My girlfriend left me because I was too much

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I don’t know what to do and I tried ropemaxxing but the branch on the tree broke and I lost my balls and didn’t try again as much as I still want to but how it went for the breakup was I asked her for more attention and for context she sits and plays on her phone when she comes to see me 1 time every 2 months and she uses me to see my homegirl but I said I needed affection and I told her about how I used to get neglected as a child and I have never been in a real relationship before or even touched someone romantically till her we got together originally in 2024 November and I tried to keep working with the bare minimum and I ended up starting drinking and smoking weed to numb how I felt and it didn’t do anything and now she has left me because I was suffocating and I am just a ugly fat druggy and alcoholic I honestly feel so shit and I hate venting because I feel like a creep doing it but I honestly don’t know what else to do if anyone has been in a similar situation can they please try to help me because I don’t want to get another girlfriend but I need a girlfriend at the same time and I am so confused and I feel used and stupid
 
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This text is what’s too much nigga
 
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scottyT2.0 said:
She was my first girlfriend and she took my first everything and I felt so used and that was the only thing on my mind
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Boohoo bro. other people on here havent even been willingly touched by a girl just lock thefuck in
U dont need a girlfriend, if ur fat go to the gym, if ur ugly go looksmax, if ur a junkie then take some responsibility for once in ur shitty life and quit and stop blaming whoever neglected you as a kid, go grind and work hard and get over ur problems
I know i felt the same when i lost my first gf but u eventually get over it it is definitely not worth kys
 
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Eat raw meat and u will feel better
 
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scottyT2.0 said:
I don’t know what to do and I tried ropemaxxing but the branch on the tree broke and I lost my balls and didn’t try again as much as I still want to but how it went for the breakup was I asked her for more attention and for context she sits and plays on her phone when she comes to see me 1 time every 2 months and she uses me to see my homegirl but I said I needed affection and I told her about how I used to get neglected as a child and I have never been in a real relationship before or even touched someone romantically till her we got together originally in 2024 November and I tried to keep working with the bare minimum and I ended up starting drinking and smoking weed to numb how I felt and it didn’t do anything and now she has left me because I was suffocating and I am just a ugly fat druggy and alcoholic I honestly feel so shit and I hate venting because I feel like a creep doing it but I honestly don’t know what else to do if anyone has been in a similar situation can they please try to help me because I don’t want to get another girlfriend but I need a girlfriend at the same time and I am so confused and I feel used and stupid
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Stop needing a girlfriend.
 
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scottyT2.0 said:
I don’t know what to do and I tried ropemaxxing but the branch on the tree broke and I lost my balls and didn’t try again as much as I still want to but how it went for the breakup was I asked her for more attention and for context she sits and plays on her phone when she comes to see me 1 time every 2 months and she uses me to see my homegirl but I said I needed affection and I told her about how I used to get neglected as a child and I have never been in a real relationship before or even touched someone romantically till her we got together originally in 2024 November and I tried to keep working with the bare minimum and I ended up starting drinking and smoking weed to numb how I felt and it didn’t do anything and now she has left me because I was suffocating and I am just a ugly fat druggy and alcoholic I honestly feel so shit and I hate venting because I feel like a creep doing it but I honestly don’t know what else to do if anyone has been in a similar situation can they please try to help me because I don’t want to get another girlfriend but I need a girlfriend at the same time and I am so confused and I feel used and stupid
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@acm Kaka ahh situatuion
 
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scottyT2.0 said:
How do I stop needing her tho
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go fuck other hoes you gotta realise they’re ALL the same. hollon imma make a thread about that peep that in a minute
 
scottyT2.0 said:
I don’t know what to do and I tried ropemaxxing but the branch on the tree broke and I lost my balls and didn’t try again as much as I still want to but how it went for the breakup was I asked her for more attention and for context she sits and plays on her phone when she comes to see me 1 time every 2 months and she uses me to see my homegirl but I said I needed affection and I told her about how I used to get neglected as a child and I have never been in a real relationship before or even touched someone romantically till her we got together originally in 2024 November and I tried to keep working with the bare minimum and I ended up starting drinking and smoking weed to numb how I felt and it didn’t do anything and now she has left me because I was suffocating and I am just a ugly fat druggy and alcoholic I honestly feel so shit and I hate venting because I feel like a creep doing it but I honestly don’t know what else to do if anyone has been in a similar situation can they please try to help me because I don’t want to get another girlfriend but I need a girlfriend at the same time and I am so confused and I feel used and stupid
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tldr please bro
 
You sound absolutely insufferable. Do you have BPD per chance? Either way, no woman is going to want to play baby sitter for a grown man. They want someone they can rely on, someone who stabilizes and supports them, not someone who is a burden on them.
Gapejakconcerned
 
kiannnn said:
dnr but nigga what:feelshaha::feelshaha::feelshaha::feelshaha::feelshaha::feelshaha::feelshaha::feelshaha::feelshaha::feelshaha::feelshaha::feelshaha::feelshaha::feelshaha::feelshaha::feelshaha:
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I tried to climb the tree and the branch snapped under my foot and I lost my balls it’s not that hard to understand
 
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You sound absolutely insufferable. Do you have BPD per chance? Either way, no woman is going to want to play baby sitter for a grown man. They want someone they can rely on, someone who stabilizes and supports them, not someone who is a burden on them.
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I am getting tested for bpd it was my first girlfriend and I am not a grown man
 
scottyT2.0 said:
I tried to climb the tree and the branch snapped under my foot and I lost my balls it’s not that hard to understand
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yo you’re being fr? did you loose both?
 
Hey man.
You can pm me if you want.

Idk if i got the mental strength rn to handle alla that and give you a good response (90% i will tho), but you can definetly pm and vent.

It helps a lot (or a little, but even a little is a lot yk?)

Actually if we talk over some other medium it's better cuz i prefer voice messages over typing rn.

It' tiring and draining.
 
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scottyT2.0 said:
I don’t know what to do and I tried ropemaxxing but the branch on the tree broke and I lost my balls and didn’t try again as much as I still want to but how it went for the breakup was I asked her for more attention and for context she sits and plays on her phone when she comes to see me 1 time every 2 months and she uses me to see my homegirl but I said I needed affection and I told her about how I used to get neglected as a child and I have never been in a real relationship before or even touched someone romantically till her we got together originally in 2024 November and I tried to keep working with the bare minimum and I ended up starting drinking and smoking weed to numb how I felt and it didn’t do anything and now she has left me because I was suffocating and I am just a ugly fat druggy and alcoholic I honestly feel so shit and I hate venting because I feel like a creep doing it but I honestly don’t know what else to do if anyone has been in a similar situation can they please try to help me because I don’t want to get another girlfriend but I need a girlfriend at the same time and I am so confused and I feel used and stupid
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too much of a chad she probaly ment, keep your head up
 
scottyT2.0 said:
I don’t know what to do and I tried ropemaxxing but the branch on the tree broke and I lost my balls and didn’t try again as much as I still want to but how it went for the breakup was I asked her for more attention and for context she sits and plays on her phone when she comes to see me 1 time every 2 months and she uses me to see my homegirl but I said I needed affection and I told her about how I used to get neglected as a child and I have never been in a real relationship before or even touched someone romantically till her we got together originally in 2024 November and I tried to keep working with the bare minimum and I ended up starting drinking and smoking weed to numb how I felt and it didn’t do anything and now she has left me because I was suffocating and I am just a ugly fat druggy and alcoholic I honestly feel so shit and I hate venting because I feel like a creep doing it but I honestly don’t know what else to do if anyone has been in a similar situation can they please try to help me because I don’t want to get another girlfriend but I need a girlfriend at the same time and I am so confused and I feel used and stupid
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Same lol, atleast we learn
 
scottyT2.0 said:
I don’t know what to do and I tried ropemaxxing but the branch on the tree broke and I lost my balls and didn’t try again as much as I still want to but how it went for the breakup was I asked her for more attention and for context she sits and plays on her phone when she comes to see me 1 time every 2 months and she uses me to see my homegirl but I said I needed affection and I told her about how I used to get neglected as a child and I have never been in a real relationship before or even touched someone romantically till her we got together originally in 2024 November and I tried to keep working with the bare minimum and I ended up starting drinking and smoking weed to numb how I felt and it didn’t do anything and now she has left me because I was suffocating and I am just a ugly fat druggy and alcoholic I honestly feel so shit and I hate venting because I feel like a creep doing it but I honestly don’t know what else to do if anyone has been in a similar situation can they please try to help me because I don’t want to get another girlfriend but I need a girlfriend at the same time and I am so confused and I feel used and stupid
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1. you dont need a gf rn your the worst version of yourself and getting one would keep you in this loser ass state
2. accept the pain and situation for what it is stop with the copes
3. (the biggest mistake you made) venting and opening up to a woman about your feelings no matter what it is never vent to a woman a friend/brother is fine even venting on a forum is better but never let any woman know your struggles or how you feel and I mean not one not your mother, sister, girl bestfriend, co worker etc
4. no one cares how you feel your a fat, out of shape druggie whos an alcoholic she left you because your a fucking loser shes putting a bet against your future dont let her win, as I said no one cares your a man you'll be looked at as week no ones going to feel sorry for you except yourself
5. go cold turkey throw out the alcohol and drugs spend the money on things that will ascend you rn your fat take that money get on reta, get a gym membership, buy healthy foods, set up a meal plan and go on a caloric deficit to 10%bf
6.start looksmaxxing improve your looks and get your money up
7.heal from your trauma you can read some books or watch videos online on how to fix it, you could also go to a therapist if you really need to (personally wouldn't do it kinda gay but if you need it go ahead)
8.delete social media don't waste your time doing anything thats not going to help you get better cut off tv, sugar, tiktok, etc
9.get sunlight and exercise everyday
10.stop being a bitch nigga I listed out most the things you need to do unless your deformed and really fucking ugly you can do this and you'll be decent looking if your not get some surgery but this will change you a lot and your ex proably wont recognize you now go lock in and stop doing drugs and drinking alcohol hoe ass nigga also if she comes back don't get with her treat her like she doesn't exist she was probably cheating on you anyway

Don't rope if you don't want her to win the break up

I actually gave you good advice so if you don't want to take it and stay a loser that's on you
 
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too many words @Kingcornelius
 
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scottyT2.0 said:
How do I stop needing her tho
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didnt read all that but 1 day you will just not think about her anymore no matter how much you loved her she left you and she does not exist anymore, dont waste your life over a girl there is other things like maybe taking care of your mother or getting rich. Only you can save yourself from your stupid choices
 
i’m sorry bro, hope things get better
 
Dnr
 
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