My girl doesn’t really text me (Bad IOI?)

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I met up with this girl who I’m talking to irl, she’s very talkative practically a chatterbox we’d talk about anything. However, from an online perspective she doesn’t reach out to me as much. I’d have to text her first ask how her day was, what she did for today, her opinions on what happened, etc. She almost never texts first, I would always have to text first and the conversations sometimes would be very short cause she takes a long time to respond.

Now I’m not making that as a problem to be I mean if she’s communicative in real life would it necessarily be a problem if she’s not as responsive online? That’s why I’m asking y’all especially that one of her closest friends added me to a group with a bunch of guys and girls in it but she removed me from it.

I also asked her to be my plus one at an event we’re going to attend to in December, I got her the ticket to the event and we’re supposed to wear suits and for the girls dresses.

How should I pursue? Do I continue talking to her to eventually make it into a relationship perhaps
 
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dnr, based off the title if she cant talk to you on the phone she wont talk to you irl,

break up before it gets worse
 
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foids always have their phones in their hands. always.

just go on with your day and stop chasing. youre too available
 
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