My NoFap journey

[zerotohero]

Hello guys,

I am here to announce that I will be on a 90-day NoFap journey starting today. The second half of the year begins today, so what better time than now?

In this thread, I will tell you about my NoFap experience day by day. Stay tuned!

 

[traveler]

mirin

 

[Stopping@Nothing19]

looks>nofap

 

[Ricochet]

I too and starting. I'm about 1hr and 1/2 in

 

[zerotohero]

looks>nofap

I disagree with you on this. Both are important, but don't underestimate the power of neurotypicalness.

You can be really good looking but if you act like an autist due to social anxiety, women will still reject you no matter how handsome you look. So Nofap is fundamental in this case.

It's not just about looks, but also about confidence, charisma and self-esteem. You have to be confident in yourself and your abilities (especially if you're not a natural at talking to girls). You also need to know how to interact with people in general and make them feel comfortable around you.

 

[zerotohero]

I too and starting. I'm about 1hr and 1/2 in

Good luck, boy.

 

[Deleted member 19896]

You can't repress your sex drive that long unless you literally castrate yourself, you will lose the willpower in between (nor will it serve any purpose), plus you're a greycel and there are tons of threads starting NoFap and close to none of succeeding in that streak

better off channelling your ambitions to looksmaxxing or trying to find grils

 

[zerotohero]

You can't repress your sex drive that long unless you literally castrate yourself, you will lose the willpower in between (nor will it serve any purpose), plus you're a greycel and there are tons of threads starting NoFap and close to none of succeeding in that streak

better off channelling your ambitions to looksmaxxing or trying to find grils

That's BS. I have done it already, in summer of 2019, and I think it was the best time of my life, I was socializing way more and starting to get gains on the gym. It's a pity that I stopped doing NoFap because I was improving a lot socially, education wise and on the gym. Now it's time to repeat that experience.

 

[zerotohero]

So far, so good! I've been on day 3 of nofap and I'm still holding it together.

I can't tell you how many times I've wanted to watch porn, but I'm resisting temptation.

On the other hand, I have been spending a little more time online than usual—probably because my brain isn't getting enough dopamine. I need to find a way to limit how much time I spend on the internet while still being able to do my work effectively.

 

[BugeyeBigNoseCurry]

Nofap is cope but fapping after 1 week of nofap feels really good tbh ngl

 

[zerotohero]

Nofap is cope but fapping after 1 week of nofap feels really good tbh ngl

How the fuck did you write 1746 messages in less than a month? Holy shit.

 

[HerpDerpson]

People document their Osteotomy surgeries, dude calls not jerking off a journey.

 

[zerotohero]

It's been a while since I last posted.

I had a relapse last week and it was the worst one yet. It felt like my dopamine receptors were fried as hell.

I've been trying to focus on my mental health, but it just hasn't been working out for me right now. I need a break from this whole thing.

So here's what I've done: I installed an app blocker on my phone to reduce the amount of time I use it, and a porn blocker, and put my phone on black and white mode.

I also deleted all social media apps minus WhatsApp and Telegram, which are still there because they're necessary for work purposes. And YouTube, of course.

Like last time, I'll be posting on this thread and updating you in this journey. Stay tuned!

 

[ChristianChad]

On the other hand, I have been spending a little more time online

Same shit every time. Not watching porn deliberately then spending the time on your PC or phone. Retarded strategy and never worked for me.

Avoid not doing the hard things you need to do everyday. Are you in school right now? How old are you?

 

[zerotohero]

Same shit every time. Not watching porn deliberately then spending the time on your PC or phone. Retarded strategy and never worked for me.

Avoid not doing the hard things you need to do everyday. Are you in school right now? How old are you?

I'm 21. I'm at uni.

 

[ChristianChad]

I'm 21. I'm at uni.

Lots of other shit you could be doing other then being online and education, though education should always be your 1# priority so you can get done with Uni.

When you are doing NoFap just forget about "NoFap" completely. Just try to not spend your time online and just don't watch turn on your PC to watch porn

Maintain your room and keep it tidy, settle things you didn't tend to, buy and make food, study.

Learn new things, find ways to make money, try to get with girls irl or through Instagram if you have mutual interests maybe. Reading is easy and fun, exercise too; though these things don't count as self-improvement or whatever or being productive. They are just better things to do the be online.
Exercise especially, you workout for 1 hour then say "wow I worked so hard" then rot for the rest of the day and do nothing. Exercise should be among your lowest interests especially if you don't have time for it. Just for comparison, being online should be your lowest of lowest interests.

In-general, on "self-improvement", this is completely useless. You can self-improve forever and nothing will change, you will continue to decline. NoFap shouldn't be viewed as self-improvement, just like reading exercise or whatever. These are useless things, a bit like masturbation, but more like mental-masturbation.
What you should be seeking and doing is self-destruction. Going out and getting embarrassed by having new experiences you're not familiar with and going out into dangerous and uncertain situations, destroying your old miserable self in order to become a functional person and someone who's a better potential partner or in order to adopt a new position in a job (for example in order to start a new job like Mechanic, teacher, brick layer you have to destroy your old self and be reborn like a Phoenix as someone with that job title. This is something that always happens but isn't talked about, but you can lack this ability to destroy yourself, you may be cowardly, anxious, too tense and not fluid). When learning new things and progressing you destroy your old-self too, and you functionally reborn as someone else, you but now with new knowledge, you have to destroy yourself every day. Doing this you will not stagnate, unlike when you "self-improve".

 

[zerotohero]

I'm on day 1 of nofap, and I have to say, it's been pretty tough.

I'm in a city surrounded by hot JBs in skimpy clothes and it has been really hard to keep my eyes off them. Every time I turn around, there's another girl that makes me want to ER.

But I've got to keep going! No excuses!

 

[Enfant terrible]

Hello guys,

I am here to announce that I will be on a 90-day NoFap journey starting today. The second half of the year begins today, so what better time than now?

In this thread, I will tell you about my NoFap experience day by day. Stay tuned!

no leave

 

[maxeverything]

Are you doing it to help fuck better/get pussy? I get that not fapping excessively is helpful physically and mentally but this aimless “nofap” shit is cope imo

 

[zerotohero]

Are you doing it to help fuck better/get pussy? I get that not fapping excessively is helpful physically and mentally but this aimless “nofap” shit is cope imo

Not cope if you're a hardcore porn addict.

 

[maxeverything]

Not cope if you're a hardcore porn addict.

Fair enough

 

[zerotohero]

Day 2 of nofap is not going as well as I thought.

My oneitis has blocked me on Instagram, and that is making me feel like wanting to go ER again because she doesn't care about me anymore.

 

[LightSkinNoob]

I did one year of no fap, did absolutely nothing, all it did was make me into vanilla porn for a while after I got back.