My mom wants to send me to therapy

[soapbubble]

It’s cuz I opened up to my dad and cried when he talked to me a few weeks ago and said that I think being ugly has caused my social anxiety. She told me that I’m not ugly and that my grandma called me handsome (jfl that’s literally cuz i’m her grandson). She said there are people uglier than me, who are still happy and well-liked (yes but they’re not respected and loved, are they?).

I am objectively LTN, and have already been looking into surgeries and procedures for a while. My base isn’t terrible, it’s mainly the overbite causing chin recession (which I am in the process of correcting rn) and grooming (eyebrows, lashes, hair etc). My parents refused to help me with my appearance and I had to cry and beg for years to get braces and even buy decent-looking clothes, and they put down every little thing I do to improve my appearance, even skincare. I don’t want therapy, I don’t want to waste money, time, and worst of all I don’t want to somehow end up bluepilled (therapists are literally trained to induce cope). Help?

 

[Panchitosbroncs]

It’s cuz I opened up to my dad and cried when he talked to me a few weeks ago and said that I think being ugly has caused my social anxiety. She told me that I’m not ugly and that my grandma called me handsome (jfl that’s literally cuz i’m her grandson). She said there are people uglier than me, who are still happy and well-liked (yes but they’re not respected and loved, are they?).

I am objectively LTN, and have already been looking into surgeries and procedures for a while. My base isn’t terrible, it’s mainly the overbite causing chin recession (which I am in the process of correcting rn) and grooming (eyebrows, lashes, hair etc). My parents refused to help me with my appearance and I had to cry and beg for years to get braces and even buy decent-looking clothes, and put down every little thing I do to improve my appearance, even skincare. I don’t want therapy, I don’t want to waste money, time, and worst of all I don’t want to somehow end up bluepilled (therapists are literally trained to induce cope). Help?

I've been attending to therapy for a loooong loooong time and shi doesn't works, but parents force me to go.

 

[soapbubble]

I've been attending to therapy for a loooong loooong time and shi doesn't works, but parents force me to go.

u think it’s had any actual impact (positive or negative) on you or no?

 

[Panchitosbroncs]

u think it’s had any actual impact (positive or negative) on you or no?

Mostly negative since I feel like I'm wasting parent's money going there, just to listen a fat old nigger talking about how I look above avg and blah blah blah

 

[xaxanibber]

best decision i ever made,,, now i live like a neet in my moms basement on welfare,,,, buying clothes and drugs without a single worry in the world

 

[SennenHund]

@soapbubble Women believe that therapy is a thought crime machine. The way they see things in general has them view therapy as a fixer for people whos actions or thoughts or speech they disagree with. Mothers often think this more intensely because of the intensified instinct they have to "teach" you feminine behaviors through themselvesbor someone else. Send someone in, and they come out "fixed" or socially acceptable with their mind rewired to agree with the "current consensus".

Its why their only recommendation for anything to do with problems is pop science horseshit and then bombarding you with their go-to-therapy loop. Increasingly more evidence shows that talk therapy does not work on men, because men put more emphasis on personal agency and action compared to women, despite the "strong and independant" get up. Therapy will never change your material conditions, which is the actual cause of our problems. Women can be consoled like babies, and want someone who occasionally offers them "hard questions" but for the most part agrees with them and teaches them how to think, because they are mentally children. The only option for you is supreme independance from your parents.

 

[iblamefranklin]

It’s cuz I opened up to my dad and cried when he talked to me a few weeks ago and said that I think being ugly has caused my social anxiety. She told me that I’m not ugly and that my grandma called me handsome (jfl that’s literally cuz i’m her grandson). She said there are people uglier than me, who are still happy and well-liked (yes but they’re not respected and loved, are they?).

I am objectively LTN, and have already been looking into surgeries and procedures for a while. My base isn’t terrible, it’s mainly the overbite causing chin recession (which I am in the process of correcting rn) and grooming (eyebrows, lashes, hair etc). My parents refused to help me with my appearance and I had to cry and beg for years to get braces and even buy decent-looking clothes, and they put down every little thing I do to improve my appearance, even skincare. I don’t want therapy, I don’t want to waste money, time, and worst of all I don’t want to somehow end up bluepilled (therapists are literally trained to induce cope). Help?

with anything else therapy is normally a big plus but with your looks its just straight cope and a big waste of money imo, which is money that could be spent on surgeries instead

 

[tansel]

yeah my family used to say the same thing & they still do now, ive still had surgeries though & am getting more soon, but i’m 22 with a job lol so they can’t do much

 

[kisslessvirgin]

i remember when they made me do counseling

 

[Lefort IV]

 

[Latinolooksmaxxer]

You gonna meet the rapist