HighLtn
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Hey everyone. So I'll try to make it short.
So we are both white, my girlfriend (24F) and I (24M) have been together for about two years. We're in an open relationship, but it's pretty one sided. She's the one who sees other people while I don't.
At some point I began watching them when she's with her partners. (only when they allow it of course)
Now basically all of her partners have been Black men and this is absolutely no problem for me, in fact I really enjoy the contrast of their skin.
But here is the problem. When she's with a new partner, she'd ask if she can use the n-word during sex. Some allow it, some don't. But if they do, she starts using it so frequently and careless like she's on a kkk rally.
I feel really uncomfortable about this and honestly, I think it's racist. But I don't know how to approach her about this. Am I being too sensitive?
So we are both white, my girlfriend (24F) and I (24M) have been together for about two years. We're in an open relationship, but it's pretty one sided. She's the one who sees other people while I don't.
At some point I began watching them when she's with her partners. (only when they allow it of course)
Now basically all of her partners have been Black men and this is absolutely no problem for me, in fact I really enjoy the contrast of their skin.
But here is the problem. When she's with a new partner, she'd ask if she can use the n-word during sex. Some allow it, some don't. But if they do, she starts using it so frequently and careless like she's on a kkk rally.
I feel really uncomfortable about this and honestly, I think it's racist. But I don't know how to approach her about this. Am I being too sensitive?
