My mom is so FUCKING ANNOYING [Divorced partentcels GTFIH]

[Deleted member 1003]

MY ESSAY, READ IF YOU WANT, DON'T IF YOU DON'T WANT ​

She has always been like this:

- omg I can't do this, this is hard (for simple things too)
- I can't this I can't that, I don't know this I don't know that
- LITERALLY ALWAYS blames someone else for LITERALLY everything (example: she asks me to go shopping with her; then she says it would have been better if I had not gone with her ''cus I fucked up her entire day and just caused her stress'' JFL ; she has a headache = my fault ; she can't sleep = my fault cus I stressed her out



- she also had self-esteem issues in the past (and still does but not to the extend she did before)

My parents are divorced (and have been for over 10 years now) and she keeps yapping about my dad all the time and has been doing this ever since ever since they got divorced (my dad cheated on her).


Lately I have been away from home quite a bit and I've noticed some things about her that were more or less 'normal' in my mind.
I've had self-esteem issues in the past (and this was somewhat because I was skinny, but mostly because I saw how she acted and I started acting like that too (obvious, a kid will imitate what the parents do [in my case I spent a very big majority of my time with my mother], the people you spend most of your time with are the ones you will become most like)

DO YOU KNOW HOW I FIRST HAPPENED TO FIND PORN?​

(Right after the divorce)

My mother kept talking shit about my dad and the whore (borderline whore tbh lol, that's true but...) he cheated on her with and she wasn't even trying to water down the words she used when she talked about them (i was 7-8 years old at this point), it was this:

''that fucking whore'' (she used this for both him and her)
''I hope they fucking die''
''She should go work in a whorehouse''

etc. etc....

(My dad is not an angel in this story ofc but I am talking about my mom now)

So... I one day went on the internet (in 2009 when I was 9 yo) and searched up ''whorehouse'' (I heard this word a lot from my mom) and I stumbled upon pornhub.
I then fapped for the first time and I literally didn't even have cum yet, I just had an orgasm but nothing came out.


Ok so let's go back to this

She has always been like this:

- omg I can't do this, this is hard (for simple things too)
- I can't this I can't that, I don't know this I don't know that
..........................

I CAN'T BE BOTHERED TO WRITE ANY MORE, YOU GET THE GIST

SHE WORKS A VERY REPLACEABLE JOB TOO FOR A MINIMUM WAGE AND SHE HAS HAD OFFERS TO GO WORK JUST AS REPLACEABLE JOBS BUT THAT PAY WAY MORE, BUT THIS ISN'T IN THE REGION WE LIVE IN SO SHE IS LIKE ''BUT THIS BUT THAT BLA BLA''.

SHE KEEPS SAYING EVERYTHING IS HARD.

SHE KEEPS BLAMING OTHERS FOR BASICALLY EVERYTHING BAD THAT HAPPENS TO HER.

SHE SAYS SHE HATES HER JOB BUT REFUSES TO ACCEPT THE JOB OFFERS SHE GETS (IN ANOTHER COUNTRY, BUT SHE WOULD BE WITH A FAMILY MEMBER FOR THE FIRST FEW MONTHS).




I NEED TO SPENT AS LITTLE TIME NEXT TO HER AS POSSIBLE, I CAN LITERALLY FEEL HER NEGATIVE ENERGY EVERY TIME I AM NEAR HER


If anyone has/had a similar situation etc say what you did to resolve it or whatever (did you just spend as little time with her as possible... [seems like the best choice].


That's it.

Gonna go listen to some music now and calm down (I just heard her cough and it raised my cortisol levels)

 

[AlwaysHaveQuestions]

women arent meant to have problems. when they do a man solves it
without a man they cant function

 

[Deleted member 7866]

she need s to be dicked down. dm me if u need some help

 

[Deleted member 7651]

holy shit i wish i dnrd

 

[Deleted member 1003]

women arent meant to have problems. when they do a man solves it
without a man they cant function

She talks about this a lot, ''look at her, she has a husband that just gives her money etc etc'', and then she has a very jealous look on her face

She has also had 5 boyfriends since the divorce (I only met 2) and she broke up with all of them in a similar fasion (they were all low tier normies at best and mostly incels whilst she is high tier normie tier (still htn but milf now)

After she broke up with my dad (and the latest boyfriend, and this i 100% what she did for the other ones too) she has been sending them messages containing shit like this; ''I hope you die you whore, piece of shit, garbage, ......'' (stopped sending them to my dad 5 years ago after he went to court with the messages [she then claimed it's not her number when it clearly was]).


My dad mogs/ed all of her boyfriend and she only had them as boyfriends as orbiters basically [cus they were all below normie PSL] (for validation)

 

[Deleted member 10949]

ayy lmao

 

[AlwaysHaveQuestions]

She talks about this a lot, ''look at her, she has a husband that just gives her money etc etc'', and then she has a very jealous look on her face

She has also had 5 boyfriends since the divorce (I only met 2) and she broke up with all of them in a similar fasion (they were all low tier normies at best and mostly incels whilst she is high tier normie tier (still htn but milf now)

i will take care of her

 

[Deleted member 1003]

i will take care of her

If you are below mid/high tier normie you didn't read what I wrote in the replies

 

[AlwaysHaveQuestions]

If you are below mid/high tier normie you didn't read what I wrote in the replies

dont disrespect your mother ever again. she is a saint who takes turns incels into men

 

[Deleted member 1003]

dont disrespect your mother ever again. she is a saint who takes turns incels into men

Yes of course

 

[SkinjobCatastrophe]

This sounds a lot like my mom, shes not divorced but single from the moment she gave birth to me. Always complaining, every problem she had is someone else’s fault, and talking about how her life is so hard. Everyone does everything wrong, and only she can do it right. When I would wash the dishes, she would tell me I was doing it wrong and get really angry. So then she would be like “UGHHHH fine let me show you” and then she would wash a dish in the same exact way I was doing it, and then I would just say “ok ill do that” to avoid any problems. Then I would start washing dishes again and she would erupt in a fit of rage saying that I never listen to her, she does all the work and I cant do anything right, etc.

Then she would have these 2 or 3 day periods where she would not talk to me. Sometimes i would come home from school and shed be angry, I could tell by her face and she was slamming shit and throwing it around the house. So i would ask her “whats wrong?” and she would just say nothing, pretending like I wasnt there and she didnt hear anything. I guess youd call it the silent treatment jfl.

Sometimes it would go on for days and she wouldnt cook anything or get food, so I couldnt eat. Or maybe I needed to go somewhere and so Id ask her but she would just keep giving me the silent treatment. So a lot of shit at school i was supposed to be there and i got in trouble for not showing up, and id say my mom didnt drive me and they were like well didnt you ask her? And id explain the whole thing and people would think i was crazy. What a mess. No one ever thought she could do any wrong, “being a single mother is so hard” theyd say. Anyway sorry for the wall of text, i hope you can improve things or get away from your mother

 

[LILMAXILLA]

I NEED TO SPENT AS LITTLE TIME NEXT TO HER AS POSSIBLE, I CAN LITERALLY FEEL HER NEGATIVE ENERGY EVERY TIME I AM NEAR HER

bro I relate to this so much. I only recently became aware of it but I'm pretty sure I've always felt that way around my parents. And now I'm starting to understand how much damage that must have done to me growing up... no wonder I'm this fucked up :/

 

[eyelidcel]

my snake bitch of a mother is the same way, even right now, she's gaslighting me and told me I have a month to get out. I even pay rent, she got a new job and started feeling herself now she thinks i'm supposed to march to the beat of her drum. she's trying to make me into a bitch but everytime she does that I just remind her how worthless she really is.

 

[looksmaxxtocope]

tldr but if you're raised by a single mother, it's statistically much worse for men than being raised in a family or a single dad. over for you tbh

 

[Deleted member 1003]

tldr but if you're raised by a single mother, it's statistically much worse for men than being raised in a family or a single dad. over for you tbh

Indeed I agree, every time I spend time with my dad for a while and then come back home to my mom I am noticeably more confident etc

 

[john2]

Did read, I am sorry for what you've experienced bro.

 

[Deleted member 11074]

Whats your dads height bro

 

[Deleted member 7580]

 

[BigJimsWornOutTires]

MY ESSAY, READ IF YOU WANT, DON'T IF YOU DON'T WANT ​

She has always been like this:

- omg I can't do this, this is hard (for simple things too)
- I can't this I can't that, I don't know this I don't know that
- LITERALLY ALWAYS blames someone else for LITERALLY everything (example: she asks me to go shopping with her; then she says it would have been better if I had not gone with her ''cus I fucked up her entire day and just caused her stress'' JFL ; she has a headache = my fault ; she can't sleep = my fault cus I stressed her out



- she also had self-esteem issues in the past (and still does but not to the extend she did before)

My parents are divorced (and have been for over 10 years now) and she keeps yapping about my dad all the time and has been doing this ever since ever since they got divorced (my dad cheated on her).


Lately I have been away from home quite a bit and I've noticed some things about her that were more or less 'normal' in my mind.
I've had self-esteem issues in the past (and this was somewhat because I was skinny, but mostly because I saw how she acted and I started acting like that too (obvious, a kid will imitate what the parents do [in my case I spent a very big majority of my time with my mother], the people you spend most of your time with are the ones you will become most like)

DO YOU KNOW HOW I FIRST HAPPENED TO FIND PORN?​

(Right after the divorce)

My mother kept talking shit about my dad and the whore (borderline whore tbh lol, that's true but...) he cheated on her with and she wasn't even trying to water down the words she used when she talked about them (i was 7-8 years old at this point), it was this:

''that fucking whore'' (she used this for both him and her)
''I hope they fucking die''
''She should go work in a whorehouse''

etc. etc....

(My dad is not an angel in this story ofc but I am talking about my mom now)

So... I one day went on the internet (in 2009 when I was 9 yo) and searched up ''whorehouse'' (I heard this word a lot from my mom) and I stumbled upon pornhub.
I then fapped for the first time and I literally didn't even have cum yet, I just had an orgasm but nothing came out.


Ok so let's go back to this

I CAN'T BE BOTHERED TO WRITE ANY MORE, YOU GET THE GIST

SHE WORKS A VERY REPLACEABLE JOB TOO FOR A MINIMUM WAGE AND SHE HAS HAD OFFERS TO GO WORK JUST AS REPLACEABLE JOBS BUT THAT PAY WAY MORE, BUT THIS ISN'T IN THE REGION WE LIVE IN SO SHE IS LIKE ''BUT THIS BUT THAT BLA BLA''.

SHE KEEPS SAYING EVERYTHING IS HARD.

SHE KEEPS BLAMING OTHERS FOR BASICALLY EVERYTHING BAD THAT HAPPENS TO HER.

SHE SAYS SHE HATES HER JOB BUT REFUSES TO ACCEPT THE JOB OFFERS SHE GETS (IN ANOTHER COUNTRY, BUT SHE WOULD BE WITH A FAMILY MEMBER FOR THE FIRST FEW MONTHS).




I NEED TO SPENT AS LITTLE TIME NEXT TO HER AS POSSIBLE, I CAN LITERALLY FEEL HER NEGATIVE ENERGY EVERY TIME I AM NEAR HER


If anyone has/had a similar situation etc say what you did to resolve it or whatever (did you just spend as little time with her as possible... [seems like the best choice].


That's it.

Gonna go listen to some music now and calm down (I just heard her cough and it raised my cortisol levels)

Ugh. For starters. Get your head out of your mom's vagina. Then work on yourself. She's a big girl (probably literally, but I'm not judging.) She can handle life just fine. But you better be careful. She's a female. And when females attach to a male, like a bloodsucking fish to a whale (in your case, a dolphin...dolphin boy,) they don't want to let them go. A female human is NATURALLY designed for one male human. Though dogs too sometimes. But with the exceptions of male children. But if the male father is out of the picture. She will then unwillingly attach to the next male down. You. I don't mean sexually (unless you're in a mountain family.) It's not her fault. Not yours either. With that said, she will also cockblock you. Unwillingly. She needs a man to replace you. Unless you're just fine being mommy's little bitch-boy. Then go luck with that.

 

[Lihito]

Ugh. For starters. Get your head out of your mom's vagina. Then work on yourself. She's a big girl (probably literally, but I'm not judging.) She can handle life just fine. But you better be careful. She's a female. And when females attach to a male, like a bloodsucking fish to a whale (in your case, a dolphin...dolphin boy,) they don't want to let them go. A female human is NATURALLY designed for one male human. Though dogs too sometimes. But with the exceptions of male children. But if the male father is out of the picture. She will then unwillingly attach to the next male down. You. I don't mean sexually (unless you're in a mountain family.) It's not her fault. Not yours either. With that said, she will also cockblock you. Unwillingly. She needs a man to replace you. Unless you're just fine being mommy's little bitch-boy. Then go luck with that.

Wtf is this Reddit light incest LARPing shit GTFO.


One rule with cells is that you dont speak about our mother