my grandpa getting old

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Man, he can't walk properly anymore, shit even he knows that only a few years left for him, even worse, he is pretty depressed about it, dunno

I mean, I never really spent much time with him, it's just a connection I never really managed to establish, it was me who didn't want it, not him, or them(grandma included)

I feel super guilty for treating them a lil like shit, but I never really grew up with them

only during 8-9 years we started seeing each other more and more, because I moved near them, but still not that much

Im an asshole, but idk, it's not like they are my parents, who I grew up with etc

I just really don't have energy, or motivation to stay with them everyday, am I just a bad person or does someone understand me?
 
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never make yourself feel like you owe older people anything
they've had a whole lifetime of experiences, don't waste yours trying to please them
 
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never make yourself feel like you owe older people anything
they've had a whole lifetime of experiences, don't waste yours trying to please them
I'd actually think that, it's just that during these years, since I came there, they did try to get closer to me, wanted my presence, me to be in their house a lot, but I wasn't really reciprocate

of course I didn't completely ignore them, or insult, I did go there a few times a week(they live above me) but idk, not as much as they liked ig
 
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You’re lucky you still have your grandparents. I have none, they’re all dead. Never got to know them either
 
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good anyone with aan aavi like that whole fmily must suffer aand get their intestines wrenched out
 
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You’re lucky you still have your grandparents. I have none, they’re all dead
did you enjoy them, their presence at least? spent time yk that shit?
 
good anyone with aan aavi like that whole fmily must suffer aand get their intestines wrenched out
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I'd actually think that, it's just that during these years, since I came there, they did try to get closer to me, wanted my presence, me to be in their house a lot, but I wasn't really reciprocate

of course I didn't completely ignore them, or insult, I did go there a few times a week(they live above me) but idk, not as much as they liked ig
you can try to get closer with them before they're gone if you want to, just don't feel guilty about anything
 
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did you enjoy them, their presence at least? spent time yk that shit?
Grandparents from fathers side died before I was born, mothers side I only saw them like 4 times in my life when I was really young. Only have vague memories of them
 
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you can try to get closer with them before they're gone if you want to, just don't feel guilty about anything
If they wouldn't have judged me everytime, I'd have enjoyed my family way more ngl, and spend more time, but ur right, kinda always right bruh
 
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Man, he can't walk properly anymore, shit even he knows that only a few years left for him, even worse, he is pretty depressed about it, dunno

I mean, I never really spent much time with him, it's just a connection I never really managed to establish, it was me who didn't want it, not him, or them(grandma included)

I feel super guilty for treating them a lil like shit, but I never really grew up with them

only during 8-9 years we started seeing each other more and more, because I moved near them, but still not that much

Im an asshole, but idk, it's not like they are my parents, who I grew up with etc

I just really don't have energy, or motivation to stay with them everyday, am I just a bad person or does someone understand me?
u should try playing video games with him idk i feel sad seeing old people alone
 
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u should try playing video games with him idk i feel sad seeing old people alone
@raleqtambrobret said they had a whole lifetime of experience and shit changed my perspective ngl, they prolly life mogged us hard, especially in youth
 
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@raleqtambrobret said they had a whole lifetime of experience and shit changed my perspective ngl, they prolly life mogged us hard, especially in youth
yea they probably did but i still feel sympathy towards them for example think youve gotten old and youve got a grandkid but you couldnt bond with him and u know there are only few years left
 
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yea they probably did but i still feel sympathy towards them for example think youve gotten old and youve got a grandkid but you couldnt bond with him and u know there are only few years left
I wouldn't give a fuck tbh, but that's just me
 
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spend time with our loved once till you can
 
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They enjoyed their youth, you should do the same.
 
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couldnt give a fuck about those old rots until they're leaving me with millions

all this time on earth and ur bitchass couldnt generate shit to hand me down then FUCK U NIGGER
 
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My grandfathers are dead :ogre:
 
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Just look at it this way:
He lived a long ass great life and eventually it needs to come to an end so instead of being sad celebrate his life
 
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Just look at it this way:
He lived a long ass great life and eventually it needs to come to an end so instead of being sad celebrate his life
low-key true
 
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