My grandfather died today

[.*my*.]

We haven’t talked since 2013 and now he’s dead.

He wasn’t a very good person. It was okay for him not to talk to me or my mom for years. He just didn’t give a fuck.

I really wanted to talk to him and tell him that I forgave him but I know that that wouldn’t have done any good. He would’ve just asked: “Forgive me for what? I didn’t do anything wrong.” My forgiveness would simply not be accepted. I don’t think I regret not telling him that I forgave him.

What I do regret, and what I am sorry for is that I never had a grandfather. I never spent any time with my grandfather since I was 3, and even if I did it wouldn’t have been a positive experience because he was a crook.

I think he was 76 or 77 at the moment of his death. Who gives a fuck.

I have another grandfather who’s 78 and diabetic. He’s probably gonna take off soon too. He’s as fucked up as my deceased grandfather was so I wouldn’t be very upset.

I haven’t shed one tear. But I’m sad that I never had a grandfather

 

[Deleted member 5969]

Ay Rip ur grandpa

 

[Deleted member 6892]

I am glad that faggot’s dead

sounds like a dick

 

[.*my*.]

I am glad that faggot’s dead

sounds like a dick

Thanks for the support. You really know what to say.

 

[BigBiceps]

My grandfathers lived so far away, that I didn't get to see them often either. At least I still have some good memories of them.

 

[Deleted member 7192]

r.i.p bro

 

[.*my*.]

My grandfathers lived so far away, that I didn't get to see them often either. At least I still have some good memories of them.

I have good memories of only my great grandma

 

[.*my*.]

Ay Rip ur grandpa

Thanks

 

[Deleted member 756]

I’m sorry

 

[.*my*.]

I’m sorry

I’m sorry too.

 

[Deleted member 6306]

Is he still thicc in his grave ?

Ps: sorry for your loss

 

[Deleted member 4209]

rip

 

[.*my*.]

Is he still thicc in his grave ?

Ps: sorry for your loss

He was a sucked up alcoholic, what are you talking about?

 

[.*my*.]

rip

BIH

 

[Gonthar]

We haven’t talked since 2013 and now he’s dead.
He wasn’t a very good person. It was okay for him not to talk to me or my mom for years. He just didn’t give a fuck.

Talk about what?
I have many relatives but we don't have much in common or stuff to talk about.
Anyway, RIP to your grandpa...

 

[.*my*.]

Talk about what?
I have many relatives but we don't have much in common or stuff to talk about.
Anyway, RIP to your grandpa...

Just say hello or call and ask how you’re doing. Come over sometimes. Spend time with his grandkids. I mean isn’t that what people who have normal relationships do?

 

[Lev Peshkov]

Ur 10?

 

[.*my*.]

Ur 10?

20

 

[Lev Peshkov]

20

Brutal

 

[.*my*.]

Brutal

Yeah. His death isn’t that brutal, what’s brutal is the reminder that I never had a father figure and my grandfathers weren’t in my life.

 

[WadlowMaxxing]

Talk to the other one

Don't let the opportunity go to waste

 

[Gonthar]

Just say hello or call and ask how you’re doing. Come over sometimes. Spend time with his grandkids. I mean isn’t that what people who have normal relationships do?

I don't know, I have some cousins, we used to meet often when we were kids and play, then when we grew up I've discovered I didn't have much in common with them....
I tried talking to them once, ask them how they're doing and stuff, and they were like: "Oooohhh....He wants to know how we are doing!!!!!". I stopped seeing them after this, we've met only like 2-3 times at some funerals in 20 years, they never called me back either, so that's that...

 

[.*my*.]

Talk to the other one

Don't let the opportunity go to waste

He is one of the worst people in the world that you can have a conversation with, and he’s an unpleasant person. The only reason why I would talk to him is to tell him that I forgive him, but I’m afraid my heart will be stomped on and my forgiveness would not be accepted.

 

[.*my*.]

I don't know, I have some cousins, we used to meet often when we were kids and play, then when we grew up I've discovered I didn't have much in common with them....
I tried talking to them once, ask them how they're doing and stuff, and they were like: "Oooohhh....He wants to know how we are doing!!!!!". I stopped seeing them after this, we've met only like 2-3 times at some funerals in 20 years, they never called me back either, so that's that...

That’s sad. I hope you find a way to be close with your cousins again.

 

[WadlowMaxxing]

He is one of the worst people in the world that you can have a conversation with, and he’s an unpleasant person. The only reason why I would talk to him is to tell him that I forgive him, but I’m afraid my heart will be stomped on and my forgiveness would not be accepted.

If you fail you know there's nothing you could have done.
If you don't you'll doubt yourself for life.

 

[Deleted member 4430]

im not a crook

 

[.*my*.]

im not a crook

Really? That’s why you always ripped people off at work?

 

[.*my*.]

If you fail you know there's nothing you could have done.
If you don't you'll doubt yourself for life.

What’s worse, rejection from your grandfather or the possibility of forgiveness by a sorry ass grandfather who doesn’t give a shit about you? I’ll take my chances and never contact him again. I’ll forgive him in myself.

 

[WadlowMaxxing]

What’s worse, rejection from your grandfather or the possibility of forgiveness by a sorry ass grandfather who doesn’t give a shit about you? I’ll take my chances and never contact him again. I’ll forgive him in myself.

I'd rather fuck up.
You can cope with what happened.
There's unlimited possibilities of what could have happened.
You don't even need to apologize, just talk, somehow.

 

[.*my*.]

I'd rather fuck up.
You can cope with what happened.
There's unlimited possibilities of what could have happened.
You don't even need to apologize, just talk, somehow.

I'd rather fuck up.
You can cope with what happened.
There's unlimited possibilities of what could have happened.
You don't even need to apologize, just talk, somehow.

I don’t want to apologize, I have nothing to apologize for. I want to forgive him, but my forgiveness will be ridiculed and ignored. That’s my worst fear.

 

[Deleted member 1476]

rip that nigga

 

[Vitruvian]

Where ur dad though

 

[Deleted member 4430]

Really? That’s why you always ripped people off at work?

your grandfather was richard nixon?

 

[.*my*.]

Where ur dad though

Away and doesn’t talk to me

 

[Vitruvian]

Away and doesn’t talk to me

Thats ur real issue, nobody gave a shit about ur grandfather. Ur projecting ur fatherlessness onto him.

 

[Pumanator]

My condolences op

 

[Enfant terrible]

my grandfather died last week on tuesday

 

[.*my*.]

Thats ur real issue, nobody gave a shit about ur grandfather. Ur projecting ur fatherlessness onto him.

I know man. I know.

 

[The Bleach Pill]

dnr

 

[Vitruvian]

I know. I know.

U dont know because u said u forgive people. Thats a lie, u dont feel anything since no man showed u love, why would u show it.

indeed u are forced to be a dark triad bad boy

 

[St. Wristcel]

i am sorry king

 

[.*my*.]

U dont know because u said u forgive people. Thats a lie, u dont feel anything since no man showed u love, why would u show it.

indeed u are forced to be a dark triad bad boy

You think I am incapable of forgiving people?

 

[Deleted member 9699]

rest in peace tbh

at least be happy he lived a long life and didn't die at 40

keep your head up bro

 

[.*my*.]

rest in peace tbh

at least be happy he lived a long life and didn't die at 40

keep your head up bro

Long, useless life and created my insecure whore mom who has daddy issues.

 

[Deleted member 9699]

Long, useless life and created my insecure whore mom who has daddy issues.

no point in wallowing about it man, shit happens. try your hardest to move on and distance yourself from the situation emotionally, and worry on your goals.

if you see yourself being a father in the future, learn from your parents and grandparents mistakes. they lived their lives, you go on and live yours bro. you and i will both die as well, the best way to navigate through life is to act like a robot when it comes to emotion and try and not let it get ahold of you for too long.

i hope all goes well man hmu in pms if you ever need to vent

 

[.*my*.]

no point in wallowing about it man, shit happens. try your hardest to move on and distance yourself from the situation emotionally, and worry on your goals.

if you see yourself being a father in the future, learn from your parents and grandparents mistakes. they lived their lives, you go on and live yours bro. you and i will both die as well, the best way to navigate through life is to act like a robot when it comes to emotion and try and not let it get ahold of you for too long.

i hope all goes well man hmu in pms if you ever need to vent

Thanks