My range of interests are too narrow

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I rarely leave my comfort zone and it shows. And I didn’t understand how friendships work enough. I should’ve went up my highschool friends arse and copied his normie interests so I could build a base.

No hobbies built up either. I was on the right track though.

But most people are like this. And usually people get pushed into stuff by brothers, cousins, their father, family etc. My brother gives generic advice and my parents never taught me culture or anything.

If I try anything I have to start from scratch which is demotivating and also takes time. And I have to be consistent.

It’s also easy to fall back into the comfort zone.
 
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Virtually 0% percent of people have hobbies. They have too many obligations to work/family/friends for time to build up talents. Pick up sports or an instrument.
 
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U got unlucky but at least u arent a braindead brainwashed oversocialized normie
 
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Virtually 0% percent of people have hobbies. They have too many obligations to work/family/friends for time to build up talents. Pick up sports or an instrument.
The whole point of all these activities is so I can make friends and build confidence throughout my teens. Most you can do in adulthood is work gym ldar so I’ve already missed out tbh.
 
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The whole point of all these activities is so I can make friends and build confidence throughout my teens. Most you can do in adulthood is work gym ldar so I’ve already missed out tbh.
You socialize while you’re participating in the activities
 
Go to a goth rave.
 
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You socialize while you’re participating in the activities
I know man I can’t believe I cancelled such an amazing social and personal development opportunity as a teen. No way am I socialising as an adult
 
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Nah most people only have music, Netflix and watching football. If you want to be Nt that’s enough.
 
Nah most people only have music, Netflix and watching football. If you want to be Nt that’s enough.
I don’t want to be an NT drone I want to be my true actualised self. Not this pathetic rotter
 
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