My mum had a go at me for not having a "proper job"

[Gaygymmaxx]

Yes
Overworks

Yet her lazy son does what he needs

Why might she be working overtime?

Perhaps a mouth to feed, one that should be long gone by now? Would she and the hubby be better off downsizing

Does she feed you? Be honest?

Sounds like a selfish whiny son who's complaining about nothing at all

If you buy all your own things, your own food, they don't cook, you pay rent, and whatnot, cool

But why is your mother working overtime? Would she be better off without you?

can you blame her for building resentment?

 

[FiendFiend]

Most parents have the mindset of kids move out after uni
Apart from ethnics

idk bro my brother finishes uni and they dont expect him to skidaddle out the house they know how hard it is to get a house jfl especially in london, and to get a job for his degree

 

[optimisticzoomer]

Yet her lazy son does what he needs

Why might she be working overtime?

Perhaps a mouth to feed, one that should be long gone by now? Would she and the hubby be better off downsizing

Does she feed you? Be honest?

Sounds like a selfish whiny son who's complaining about nothing at all

If you buy all your own things, your own food, they don't cook, you pay rent, and whatnot, cool

But why is your mother working overtime? Would she be better off without you?

can you blame her for building resentment?

Because she's a workaholic
She doesn't need to, and doesn't get paid to
She works in a school, and goes in early and comes back late

 

[Gaygymmaxx]

Because she's a workaholic
She doesn't need to, and doesn't get paid to
She works in a school, and goes in early and comes back late

My bad bro

I was off, but you see my point yes?

They don't understand why you don't care

People 100 years ago didn't act like you, they were greedy, harder working

Wanted to build a life for their kids

 

[thereallegend]

Brootal
Ye I wanted to go into like biology or wildlife shit before, which is probably why they're not impressed I'm doing this

But the job market is tough. Especially for what I wanted to do. So instead of spending years doing extra qualifications and working shit entry level jobs and whatnot to do that, I just decided to do something easy, rather than something I'm "interested" in

You're not gonna find a job in biology or wildlife. Maybe you can become a park ranger for $40k/yr but that's it. It's a completely saturated field based off of government funding that the Republicans are currently getting rid of.

 

[thereallegend]

Because she's a workaholic
She doesn't need to, and doesn't get paid to
She works in a school, and goes in early and comes back late

Asian

 

[optimisticzoomer]

My bad bro

I was off, but you see my point yes?

I don't expect them to pay for me
I said I would pay shares for food etc, but she said no

 

[optimisticzoomer]

Asian

No, white

You're not gonna find a job in biology or wildlife. Maybe you can become a park ranger for $40k/yr but that's it. It's a completely saturated field based off of government funding that the Republicans are currently getting rid of.

I know. And I don't live in US

 

[optimisticzoomer]

Wanted to build a life for their kids

I don't want kids
There's no reason for me to work hard
I just wanna chillmaxx, and if I get paid, why does it matter?

 

[emeraldglass]

I do security and work flexible hours so whenever they need me. It usually works out to maybe 25 hours a week. Sometimes I'll work 50 hours in a row and then have like a week off.

Anyway, my mum said I should be working every day, and that I needed to do a job I could get "fulfilment" from, and where I would use my brain

Bruh. I used my brain to choose to go into security because I knew it would be easy. Sorry that I don't want to work harder for oftentimes the same pay. This is my first job and I've only been doing it for like 5 months

The hours maybe I could agree on. Not really because I don't think anyone single needs to work 40+ hours if they're smart. Especially since I'm living with my parents (but they want me to move out)

But I don't get the mentality loads of normies have of needing to get some job to get "fulfilment" from or to impress others. Realistically, you want your job to be as easy as possible, and play as little part in your life as possible. I can get fulfilment from existence and life outside work. I don't need work for that

No type of work will give you fulfilment if it aids capitalism.

 

[TitusA]

I do security and work flexible hours so whenever they need me. It usually works out to maybe 25 hours a week. Sometimes I'll work 50 hours in a row and then have like a week off.

Anyway, my mum said I should be working every day, and that I needed to do a job I could get "fulfilment" from, and where I would use my brain

Bruh. I used my brain to choose to go into security because I knew it would be easy. Sorry that I don't want to work harder for oftentimes the same pay. This is my first job and I've only been doing it for like 5 months

The hours maybe I could agree on. Not really because I don't think anyone single needs to work 40+ hours if they're smart. Especially since I'm living with my parents (but they want me to move out)

But I don't get the mentality loads of normies have of needing to get some job to get "fulfilment" from or to impress others. Realistically, you want your job to be as easy as possible, and play as little part in your life as possible. I can get fulfilment from existence and life outside work. I don't need work for that

I can get what shes saying its ideal to have a job you get fulfilment from but at the same time the majority of people dont get fulfilment from work

She can't brag about you to her friends. That's what she really cares about. When her friends ask her what you're up to now that you're left school and she has to say security, she feels her social value falling in the eyes of her friends.

Agree with this too. Parents (especially mothers from what ive seen/experienced) wanna brag about their kids. They would rather you have a shit life and mediocre pay in a high status job (like being a doctor) than chill and earn the same or near the same amount doing something the society doesnt attach as much status to.

 

[thereallegend]

Just move out... I am currently attending university and working at a part-time job... I would love to move out but I can't since I don't get enough money from this job and I can't find a better one otherwise I wouldn't have enough time to focus on studying.

If you do have enough money just move out, don't listen to them when they say that you shouldn't.

Fuck paying rent. Next time I have $25k in savings I'll be looking at houses.

 

[Lord Jeffrey]

She's just a brainwashed slave. You are based. Keep doing what u doing son

 

[optimisticzoomer]

Fuck paying rent. Next time I have $25k in savings I'll be looking at houses.

For 25k?
I have £50k ish rn. I'm waiting to get EU citizenship and then buy a cheap house abroad. Idk what I'll do for work. Maybe security still. As for language, idk. Could relearn some french and go to french Guiana. I wanna be a semi hermit anyway

 

[thereallegend]

No, they want me to move out. I don't want to as I see it as a waste of money. Eventually, yeah, but I want to save up and buy a tiny house somewhere instead of being trapped in a cycle of renting and wageslaving

I'm currently working for my family's "business". So it gives them an economic incentive to keep me around (rent free, only paying water bill). Boomers are narcissistic. You have to feed into their egos to get the desired results.

 

[thereallegend]

For 25k?
I have £50k ish rn. I'm waiting to get EU citizenship and then buy a cheap house abroad. Idk what I'll do for work. Maybe security still. As for language, idk. Could relearn some french and go to french Guiana. I wanna be a semi hermit anyway

Yes you could buy a tiny house or geomaxx right now.

Or buy a home in middle of Scotland with LCOL (low cost of living). There's places in America like this too. It's feasible as long as you have reliable transportation.

 

[thereallegend]

Have you tried to explain them this? That you are trying to save up to buy a house?

You better be careful exposing how much savings you may have.

You'd be allowing dark triad people to exploit the situation.

"Oh he says he has 50k in savings and wants to buy a house? Surely he could afford to pay rent! "

 

[thereallegend]

That's when you know if they really love the kid and want them to be happy, or only give two shits about their image.

Spoiler alert you dumb bitch: it ain't your friends looking after you in your nursing home.

All women are dumb. Don't expect them to act in a honorable way.

 

[optimisticzoomer]

Yes you could buy a tiny house or geomaxx right now.

Or buy a home in middle of Scotland with LCOL (low cost of living). There's places in America like this too. It's feasible as long as you have reliable transportation.

Yeah but usually not with the land included at that price
And I would have to be able to get to a job for basic expenses

 

[thereallegend]

Kind of
In the past I said I wanted to buy a cheap house abroad and only work part time

And I've said I don't want to move out until I get my EU citizenship at least, which will be like a year

All you did was make them jealous by saying that. Now they'll do anything to sabotage that goal and make you fit to their expectations.

Imagine your Gen Z son says he's planning to escape the matrix abroad and will only work part time

When you're a Baby Boomer Cuck Wagelsave

 

[thereallegend]

Yeah but usually not with the land included at that price
And I would have to be able to get to a job for basic expenses

JFL at getting a job in third world country

 

[thereallegend]

Yet her lazy son does what he needs

Why might she be working overtime?

Perhaps a mouth to feed, one that should be long gone by now? Would she and the hubby be better off downsizing

Does she feed you? Be honest?

Sounds like a selfish whiny son who's complaining about nothing at all

If you buy all your own things, your own food, they don't cook, you pay rent, and whatnot, cool

But why is your mother working overtime? Would she be better off without you?

can you blame her for building resentment?

I literally pay for all my stuff. Food, insurance, everything. If OP is still eating homecooked meals then I could see his mom building resentment in the fact that women literally hate cooking. They hate useless eaters.

 

[Gaygymmaxx]

I don't want kids
There's no reason for me to work hard
I just wanna chillmaxx, and if I get paid, why does it matter?

Name checks out

Living his best life

 

[Gaygymmaxx]

I literally pay for all my stuff. Food, insurance, everything. If OP is still eating homecooked meals then I could his mom building resentment in the fact that women literally hate cooking. They hate useless eaters.

Bro I wrote in expo marker on my mirror the other day

"Useless eater?"

Had to lock in

 

[Gaygymmaxx]

I literally pay for all my stuff. Food, insurance, everything. If OP is still eating homecooked meals then I could see his mom building resentment in the fact that women literally hate cooking. They hate useless eaters.

Also jfl

I love to cook

Women are over in 2025, what the hell use are they?

They're just men now, without the self control or pride

 

[MoggerGaston]

Yes
Overworks

Ah okay.

My mother never worked a day in her life, dumb parasite whore

 

[Debetro]

Imma play some later
Unfortunately my mum is home though, and part of what she was saying earlier is I can't just stay home and play games all day. I don't. I play like 3 hours a day when I don't work, and I can do what I want on my days off anyway

Too many good players I can't keep up with the level. I used to be quite decent in 2017. But now everyone in rankeds has season 6 Tfue level.

 

[optimisticzoomer]

Too many good players I can't keep up with the level. I used to be quite decent in 2017. But now everyone in rankeds has season 6 Tfue level.

Play unranked or creative

 

[Debetro]

Play unranked or creative

How many hours a week you play it? It's too addictive I have been playing it for 5 days 10 hours each. I can't stop playing and don't do anything else in my day. I will uninstall and take a break of a few months.

 

[optimisticzoomer]

How many hours a week you play it? It's too addictive I have been playing it for 5 days 10 hours each. I can't stop playing and don't do anything else in my day. I will uninstall and take a break of a few months.

Don't u have a job or something?
I play like 3-4 hours when I don't have work, and like 2 when I do

 

[Debetro]

Don't u have a job or something?
I play like 3-4 hours when I don't have work, and like 2 when I do

No nothing.
I can't just play 3 hours, if I play 3 I will eventually play 8. And I want to play other games too.

 

[superpsycho]

normies want you to go through the same suffering they do for some reason

 

[optimisticzoomer]

No nothing.
I can't just play 3 hours, if I play 3 I will eventually play 8. And I want to play other games too.

How do u do nothing?
Do your parents just pay for everything and not make u work?
Just play other games first, then play Fortnite after

 

[superpsycho]

my parents say im lazy when i say i want to get a WFH job when im older

 

[optimisticzoomer]

my parents say im lazy when i say i want to get a WFH job when im older

Same
But I'm too lazy to get a wfh job as u need to sweat it out first in order to get the job

 

[superpsycho]

Same
But I'm too lazy to get a wfh job as u need to sweat it out first in order to get the job

i really dont see a point in commuting to an office 5 days a week as an incel

my dad says going into the office is “fulfilling” though

 

[optimisticzoomer]

i really dont see a point in commuting to an office 5 days a week as an incel

my dad says going into the office is “fulfilling” though

Ye ik
I'll probs just stay in something easy like security tho, even tho mum keeps trying to get me to do something else

 

[superpsycho]

Ye ik
I'll probs just stay in something easy like security tho, even tho mum keeps trying to get me to do something else

from a normies perspective, they probably dont have a reason to not work a “proper job”

society treated them well growing up, gave them friends, neurotypical experiences/memories, and pussy

while as an incel, you get none of that so whats the point of working a “proper job” as an incel other than the fact we need to make ends meet?

 

[Debetro]

How do u do nothing?
Do your parents just pay for everything and not make u work?

It's not going to last much.

Just play other games first, then play Fortnite after

Hard but I'll try it.

 

[sigma boii]

Security is easiest I slept on my job when I had it

 

[optimisticzoomer]

Security is easiest I slept on my job when I had it

Ye I want a job like that
My one atm is in public eye

 

[Vincent Freeman]

Don't u have a job or something?
I play like 3-4 hours when I don't have work, and like 2 when I do

he is 14 mate

 

[optimisticzoomer]

he is 14 mate

Tbh he said he was 15 in 2023 but then claimed to be like 25