it comes to everything, ex. I was trying to tell her that eating once a day just cheat meals wasnt ok and she started saying things like " who said that?"

 

[low1sd]

5'8" to weak 5'9", my gf is always explaining me how to do things or she is irritated by everything I do.
Shes always comparing me with her father that hes capable and knows how to fix everything while I lack manual ability as well.
Also I have poor orientation skills, Im always using Waze to her house exc ( 3 months relationship).

I parked my car and after 20 seconds I remember I had my phone inside...so I tried to get in the car but I couldnt remember where I parked ( even if it was like 30 seconds before that). She started getting very annoyed and making drama " how can you not remember? This is a joke exc", then she took my hand and she took me to the car...she was very annoyed and itritated.

Problem is...does she act like that because she thinks im retarded? Or is it just low attraction? What do you think?

Also she doesnt believe to everything I say when it comes to everything, ex. I was trying to tell her that eating once a day just cheat meals wasnt ok and she started saying things like " who said that?"

just leave her then nigga complex problem easy solution

 

[Litekiller11]

combination of both

 

[looneyy_]

at least you have a gf

 

[Litekiller11]

but the attraction thing is the most

 

[RecessedCels]

She probably likes abusing you a bit ngl

 

[Zeekie]

5'8" to weak 5'9", my gf is always explaining me how to do things or she is irritated by everything I do.
Shes always comparing me with her father that hes capable and knows how to fix everything while I lack manual ability as well.
Also I have poor orientation skills, Im always using Waze to her house exc ( 3 months relationship).

I parked my car and after 20 seconds I remember I had my phone inside...so I tried to get in the car but I couldnt remember where I parked ( even if it was like 30 seconds before that). She started getting very annoyed and making drama " how can you not remember? This is a joke exc", then she took my hand and she took me to the car...she was very annoyed and itritated.

Problem is...does she act like that because she thinks im retarded? Or is it just low attraction? What do you think?

Also she doesnt believe to everything I say when it comes to everything, ex. I was trying to tell her that eating once a day just cheat meals wasnt ok and she started saying things like " who said that?"

Just talk with her, see exactly what you just told a bunch of strangers on the Internet? Well, say the exact same things (although maybe in a milder way) to her. Communication nigga.

If that doesn't work, bring it up again. If that doesn't work, then leave her.

 

[low1sd]

the problem with males in 2025 is every single one of them is a cuck like if you leave her without thinking twice the first time she disrespects you no doubt it will hurt her ego badly and she will be sad asf

 

[thereallegend]

just leave her then nigga complex problem easy solution

every girl is gonna treat him like this

 

[Zeekie]

the problem with males in 2025 is every single one of them is a cuck like if you leave her without thinking twice the first time she disrespects you no doubt it will hurt her ego badly and she will be sad asf

Some of y'all got serious attachment issues, holy fuck. People have issues, since you're on this forum you clearly have many, one of the points of a relationship is to improve each other and strengthen your bonds, if your partner does something wrong you don't nuke the relationship over it, you talk it through and try to fix the issue, only when that doesn't work do you think of leaving

Looks like your response is less about fixing an issue within a relationship and more about hurting a woman because you're an incel

 

[low1sd]

Some of y'all got serious attachment issues, holy fuck. People have issues, since you're on this forum you clearly have many, one of the points of a relationship is to improve each other and strengthen your bonds, if your partner does something wrong you don't nuke the relationship over it, you talk it through and try to fix the issue, only when that doesn't work do you think of leaving

Looks like your response is less about fixing an issue within a relationship and more about hurting a woman because you're an incel

of course, we are on .org after all

 

[Zeekie]

of course, we are on .org after all

To be real with you, I respect the honesty

 

[low1sd]

and jfl about "Strengthening your bounds" like nigga its clearly that shes about to cheat on him and she dgaf about his feelings at all

 

[Donkeyballs]

 

[bloatcel1]

5'8" to weak 5'9", my gf is always explaining me how to do things or she is irritated by everything I do.
Shes always comparing me with her father that hes capable and knows how to fix everything while I lack manual ability as well.
Also I have poor orientation skills, Im always using Waze to her house exc ( 3 months relationship).

I parked my car and after 20 seconds I remember I had my phone inside...so I tried to get in the car but I couldnt remember where I parked ( even if it was like 30 seconds before that). She started getting very annoyed and making drama " how can you not remember? This is a joke exc", then she took my hand and she took me to the car...she was very annoyed and itritated.

Problem is...does she act like that because she thinks im retarded? Or is it just low attraction? What do you think?

Also she doesnt believe to everything I say when it comes to everything, ex. I was trying to tell her that eating once a day just cheat meals wasnt ok and she started saying things like " who said that?"

Honestly this sounds worse than being an incel. Lmaoo break this up quick bro, maybe find a girl near your level of attractiveness or lower, you will be treated like a human bro

 

[Zeekie]

and jfl about "Strengthening your bounds" like nigga its clearly that shes about to cheat on him and she dgaf about his feelings at all

I refuse to believe any of you niggas could ever get into a healthy relationship like this. Know what's another possibility? Maybe she's an older sibling or had to play some parental role at some point in her life, maybe she's very anxiously attached and it manifests like this. So many different possibilities, and the one you land on is "she doesn't care about him and will cheat", like that solves any issue or will prevent future ones.

Again people are not perfect, WE ALL HAVE ISSUES, so instead of acting like you're a perfect person and throwing away someone because they aren't "like you", why not... idk, talk shit through? And maybe she does end up cheating, who knows, but at least he tried and was mature about it nigga

 

[low1sd]

I refuse to believe any of you niggas could ever get into a healthy relationship like this. Know what's another possibility? Maybe she's an older sibling or had to play some parental role at some point in her life, maybe she's very anxiously attached and it manifests like this. So many different possibilities, and the one you land on is "she doesn't care about him and will cheat", like that solves any issue or will prevent future ones.

Again people are not perfect, WE ALL HAVE ISSUES, so instead of acting like you're a perfect person and throwing away someone because they aren't "like you", why not... idk, talk shit through? And maybe she does end up cheating, who knows, but at least he tried and was mature about it nigga

Ok, you're right after all.

 

[Donkeyballs]

She's just being bitchy, if your partner dosen't respect you then it's a bad sign. But if you are together with her it probably means theres attraction even if she mean littles you. Maybe turn the tables or something like the way she treats you, but dont go too far, especially if she is insecure

 

[Nation]

but the attraction thing is the most

Seriously what do you think?

 

[Litekiller11]

Seriously what do you think?

Just talk to her and figure it out