My life is on a downfall

[larpcel]

I was so up in school, good grades knew everything got my place in medicine life was perfect. I finally get to university and just like that I’ve been in uni for 6 weeks and behind 5 weeks on the content. It’s not even that Ive been making friends, partying and socialising I’ve just been rotting. I have made 1 friend which probably will last me <1 months since he has other friends as well. I was so happy when I got the offer to study here but I’ve actually never been so low. Quick vent since I’ve been rotting on here all day instead of studying because I’m a retard.

 

[larpcel]

I also have 11 flatmates who are all best friends now and I am isolated. Why can’t I just socialise?

 

[larpcel]

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[Kurdishcoper]

its alr bro, u got this

 

[snuswarrior]

Dude I also joined uni and kinda in the same boat. I didn’t study for my first 2 subjects and just gave up on them but I’m taking the ones I got now serious. As for friends I did make some, I’d say like 6-8. Most of the time I am alone tho at like lectures and studying. Just gotta wait it out it to be fine

 

[brotato78]

I also have 11 flatmates who are all best friends now and I am isolated. Why can’t I just socialise?

wait so u live w 11 people who are all bestfriends but not with you??

 

[larpcel]

wait so u live w 11 people who are all bestfriends but not with you??

They are all friends but I’m not friends with any of them and this was completely my fault, they slipped a note under the door asking me to meet them on the first day and I ignored it. They used to try socialising with me but I’m too retarded to give good responses so now I just rot and say hi to whatever they say to me.

 

[brotato78]

They are all friends but I’m not friends with any of them and this was completely my fault, they slipped a note under the door asking me to meet them on the first day and I ignored it. They used to try socialising with me but I’m too retarded to give good responses so now I just rot and say hi to whatever they say to me.

damn bruh, still maybe try talk to them again tho and just stay grinding on ur studies. Maybe theyll just think you were overwhelemed first starting out and include you?

 

[larpcel]

damn bruh, still maybe try talk to them again tho and just stay grinding on ur studies. Maybe theyll just think you were overwhelemed first starting out and include you?

Ye I mean I can hold convos when one is there but large groups are tough.

 

[brotato78]

Ye I mean I can hold convos when one is there but large groups are tough.

yeah i feel u, i feel invisible in groups i could only imagine what 11 would be like

 

[ybuyhgui]

hope things start looking up for you man, I feel like I can relate to this even though I'm not going to uni until next year

 

[larpcel]

hope things start looking up for you man, I feel like I can relate to this even though I'm not going to uni until next year

I feel happier now that I’ve dialled down a bit on studies only behind on 1 topic now. I guess the main thing which really upset me was being behind on content. I made uni sound bad but if you like partying you should enjoy it.

 

[ybuyhgui]

if you like partying you should enjoy it.

from what I hear it's more of a 'if you look like you enjoy partying you'll enjoy it' kind of situation, but I'm glad it’s going better for you

 

[pmg]

Idk I got into a new school this year and all I have done is socialize, party and clubbing yet my grades comapred to last year are fucking horrible JFL but atleast status is up and lowkey for you either socialize or nerdmax

 

[larpcel]

from what I hear it's more of a 'if you look like you enjoy partying you'll enjoy it' kind of situation, but I'm glad it’s going better for you

Yes that’s probably true.

 

[larpcel]

Idk I got into a new school this year and all I have done is socialize, party and clubbing yet my grades comapred to last year are fucking horrible JFL but atleast status is up and lowkey for you either socialize or nerdmax

I’m gonna try do both without going crazy when i get back to uni but it’s great that you’re in a new school and already so social, i could never lol