my parents are my biggest demotivators

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whenever i try something new they always ridicule and discourage me and whenever i rot all day because i didn’t proceed with my plans that they ridiculed me for, they still ridicule me. i can’t get a fucking break man holy shit if i looked good i wouldn’t get treated like this.
 
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I would say to move out but I don't know ur financial situation.

Just bear with it until u have enough money
 
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whenever i try something new they always ridicule and discourage me and whenever i rot all day because i didn’t proceed with my plans that they ridiculed me for, they still ridicule me. i can’t get a fucking break man holy shit if i looked good i wouldn’t get treated like this.
Same, anything I try to do is deemed bad but when I don't do anything after that it's also bad.
 
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I would say to move out but I don't know ur financial situation.

Just bear with it until u have enough money
they won’t even allow me to get a job
Same, anything I try to do is deemed bad but when I don't do anything after that it's also bad.
it’s like wtf do you want me to do with my life then?
 
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whenever i try something new they always ridicule and discourage me and whenever i rot all day because i didn’t proceed with my plans that they ridiculed me for, they still ridicule me. i can’t get a fucking break man holy shit if i looked good i wouldn’t get treated like this.
fuck em tbh who cares
 
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whenever i try something new they always ridicule and discourage me and whenever i rot all day because i didn’t proceed with my plans that they ridiculed me for, they still ridicule me. i can’t get a fucking break man holy shit if i looked good i wouldn’t get treated like this.
why do you fucking care about what others think

fuck them, you don’t need anyone in your life. Be You
 
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they say that i must study n chit if i wanna succeed as if that’ll get me anywhere

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Its true tbh
Knowledge is the only thing that matters in life, but not college type of knowledge

Study spirituality, religion, math, other skills etc. even conspiracy theories to an extent.
its the only way to understand this life
 
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I know the feeling, toxic parents are hell. Try your best to move out ASAP
 
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don't tell anyone your plans, the reason you were so demotivated was because you were looking for the validation of accomplishing something by just mentioning it

if you are unsure of something its unironically better to ask redditors than 90% of people you know
 
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I know the feeling, toxic parents are hell. Try your best to move out ASAP
they’re so weird dude. i try to help them out then they say sum chit like “it’s fine I’ll do it I don’t need your help” and then when I don’t help them they say chit like “you guys never help me with anything you’re all lazy and useless”.
 
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don't tell anyone your plans, the reason you were so demotivated was because you were looking for the validation of accomplishing something by just mentioning it

if you are unsure of something its unironically better to ask redditors than 90% of people you know
Good point tbh and I never accomplish anything in the end :/

whenever i try something new they always ridicule and discourage me and whenever i rot all day because i didn’t proceed with my plans that they ridiculed me for, they still ridicule me. i can’t get a fucking break man holy shit if i looked good i wouldn’t get treated like this.
Why do you have to listen to what other adults with their own flaws and beliefs say?
 
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you are your best friend, your parents probably want the best for you but in their perspective
 
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whenever i try something new they always ridicule and discourage me and whenever i rot all day because i didn’t proceed with my plans that they ridiculed me for, they still ridicule me. i can’t get a fucking break man holy shit if i looked good i wouldn’t get treated like this.
Talk to them as little as possible: "bye", "good morning", "good evening", "yes" and "no".

Your parents should be the first people who encorage you, but if they behave like that, just talk to them the minimum you need for their finances until you don't need them anymore.
 
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Move out when u go 2 uni
 
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