My penis is too big (r/offmychest)

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I’m 19. My dick is 21cm (8”3) when hard and 16cm (6”3) when flaccid. These are not numbers meant to brag (the intention is pretty much the contrary), I know how often men lie about their sizes but I have measured it carefully. It’s ruining my sex life and by extension my love life and self esteem.

I am lucky in the sense that it’s not hard to get women’s sexual attention, but every single time I meet up with someone in person it just ends up in frustration and disappointment. I’m quite girthy as well, so without extensive lube and foreplay there’s usually no way it fits, and when it does it often hurts for the girl. Blowjobs often end up being 50% teeth. I know sex isn’t everything in life and in relationships, but I’m cursed with a high sex drive. The only girl I’ve been with that could comfortably take me ended up spreading my dick pics all over school after a fight which was a terrible experience.

Finding big enough condoms is hard. Finding big enough boxers can be hard. I’m constantly afraid of it being visible through my pants even when flaccid. Getting a boner in public is a death sentence, I’ve literally been escorted out of a McDonalds by security and threatened with them calling the police on me just because of a random boner that came out of nowhere. It was extremely humiliating and I’ve learned to bolt for the bathroom when it happens. Trust me, you do not want this life, the sexual attention becomes shallow after a while. How I wish I could just chop this thing in half

EDIT: I’m extremely grateful and overwhelmed by all the advice, comments and suggestions. I can’t reply to it all but I’ll try working on myself and looking at it all from a different perspective
 
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Not “too big” lol
 
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Big dick struggle is real. Lots of girls point out my bulge in public and I just feel like i’m seen as an object, it isn’t fair.
 
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Big dick struggle is real. Lots of girls point out my bulge in public and I just feel like i’m seen as an object, it isn’t fair.
Having a big reproduction system takes a lot of blood too, it's unfair how we're seen as the epitome of success by other men but in reality they won't last a day in our shoes
 
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Having a big reproduction system takes a lot of blood too, it's unfair how we're seen as the epitome of success by other men but in reality they won't last a day in our shoes
Yes, i actually get headaches cause of how much blood rushes to my cock. A smaller penis would almost be more convenient
 
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Yes, i actually get headaches cause of how much blood rushes to my cock. A smaller penis would almost be more convenient
Exactly and the "pros" like sexual attention, women etc.. becomes shallow after a while and get shadowed by the cons, sometimes i just wish i can chop this thing and feed it to stray dogs or some shit
 
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tales from the dorito stained basements of a reddit soycuck
 
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Having a big reproduction system takes a lot of blood too, it's unfair how we're seen as the epitome of success by other men but in reality they won't last a day in our shoes
Tails from the shittiest asylium of mumbai
 
Most girls can take that, never listen to these soycucks on reddit.
 
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yeah, its probably real and hes like 8 inches NBP. im 7'2 NBP and ive encountered some of these problems in a small minority of girls. i can see how it would be if i had almost an extra inch. probably those problems would extend to most girls.
also seems like they dont care about my dick size since they still left me and ended up with a smaller guy (and seem to be much happier with him). females just dont care that much about sex and dont feel much with penetration (i have 60% rate of making girls orgasm with penetration but even them it seems it just doesnt matter. i dont think its that pleasurable for them)
 
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I can't take someone seriously when they measure their dick in cm.

cms are so tiny. I need an itty bitty measurement to quantify my peeny
 
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People bullying him at school after his ex leaked his pics be like

 
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a big dick is useless
 
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Which of my two pistols looks cooler
 
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the one with red on it is pretty cool
Yeah it’s a magazine pinky extension. They had different colors. I chose red. The other is just fitted with a pistol grip and flashlight laser combo 🔫 call of duty type beat innit mate
 
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Yeah it’s a magazine pinky extension. They had different colors. I chose red. The other is just fitted with a pistol grip and flashlight laser combo 🔫 call of duty type beat innit mate
purple would look better, or maybe pink actually
 
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7x6 ideal. Considered "big" and can enter most women prolly
 
get breast implants so you can give yourself a boobjob
 

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