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Recorded husbands conversations.
My husband has been acting suspicious ever since I told him I was pregnant. I had the baby 2 months ago and was staying at my parents because of all the issues I was having at his house with his family.
He started going out more often, stating it was just to clear his head. He would go out Friday and Saturday night all dressed up and say he was by the waterfront by our house just on the phone and getting fresh air.
I finally had the time and energy since giving birth to find out what was really going on. I feel like a crazy person admitting this but I honestly felt like I had no choice and I put a secret recorder in his car.
The conversations he had with his friends were absolutely disgusting. He talked about how he was going to a club almost every weekend (which was during my pregnancy) and that once he had “3 b1tche$ in the club down for anything”. He also admitted to love being around women when he goes out. One time one of his friends said he was sleeping with a woman and my husband as a “Joke” said he’s making him jealous and wants his friend to share the girl. He has another friend who’s married and his friend said he was tempted to contact his ex gf, my husband encouraged him to do so and said “tell her to bring her friends”. He asked me a few days ago if he could go out for his friends birthday and I said fine, then I hear him telling them that they should all go clubbing. When I asked him his plans though he lied and said they’ll just be around the house hanging out.
He has said to his friends what he does is not considered cheating because he never got physical, he just likes attention.
I’m absolutely shattered and disgusted though. All of this while I was pregnant.
I told him I know he’s been hiding things from me and he hasn’t been honest about where he has been. He keeps asking for proof saying I don’t know what I’m talking about and that I need to show him why I’m accusing him of lying. If I tell him though I’ll never be able to find anything out anymore.
I’ve been trying to be a better wife to him and I thought we were making progress in our relationship but I was wrong.
I’m not sure where to go from here. What is the right thing to do? Where do we go from here? I don’t know wether to walk away, tell him the truth and work on it, or wait for more proof and see how far he will go and then leave.
My husband has been acting suspicious ever since I told him I was pregnant. I had the baby 2 months ago and was staying at my parents because of all the issues I was having at his house with his family.
He started going out more often, stating it was just to clear his head. He would go out Friday and Saturday night all dressed up and say he was by the waterfront by our house just on the phone and getting fresh air.
I finally had the time and energy since giving birth to find out what was really going on. I feel like a crazy person admitting this but I honestly felt like I had no choice and I put a secret recorder in his car.
The conversations he had with his friends were absolutely disgusting. He talked about how he was going to a club almost every weekend (which was during my pregnancy) and that once he had “3 b1tche$ in the club down for anything”. He also admitted to love being around women when he goes out. One time one of his friends said he was sleeping with a woman and my husband as a “Joke” said he’s making him jealous and wants his friend to share the girl. He has another friend who’s married and his friend said he was tempted to contact his ex gf, my husband encouraged him to do so and said “tell her to bring her friends”. He asked me a few days ago if he could go out for his friends birthday and I said fine, then I hear him telling them that they should all go clubbing. When I asked him his plans though he lied and said they’ll just be around the house hanging out.
He has said to his friends what he does is not considered cheating because he never got physical, he just likes attention.
I’m absolutely shattered and disgusted though. All of this while I was pregnant.
I told him I know he’s been hiding things from me and he hasn’t been honest about where he has been. He keeps asking for proof saying I don’t know what I’m talking about and that I need to show him why I’m accusing him of lying. If I tell him though I’ll never be able to find anything out anymore.
I’ve been trying to be a better wife to him and I thought we were making progress in our relationship but I was wrong.
I’m not sure where to go from here. What is the right thing to do? Where do we go from here? I don’t know wether to walk away, tell him the truth and work on it, or wait for more proof and see how far he will go and then leave.
