My online dating experiences in a nut shell

[DoctorLooksmax]

Boot up the app - get a good number of matches at first from mass swiping and start chatting to a fair few MTB-HTB girls.

Maybe right at the start I message 20 girls and like 10 reply- now you start talking to these 10 girls and after a short while you’re down to 5 or 6 girls as a fewstopped replying after like 2 messages. Then you ask for snap or number after a few more messages and 3 or 4 give it to you. Maybe after a few messages on text or snap you’ve only got 1 or 2 stil replying and things are looking desperate- so you send a Hail Mary asking them to meet for a date and normally that’s the nail in the coffin of the last few girls and they begin to stop replying

Then you get depressed- stop using apps for a whole and try some self improvement - slightly better pics, gymmax a bit more, maybe morph yourself a bit and you’re ready to go again

Slightly more matches this but the the same pattern - half reply, half of those talk for longer than 2-3 messages, half of those give you their number or snap, half of those don’t immediately stop replying when you bring te topic of a date up and of the 1 or 2 left you’re lucky if 1 actually doesn’t flake on meeting you

Rinse and repeat forever

Tldr it’s over

 

[Deleted member 17829]

why is it so fucking impossible

 

[DoctorLooksmax]

why is it so fucking impossible

Getting a girl somewhat attracted to you isn’t too hard

But I tell you what - foids are so brain dead and have such nuked attention spans from tiktok and social media that keeping a girls attention is genuinely close to impossible in 2022. Sustained interest from a girl you also find attractive is almost unheard of - happened to me only a few times in my life

 

[Deleted member 17829]

Getting a girl somewhat attracted to you isn’t too hard

But I tell you what - foids are so brain dead and have such nuked attention spans from tiktok and social media that keeping a girls attention is genuinely close to impossible in 2022. Sustained interest from a girl you also find attractive is almost unheard of - happened to me only a few times in my life

yeah i remember watching something yesterday about some guy moving to a town where its less busy. where theres less things going on like partying. cos he found he had way better chances there, cos dating is like fighting for her attention. if she has other things grabbing her attention, she wont meet. so the overall point is this is 1 big fight for her attention.

is there any other ways to get her attention other than being chad?

 

[DoctorLooksmax]

yeah i remember watching something yesterday about some guy moving to a town where its less busy. where theres less things going on like partying. cos he found he had way better chances there, cos dating is like fighting for her attention. if she has other things grabbing her attention, she wont meet. so the overall point is this is 1 big fight for her attention.

is there any other ways to get her attention other than being chad?

I’m actually convinced that somehow this degenerate dating app/party/hook up culture actually leads to less sex happening overall. It’s like the paradox of choice. The average girl is just so overwhelmed by choices when she goes out and even more on dating apps that she just serially talks to guys for short periods of time before losing interest and moving onto her new shiny toy aka the next guy who messages her.

Then she’ll get bored of that guy after a few days of texting and move on- unless a guy has some giga status he might be able to stand out from the crowd and hold her attention- there’s plenty of good looking guys messaging her so being good looking just becomes a prerequisite for her to even reply to you rather than someting which will actually impress her

 

[Deleted member 17829]

I’m actually convinced that somehow this degenerate dating app/party/hook up culture actually leads to less sex happening overall. It’s like the paradox of choice. The average girl is just so overwhelmed by choices when she goes out and even more on dating apps that she just serially talks to guys for short periods of time before losing interest and moving onto her new shiny toy aka the next guy who messages her.

Then she’ll get bored of that guy after a few days of texting and move on- unless a guy has some giga status he might be able to stand out from the crowd and hold her attention- there’s plenty of good looking guys messaging her so being good looking just becomes a prerequisite for her to even reply to you rather than someting which will actually impress her

i guess this is where status @6ft4 really does become important after reaching tall and good looking smv

 

[Pendejo]

Just Nikomax bro