My mum had a go at me for not having a "proper job"

[optimisticzoomer]

I do security and work flexible hours so whenever they need me. It usually works out to maybe 25 hours a week. Sometimes I'll work 50 hours in a row and then have like a week off.

Anyway, my mum said I should be working every day, and that I needed to do a job I could get "fulfilment" from, and where I would use my brain

Bruh. I used my brain to choose to go into security because I knew it would be easy. Sorry that I don't want to work harder for oftentimes the same pay. This is my first job and I've only been doing it for like 5 months

The hours maybe I could agree on. Not really because I don't think anyone single needs to work 40+ hours if they're smart. Especially since I'm living with my parents (but they want me to move out)

But I don't get the mentality loads of normies have of needing to get some job to get "fulfilment" from or to impress others. Realistically, you want your job to be as easy as possible, and play as little part in your life as possible. I can get fulfilment from existence and life outside work. I don't need work for that

 

[loyolaxavvierretard]

Does your mother know that you are Batman ?

 

[loyolaxavvierretard]

Does your mother know that you are Batman ?

 

[optimisticzoomer]

Does your mother know that you are Batman ?

No
I need to monkpill her

 

[loyolaxavvierretard]

No
I need to monkpill her

Send da video of that

 

[Chadeep]

It's Boomer Mentality. Tell her she doesn't understand. The world has Evolved

 

[Vincent Freeman]

Based Mother. I would throw your lazy bum ass out of the house long time ago

 

[optimisticzoomer]

It's Boomer Mentality. Tell her she doesn't understand. The world has Evolved

She says my work situation is making her stressed. That's on her. I literally have a job

 

[Chadeep]

She says my work situation is making her stressed. That's on her. I literally have a job

Boomer Wageslave mentality. Job is for Survival. People Build things for Fulfillment that's the Job of Founder or CEO of the Company. You as a Wagie has nothing to contribute

 

[optimisticzoomer]

Boomer Wageslave mentality. Job is for Survival. People Build things for Fulfillment that's the Job of Founder of CEO of the Company. You as a Wagie has nothing to contribute

I know. But when I explain this stuff she says I have issues

 

[loyolaxavvierretard]

I know. But when I explain this stuff she says I have issues

Tell her you are an oldcel and she needs to respect her elders

 

[Shahnameh]

She says my work situation is making her stressed. That's on her. I literally have a job

Just ignore her, it's not worth the effort. You can't reason with boomers.

 

[R@m@]

Drug dealing or death

 

[loyolaxavvierretard]

Just ignore her, it's not worth the effort. You can't reason with boomers.

He is an oldcel, she needs to respect elders

 

[R@m@]

Your parents would respect you more for drug dealing

It means the son has high t low inhibition genes

 

[sub5outsider]

shes right and thinks about your future but at the same time you can do whatever you want

 

[loyolaxavvierretard]

Your parents would respect you more for drug dealing

It means the son has high t low inhibition genes

He needs to become an oil lobbyst. I will hire him and make his mother proud

 

[Vincent Freeman]

He is an oldcel

 

[Debetro]

Security being 4'2?

 

[normie_joe]

I do security and work flexible hours so whenever they need me. It usually works out to maybe 25 hours a week. Sometimes I'll work 50 hours in a row and then have like a week off.

Anyway, my mum said I should be working every day, and that I needed to do a job I could get "fulfilment" from, and where I would use my brain

Bruh. I used my brain to choose to go into security because I knew it would be easy. Sorry that I don't want to work harder for oftentimes the same pay. This is my first job and I've only been doing it for like 5 months

The hours maybe I could agree on. Not really because I don't think anyone single needs to work 40+ hours if they're smart. Especially since I'm living with my parents (but they want me to move out)

But I don't get the mentality loads of normies have of needing to get some job to get "fulfilment" from or to impress others. Realistically, you want your job to be as easy as possible, and play as little part in your life as possible. I can get fulfilment from existence and life outside work. I don't need work for that

I remember you writing they were pestering you about not having a job a while back.

Now you got a job and it's still not enough.

It won't stop will it?

I'm in a similar situation, my mom is constantly asking me when I'll be done my degree, when will I get a proper job etc.

The sooner I leave my shithole house, the happier I'll be mentally, but it likely won't be till I'm fucking 30 in this economy.

 

[optimisticzoomer]

Security being 4'2?

Yes
It's not bouncer or anything where u need to be big

 

[loyolaxavvierretard]

I remember you writing they were pestering you about not having a job a while back.

Now you got a job and it's still not enough.

It won't stop will it?

I'm in a similar situation, my mom is constantly asking me when I'll be done my degree, when will I get a proper job etc.

The sooner I leave my shithole house, the happier I'll be mentally, but it likely won't be till I'm fucking 30 in this economy.

Tell them they need to shut it. You are a bimax specialist and this shit wont fly in the house

 

[Polish Chincel]

I work also in security best job for a student tho

 

[ascension]

Security is fun until someone tries to kill you to get into whatever place you're supposed to be guarding

But yeah, maybe work a few years, then do some sort of qualification that lets you do Security for large buildings or venues. I was looking at a Security job at Arsenal FC's training ground (imagine how easy that would be jfl), and they needed a certain qualification that I forgot the name of. The pay was really good too, and they'll probably give you meals from their canteen. Dream job. I'd go down that route if my parents weren't forcing me to come an Investment Banker

 

[R@m@]

I remember you writing they were pestering you about not having a job a while back.

Now you got a job and it's still not enough.

It won't stop will it?

I'm in a similar situation, my mom is constantly asking me when I'll be done my degree, when will I get a proper job etc.

The sooner I leave my shithole house, the happier I'll be mentally, but it likely won't be till I'm fucking 30 in this economy.

Society will collapse, chill

 

[romanstock]

She can't brag about you to her friends. That's what she really cares about. When her friends ask her what you're up to now that you're left school and she has to say security, she feels her social value falling in the eyes of her friends.

 

[Allandro]

Just move out... I am currently attending university and working at a part-time job... I would love to move out but I can't since I don't get enough money from this job and I can't find a better one otherwise I wouldn't have enough time to focus on studying.

If you do have enough money just move out, don't listen to them when they say that you shouldn't.

 

[optimisticzoomer]

if my parents weren't forcing me to come an Investment Banker

Brootal
Ye I wanted to go into like biology or wildlife shit before, which is probably why they're not impressed I'm doing this

But the job market is tough. Especially for what I wanted to do. So instead of spending years doing extra qualifications and working shit entry level jobs and whatnot to do that, I just decided to do something easy, rather than something I'm "interested" in

 

[optimisticzoomer]

Just move out... I am currently attending university and working at a part-time job... I would love to move out but I can't since I don't get enough money from this job and I can't find a better one otherwise I wouldn't have enough time to focus on studying.

If you do have enough money just move out, don't listen to them when they say that you shouldn't.

No, they want me to move out. I don't want to as I see it as a waste of money. Eventually, yeah, but I want to save up and buy a tiny house somewhere instead of being trapped in a cycle of renting and wageslaving

 

[R@m@]

She can't brag about you to her friends. That's what she really cares about. When her friends ask her what you're up to now that you're left school and she has to say security, she feels her social value falling in the eyes of her friends.

Do you think having a drug dealer son would drop parent social value?

 

[iblamechico]

How did u land the job and how much do u make?

 

[Allandro]

No, they want me to move out. I don't want to as I see it as a waste of money. Eventually, yeah, but I want to save up and buy a tiny house somewhere instead of being trapped in a cycle of renting and wageslaving

Have you tried to explain them this? That you are trying to save up to buy a house?

 

[ascension]

Brootal
Ye I wanted to go into like biology or wildlife shit before, which is probably why they're not impressed I'm doing this

But the job market is tough. Especially for what I wanted to do. So instead of spending years doing extra qualifications and working shit entry level jobs and whatnot to do that, I just decided to do something easy, rather than something I'm "interested" in

Yeah if I had my way I'd do security or a trade apprenticeship. I hate sitting at a computer all day working.

Tell her that after a few years you'll do the security qualification, or become a facilities manager. Should keep her off your back for a while if you give her a long term plan

 

[normie_joe]

She can't brag about you to her friends. That's what she really cares about. When her friends ask her what you're up to now that you're left school and she has to say security, she feels her social value falling in the eyes of her friends.

That's when you know if they really love the kid and want them to be happy, or only give two shits about their image.

Spoiler alert you dumb bitch: it ain't your friends looking after you in your nursing home.

 

[optimisticzoomer]

Have you tried to explain them this? That you are trying to save up to buy a house?

Kind of
In the past I said I wanted to buy a cheap house abroad and only work part time

And I've said I don't want to move out until I get my EU citizenship at least, which will be like a year

 

[Debetro]

Yes
It's not bouncer or anything where u need to be big

I'm spending the entirety of this day playing fortnite. I'm doing parkours now.

 

[Vincent Freeman]

I'm spending the entirety of this day playing fortnite. I'm doing parkours now.

 

[optimisticzoomer]

I'm spending the entirety of this day playing fortnite. I'm doing parkours now.

Imma play some later
Unfortunately my mum is home though, and part of what she was saying earlier is I can't just stay home and play games all day. I don't. I play like 3 hours a day when I don't work, and I can do what I want on my days off anyway

 

[piec]

It won't stop will it?

you need to stop being a millennial bro

 

[Newday*V3]

Older generations are enslaved

 

[Lookologist003]

Well, you are male. Your usefulness is not birthing children or the illusion that you are doing that. Your usefulness is your servitude.

 

[Lookologist003]

No, they want me to move out. I don't want to as I see it as a waste of money. Eventually, yeah, but I want to save up and buy a tiny house somewhere instead of being trapped in a cycle of renting and wageslaving

If you get a mortgage you will be a wage slave for a long long time.

 

[FiendFiend]

I do security and work flexible hours so whenever they need me. It usually works out to maybe 25 hours a week. Sometimes I'll work 50 hours in a row and then have like a week off.

Anyway, my mum said I should be working every day, and that I needed to do a job I could get "fulfilment" from, and where I would use my brain

Bruh. I used my brain to choose to go into security because I knew it would be easy. Sorry that I don't want to work harder for oftentimes the same pay. This is my first job and I've only been doing it for like 5 months

The hours maybe I could agree on. Not really because I don't think anyone single needs to work 40+ hours if they're smart. Especially since I'm living with my parents (but they want me to move out)

But I don't get the mentality loads of normies have of needing to get some job to get "fulfilment" from or to impress others. Realistically, you want your job to be as easy as possible, and play as little part in your life as possible. I can get fulfilment from existence and life outside work. I don't need work for that

jfl even when u get a job the gaslighting never ends.

How old are u?

 

[optimisticzoomer]

If you get a mortgage you will be a wage slave for a long long time.

Not that
I mean a cheap tiny house abroad
I already have like £50k

 

[optimisticzoomer]

jfl even when u get a job the gaslighting never ends.

How old are u?

22

 

[FiendFiend]

22

how tf are they tryna ask u to move out at 22 in UK

 

[MoggerGaston]

does your mother work full-time? Have a go at her if not.

 

[optimisticzoomer]

does your mother work full-time? Have a go at her if not.

Yes
Overworks

 

[Gaygymmaxx]

I do security and work flexible hours so whenever they need me. It usually works out to maybe 25 hours a week. Sometimes I'll work 50 hours in a row and then have like a week off.

Anyway, my mum said I should be working every day, and that I needed to do a job I could get "fulfilment" from, and where I would use my brain

Bruh. I used my brain to choose to go into security because I knew it would be easy. Sorry that I don't want to work harder for oftentimes the same pay. This is my first job and I've only been doing it for like 5 months

The hours maybe I could agree on. Not really because I don't think anyone single needs to work 40+ hours if they're smart. Especially since I'm living with my parents (but they want me to move out)

But I don't get the mentality loads of normies have of needing to get some job to get "fulfilment" from or to impress others. Realistically, you want your job to be as easy as possible, and play as little part in your life as possible. I can get fulfilment from existence and life outside work. I don't need work for that

My mother wants me to be successful and more ambitious

She thinks...

I should... want to move up in the world?

What? Why? That bitch

 

[optimisticzoomer]

how tf are they tryna ask u to move out at 22 in UK

Most parents have the mindset of kids move out after uni
Apart from ethnics