My mom told me to fill up the kettle and I refused

[Deleted member 5969]

Cuz im always doing stuff
ex. My mom told me to do her laundry so i did it and my brother stole my napkin so she made me get new ones
Then I refused to fill up the kettle
She got mad started screaming yelling etc she said she is sick of me "isolating myself" even tho for basically my whole life she was out of the house working and getting f***ed =by other men, i was raised by babysitters
Its up to Jesus and I apologized, filled up the kettle but she said she will never forgive me
now she is in her office blasting music and wont speak to anyone

 

[Deleted member 2214]

Cope

 

[Deleted member 5969]

I think she is menopausal or sum tbh
Ive talked to her about this before multiple times saying im not a push over and my brother gets off on everything
My brother goes out and doesnt come home till next morning
My brother is caught smoking weed
My brother neglects his dog (and im forced to do his job)
My brother is morbidly obese
My brothers room is a pigsty (quite literally)
No punishment whatsoever

 

[Deleted member 5969]

She is gonna hit me I bet and destroy more of my things she has done this before
I can feel it she is gonna come out of her office soon
She is gonna hit me destroy my computer take away my phone and hit me
All because I didnt want to fill up the kettle this one time

 

[Deleted member 5969]

@goat2x @PYT @kjsbdfiusdf @Pubertymaxxingcel @magnificentcel @Dukeys @FastBananaCEO @WadlowMaxxing @personalityinkwell
im lowkey scared

 

[Deleted member 10652]

Just apologize and do what she says until you are able to support yourself.

 

[Deleted member 5969]

My mom also screams at me a lot and i politely tell her to be quiet or to stop talking
Cuz she gives me literal headaches
And she gets super mad

 

[Deleted member 5969]

Just apologize and do what she says until you are able to support yourself.

Thats what I did but im in fear for myself rn cuz usually she comes and hits me and destroys my stuff
And calls me an abuser and says im like my abusive father

 

[Deleted member 4612]

your mom is a control freak.

 

[Deleted member 4612]

Thats what I did but im in fear for myself rn cuz usually she comes and hits me and destroys my stuff
And calls me an abuser and says im like my abusive father

projection, she's the one abusing you

 

[Deleted member 5969]

your mom is a control freak.

What does that mean

 

[Deleted member 5969]

projection, she's the one abusing you

I forgive her instantly cuz thats what Jesus says to do
Its up to Jesus now literally everything she says i have to do

 

[Deleted member 5891]

Bumo for my homie

 

[Deleted member 9003]

Thats what I did but im in fear for myself rn cuz usually she comes and hits me and destroys my stuff
And calls me an abuser and says im like my abusive father

Juke her

 

[Deleted member 5969]

Bumo for my homie

Mirin

 

[Deleted member 5969]

Juke her

I cant do anything except take the beating

 

[Deleted member 5969]

I remember once i was being forcibly confined and i pushed past my mom and she said I hit her
And then once randomly she came into my room pinned me against the wall pinched my nose hit and slapped me

 

[St. Wristcel]

If you’re a grown man or at least physically bigger than her don’t be scared. get away as soon as you can, and don’t be a cuck to please your mom my mom does the same thing because all women are the same and I simply stopped doing what she asked of me and she stopped bothering asking.

 

[Deleted member 4612]

What does that mean

look it up

 

[St. Wristcel]

I remember once i was being forcibly confined and i pushed past my mom and she said I hit her
And then once randomly she came into my room pinned me against the wall pinched my nose hit and slapped me

All women act like this, use of violence for me but not for thee

 

[Deleted member 5969]

To avoid anger and punishment, children of abusive parents often resort to complying with their parent's every demand.[19] This affects both the child's well-being and their ability to make logical decisions on their own, and as adults they often lack self-confidence and the ability to gain control over their life. Identity crisis, loneliness, and struggle with self expression are also commonly seen in children raised by a narcissistic parent
bruh

 

[Deleted member 9003]

I cant do anything except take the beating

You gotta stop letting your mom hit you.

 

[Deleted member 5969]

If you’re a grown man or at least physically bigger than her don’t be scared. get away as soon as you can, and don’t be a cuck to please your mom my mom does the same thing because all women are the same and I simply stopped doing what she asked of me and she stopped bothering asking.

I cannot do anything to her not even a finger
I tried that she doesnt stop

 

[Deleted member 5969]

You gotta stop letting your mom hit you.

I literally have no choice
She could call the cops or kick me out or both
Or any variation of a severe punishment

 

[Deleted member 4612]

To avoid anger and punishment, children of abusive parents often resort to complying with their parent's every demand.[19] This affects both the child's well-being and their ability to make logical decisions on their own, and as adults they often lack self-confidence and the ability to gain control over their life. Identity crisis, loneliness, and struggle with self expression are also commonly seen in children raised by a narcissistic parent
bruh

who is this directed to?

 

[Deleted member 5969]

Children may benefit with distance from the narcissistic parent.

fax i feel so much better just away from my parents

 

[Deleted member 9003]

I literally have no choice
She could call the cops or kick me out or both
Or any variation of a severe punishment

Tell her to start acting like a real mother and an adult

 

[Deleted member 5969]

who is this directed to?

Its a wiki page on narcissistic parents
I lack self confidence and have no identify of self

 

[Deleted member 5969]

Tell her to start acting like a real mother and an adult

I told her this but she just ignored me
Me and my brother tried to tell her about her spending and how its useless but she never listens

 

[Deleted member 5969]

Hopefully the military accepts me I dont like my parents very much

 

[Deleted member 10652]

Hopefully the military accepts me I dont like my parents very much

Don't worry bro it will get better you just hang in there.
Try to not aggravate her and don't worry about the police if anything they may help you.
She is just trying to gaslight you.
Just try to find something so you can be independent.

 

[Gremblo]

And calls me an abuser and says im like my abusive father

Your mother is extremely mentally ill. This is the exact behaviour my ex girlfriend has, she was diagnosed with borderline personality disorder which seems similar to your mother. I would, for your own sake, move out as soon as possible. Having said untreated issues makes her an unfit mother, she will not get better without help and you cannot help her. The only way to change this situation is to move out.

 

[Deleted member 10652]

Whatever you do don't argue with her.
narcissists don't like to get proven wrong or argued with.
I learned that the hard way.

 

[Deleted member 3672]

Hopefully the military accepts me I dont like my parents very much

i was thinking about this but idk if its a (((good time)))

 

[Deleted member 5969]

i was thinking about this but idk if its a (((good time)))

Pre tribulation rapture so ur fine

 

[Htobrother]

Tbh how can she slap you you ain’t 10 I guess
You are probably physically bigger and stronger tbh

 

[Merćer]

Mirror what she have done to you, and do so in a way that makes her realize you are doing to her is what exactly what she did to you. You make her feel that her behavior has been unpleasant, as opposed to hearing you complain and whine about it, which only gets her defenses up.

 

[MusicMaxxingMidget]

You know what to do.

 

[Deleted member 5189]

Tales

 

[hairyballscel]

stand up for yourself and tell her to have some respect for you

how old are you?

 

[Deleted member 6380]

whats your height and are you ugly?

 

[Deleted member 5969]

whats your height and are you ugly?

5'7 yes

 

[Deleted member 6380]

5'7 yes

whats your brothers and moms height, is your mom or brother ugly?

 

[Deleted member 5969]

bruh