My mother says i need to work on charm/personality rather than improving looks

[GoldKiller]

Why do women always say this? I suggested going abroad for possible blepharoplasty surgery and my mother said you need to work on your charm and personality instead. I have always suffered from dark circles around my eyes so I was looking for some improvements.

 

[AtlasTH]

Why do women always say this? I suggested going abroad for possible blepharoplasty surgery and my mother said you need to work on your charm and personality instead. I have always suffered from dark circles around my eyes so I was looking for some improvements.

lol because at her age social media aren’t a thing so looks not important as 2022 now

 

[LowTrust]

she's right bro personality is all that matters and you gotta work on this, don't waste your time looksmaxxing, women want guys with good personality anyway not tall chads

 

[Deleted member 22841]

Because she is bluepillied and does not understand how personality has gone down so much in importance, meanwhile looks importance has skyrocketed because of technology.

 

[Deleted member 22841]

she's right bro personality is all that matters and you gotta work on this, don't waste your time looksmaxxing, women want guys with good personality anyway not tall chads

 

[GoldKiller]

Because she is bluepillied and does not understand how personality has gone down so much in importance, meanwhile looks importance has skyrocketed because of technology.

I mean i agree i could have more charm and be better at talking to women because it does work but changing your personality is impossible unless you're drunk nonstop.

 

[Deleted member 22841]

I mean i agree i could have more charm and be better at talking to women because it does work but changing your personality is impossible unless you're drunk nonstop.

I ain't saying personality and all that other shit does not matter at all i just say looks by far is the most important factor or SMV.

 

[GoldKiller]

I ain't saying personality and all that other shit does not matter at all i just say looks by far is the most important factor or SMV.

It is. i agree.

 

[Deleted member 16515]

Why do women always say this? I suggested going abroad for possible blepharoplasty surgery and my mother said you need to work on your charm and personality instead. I have always suffered from dark circles around my eyes so I was looking for some improvements.

they'll never understand.
my mother says my goals are too superficial and I'm a narcy but I tried to explain to her that years of negative reinforcement in social interactions make a person conscious and concerned about their looks.

 

[NotoriousLoser]

she's right bro personality is all that matters and you gotta work on this, don't waste your time looksmaxxing, women want guys with good personality anyway not tall chads

dude at the mall every saturday when i look around, i'm 187, don't look like shit, have nice teeth, perfect skin etc. and then i see guys with high tier beckys who are a head shorter than me, have pimples on their faces , have a beer belly and so on. maybe women actually think they can't get anything better? ran past a couple last saturday she was a mid tier becky i would say he was definitely uglier than me and shorter than me she was about 5'5" i would say he was 5'8" and when i ran past them she was looking deep in my eyes like "i'd rather have you as my bf" haha maybe i'm imagining things too much but what woman in a relationship looks other guys deep in the eyes? we all know that couples in love only have eyes for themselves. so much for "women don't want tall chads". no misunderstanding, i'm not chad, maybe not even chadlite, i'm only a bit tall but apparently that's enough for women as it seems.